Do you ever find yourself spending sleepless nights studying, obsessing over post-college plans, or find yourself equating your self-worth with your academic success? This could be a sign of workaholism.
Workaholism is a prevalent challenge that many people face in 21st century America. The term “workaholism” derives from alcoholism due to its persistent and addictive nature. Coined in 1917 by psychologist and religious educator Wayne E. Oates in his book “Confessions of a Workaholic: The Facts about Work Addiction,” workaholism is defined as the compulsion to work excessively hard and long hours.
Two components of workaholism include behavioral traits and psychological traits. While behavioral traits often exhibit themselves through the action of working long hours per day, psychological traits are expressed by the inability to psychologically detach oneself from work. Although workaholics are positively perceived to be individuals whose high performance prompts career satisfaction, workaholism largely encompasses a multitude of negative consequences, such as work-life conflict and burnout. As society glorifies overworking in order to achieve success, workaholism can affect the lives of thousands of people worldwide.
The Bergen Work Addiction Scale (BWAS) was developed at the Faculty of Psychology, University of Bergen in collaboration with the Bergen Clinics Foundation, Norway, and Nottingham Trent University in the United Kingdom. It was created in response to the trend of the increase of excessive work. By testing themselves with the scale, people can find out their degree of work addiction: non-addicted, mildly addicted or workaholic.
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As someone who self-identifies or knows someone who identifies as workaholic, what does a typical day usually look like? What do you notice?
" Only thinks about work/money, spends more time at work then home, talks about work outside of work "
" They often stay up late working on assignments "
" Most of the time, my mind is constantly on what tasks I have to do next, especially on homework "
" To be frank, I've noticed that there is either too much time or never enough time to do anything. There is simply no in between. As someone who has FOMO, when I don't have work to do that is due in the near future, I feel as if I am not doing enough/I am useless and I instead use my newly found disposable time to assign for more tasks in the future. Once those tasks begin to pile up, I find myself at a loss for time and overwhelmed "
" I wake up to go to class, but I barely have enough energy to get through two classes without falling asleep in the second class of the day. I find that I have to take naps after my classes because I feel completely exhausted. After that, I go to my workspace to work on my assignments and projects from sunset to past midnight. "
How would you describe your/their work/life balance?
"I typically like to joke that I do not have a life outside of my work and extracurricular activities. It's funny to think about but I have also seen my relationships with loved ones begin to strain due to my incessant need to work"
" I think that I don't have much of a work to life balance. I find that I'm too busy to really have time for myself so when I do find it, I take a long time to rest and have time away from work and it never really feels like enough, even though it's an entire day or weekend (I guess this shows that I am extremely burnt out). "
" I work 14.5 hours a week and when I’m not working I’m in class. "
" They often miss out on social activities they would like to go to in order to spend time working on assignments. "
" There isn’t really a balance it’s more seeing your job/ work as your main priority in life and not really thinking of anything else "
How did you or your friend/family member become a workaholic (ex. pressure from parents, personal expectations)
" Money issues growing up didn’t want to struggle as they got older so they became a workaholic "
" Personal expectations "
" Largely due to the expectations placed upon them by themselves, their parents and the people around them. "
" Honestly, the becoming of me was a mix of immigrant parental pressure, that developed into personal expectations and have only yet been fed by upcoming competitive college applications in an aspiring competitive field "
"My parents want me to succeed and I want to make them proud. I paid a lot of money to be here so I should work hard to get my degree. I put a lot of pressure on myself to make my projects look good and function well. My major is already perceived as one that is filled with workaholics. I feel like I also have to work hard in order to prove myself, especially in a white male oriented world. "
How do your friends and family feel about your habits as a workaholic? OR How do you feel about your friend or family member’s habits as a workaholic?
" It’s isolating for that person and the people who love that person "
" I feel that they need to take it easy and relax "
" They often feel burnt out and stressed due to the amount of time they spend working, and don’t enjoy being a workaholic "
" My friends and family who I believed have long coddle and praised my workaholic behavior, have turned and said they now think I work myself too hard and need to drop a few things for my mental health. It's a bit off putting considering how much work I have put into being the person I thought they wanted me to be and now it's a part of myself that I don't feel like I can relinquish "
" My friends and family wish that I wasn't a workaholic, so I would be able to take care of myself, rest, and spend time with them more. "
" I suggested working this summer as well and my mom actually told me that I should be relaxing "
If you have anything else to share, please share any more experiences or stories you or someone you know may have had as a workaholic.
" Honestly, I want to be someone who is able to have work, do it well, stand out, and still feel like a functioning human being without the feeling of inadequacy "
" I stay at my workspace late with others in my major as well. I don't think that it's our fault, but the pressures that the major, work, and professor put on us that exceed the scope of our experience as first-years and amount of time that we have. I also see many other people in my major that have more experience, but have yet to figure out time management as well. "