Socialization from a Distance


Teens who are normally in school together for six hours a day are now home without their peers—and the emotional effects of this isolation can be significant. Teens need social connection with one another to feel supported and calm. It also makes them feel less anxious, which is particularly needed during times of change or stress.


Here are some innovative ways for teens to interact

with their peers even while at home.

· Set up an Online date

Using a variety of social apps, such as Zoom, Facetime, and Google Hangout teens can arrange to "meet up" with one another in a virtual arena.

· Play a Game Online Together

· Mail Actual Letters to Each Other

It’s old fashioned for sure but writing and mailing a letter to a friend is still a lovely act. It may also be an opportunity for intimacy. And who doesn’t like to receive something personally addressed to them in the mailbox?

· Start a Book Club

Invite a group of friends to read a specific book and then set a time for them to virtually gather to discuss it.

· Cook and Dine Together

Eating a meal together is a classic way to socialize so set up some lunchtime get-togethers. Or start the date earlier with a simultaneous cooking experience—the teens can make the same lunch in their kitchens while online with one another. Afterwards, they can sit down to enjoy it together.

· Pick up a Phone

There are many other ways kids can stay in touch. A phone call, for example, might be just the novel outreach that they’ll cherish. Don’t be worried about initiating! Even if it’s really hard!