Most people are aware of the importance of taking care of our health. We know that we should eat healthy, drink enough water, exercise and get plenty of sleep. When we don't feel well physically, we take medicine and maybe even go to the doctor for advice. But what about when we don't feel well mentally or emotionally? Our mental health is just as much a part of us as our physical health, so why aren't we as comfortable giving it the same attention? One reason is that there is a lot of stigma associated with mental health issues. Some people feel that if they have a mental illness, others may see them as weak, different, or that there is something wrong with them. Some people might even start feeling that way about themselves. In order to make it more comfortable to address our mental health, we need to talk about it. We can do this by raising awareness, increasing education and having conversations about mental wellness, even when we are feeling good. The better we take care of ourselves everyday, the more prepared we will be to take action when we don't feel so well.
A self-care plan is a preventative measure in promoting health and wellness. By identifying activities and practices that support you, it takes the guesswork out of figuring out what to do on the spot. As you are developing your plan, be flexible. It may take time (and practice) to realize what works for you. Activities in your plan should be exercised regularly, not just when you may be struggling. Doing a little bit more everyday can help you stay on course for mental well being. Taking time for yourself does not mean that you are selfish or arrogant, it means you are making your health a priority.
Think of stress like a glass of water. It's not difficult to hold up a of water, even if you hold it for a couple of minutes. The longer that you hold it, the heavier it will become. Holding it for an hour, several hours, or the whole day can feel like a burden. Stress is the same way. The longer that you hold on to stress, the heavier and more unmanageable it can become.
Some stress can be good, as it acts as your body's warning sign that something may need your attention. It can motivate to you become more efficient and boost your confidence when you complete a task. But when left unmanaged, it can make your feel worn down and overwhelmed.
It's important to take some time to think about what makes causes you stress, because not everyone feels stress about the same things. This will help you to prepare before stressful events happen. Then think of what you can do to relieve stress and feel better.
Get plenty of sleep. Sleep allows our bodies to unwind and recharge for the next day. If you don’t get enough sleep, you could feel more easily overwhelmed and it can be difficult to manage emotions.
Drink water and eat well. The food that you eat provides your body with essential nutrients. If you don’t eat healthy foods, the deficiency of necessary vitamins can have a negative effect on your mood.
Get outside. The vitamin D from sunlight has a wonderful effect on our moods. And being able to breath in some fresh air can help lift your spirits.
Get moving. Exercise is great for mental health. It helps to release chemicals that boost our mood and reduce anxiety and stress. After a nice walk, the weight of negativity can just melt away.
Take a break from media. There is a lot of negativity out there, and we can decide what we allow to affect us. Limit how much time you are exposing yourself to things that will negatively affect your mood. You may not be able to change the things that upset you, but you can control how much you are exposed to it.
Focus on what you can control. Try not to spend too much time worrying about things that you have no control of. Think about the things that you have complete control over. You can control what you choose to do every day to protect your mental health.
Surround yourself with things that make you happy. Try to fill your day with things that make you smile and laugh. Laughter truly is the best medicine when you are feeling down, as it triggers the release of chemicals that improve your mood. Also try to engage your senses (like using aromatherapy, listening to good music, reading something pleasant, holding onto a soft blanket, drinking refreshing water).
Change your thoughts. How you think will affect how you feel. When negative thoughts start to creep in, try to think of something else. Try writing down what you are happy about or what you are grateful for. Whenever a negative thought invades your mind, read over the positive things you wrote down.
Connect with people. There are many ways to make connections with people, and keeping in touch with them when we feel down can help. The reassurance that we are not alone and that we are valued can be comforting.
Reach out for help! There are people that want to hear from you when you need help, so please seek assistance when you need it. There is no reason to suffer when there is help.
We all know that doing things that we love can make us happy. But have you ever thought about what it is that makes us feel happy? It’s the chemicals that our brain releases when we do something that we enjoy. Here are some tips to help you feel happy.
Dopamine
This chemical plays a role in how you feel enjoyment. It is responsible for motivating your body to take one step at a time
to reach a goal. You can activate this by:
practicing self – care eating your favorite meal listening to music
talking with your favorite person getting enough rest/sleep
Serotonin
This chemical plays a role in stabilizing your mood. It helps us to feel pride when we accomplish something, or get recognized
for something good by others. You can activate this by:
meditating or deep breathing spending time in the sunshine going out for a walk or run
spending time in nature practicing yoga remembering happy times
Oxytocin
This chemical is known as the hugging drug, as it is released when we have physical contact with others. It plays a role in
regulating your emotional responses when we feel love and friendship. You can activate this by:
helping others hugging someone giving a compliment
playing with a pet getting a massage cuddling
Endorphin
This chemical is released in response to pain, so it can help us continue on when we want to give up. It is the relaxation or “high”
we feel when we have pushed past the pain. You can activate this by:
dancing watching your favorite movie or TV show laughing
exercising acupuncture
Can you list some things that you can do to feel happy?
Mood Boosters
We all have times when we don’t feel like we are in the best mood, it happens to all of us! But there are things that we can do to try and lift our spirits, and turn the negative into the positive. Nothing will change if we don't make changes, so try something new! Keep this as a reference, and the next time that you don’t feel your best, make yourself try one (or more) of these tips.
Go outside Take a walk Get creative Laugh Yoga Take a nap Hug someone Listen to music Do some deep breathing
Journal Take a warm shower or bath Positive self-talk Get some light Smile 😊 Paint Meditate Talk to a friend Drink some calming tea Write a letter to someone Clean up, get organized
** Most importantly, be kind to yourself **
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