Orientation to our Program/Separation Anxiety
Starting in a new setting is an exciting experience for a young child, however it can also be a difficult one initially. Even children who are very excited about “starting school” may suddenly realize that you are not going to be there. The apprehension that accompanies that realization is a normal reaction. We would like to offer several suggestions to help your child with the adjustment process.
Relax! Children will sense your apprehension; therefore, it is important that you feel comfortable with the routine. If you have questions or concerns, please ask us.
Come and visit with your child before the first day of attendance. The Back to School Bash would be an excellent opportunity for this.
Learn the names of your child’s future playmates and the teachers who will be caring for them.
In their first days, use Rooms pictures as a conversation starter with your child. What do you think you would like to do there? What did you play with today? Did you like the ____? etc.
Actively listen to your child as (s)he talks about their day. This will give insight to help the next day. If you know they like the blocks, that might be a great direction to get them thinking about the next morning.
Establish a “goodbye routine” and even practice it at home when leaving your child with a grandparent or spouse who typically doesn’t drop off. Try for example a special phrase like see you later alligator, one hug and two kisses. Try not to get trapped in the “one more hug, kiss etc.” Kids are amazing at this game! Unfortunately, it usually just makes a tough goodbye, tough for an even longer period of time.
Figure out what works best for your child. For most children a quick departure is best. It doesn’t prolong what they are dreading (you are leaving). Usually by the time parents have pulled out of the driveway, a crying child has stopped and is involved in playing.
If you are wondering how they are doing, please call or message on Rooms to see how they are doing. We don’t want you spending the day worrying about them and totally understand how difficult this transition is on parents as well as children.