Family Discussion Prompts: The One and Only Ivan
Reading The One and Only Ivan together is a wonderful way for families to spark conversations about friendship, kindness, courage, and what it means to care for others. Below are some guiding questions you can use at home to extend the conversation beyond the book.
How does Ivan show kindness to Ruby and the other animals?
What does true friendship look like in this story?
Can you think of a time you stood up for a friend?
Ivan makes a very brave choice in the story. Why was it difficult for him?
Have you ever had to do something brave even though it was hard?
What helps us build courage when facing change?
Ivan expresses himself through drawing. Why do you think art was important to him?
What’s your favorite way to express yourself—through art, music, writing, sports, or something else?
How can creativity help us share our feelings?
What does the story teach us about treating animals with respect?
How do the humans in the story show both positive and negative choices?
How can we make sure we show empathy in our own community?
Draw Together: Create your own family mural with words or pictures that represent kindness.
Acts of Kindness Jar: Brainstorm small ways your family can help others and pick one to do each week.
Family Connections: Talk about how Ivan’s “family” wasn’t just gorillas—what makes someone part of your family?