Parent Corner: Tips & Strategies

• Review completed work.
• Work with your student to establish goals, to organize their time, and to prioritize their responsibilities.
• Model and reinforce behaviors that clearly communicate that academics are a top priority.

• View our staff as your extended family.
• Participate in everything that you can (Team activities, orientations, fundraisers, family events, Parent Advisory Committee activities).
• Partner with us as we support your student. Discuss and reinforce our school’s behavioral expectations. Please help us to take advantage of the “teachable-moment” opportunities available when we implement accountability consequences for poor choices.

• View our teachers as willing and able partners.
• Contact each teacher directly.
• Email is typically the most effective and efficient method to make initial contacts.
• Share insights and “strategies that work.” You know your child best & we want to learn from you.
• Seek clarification whenever needed.

• Help your student to understand the difference between a “necessity” and a “privilege”
  • Necessity = food, water, oxygen, clothing, shelter, and medical care.
  • Privilege = Everything else. In the jr. high/high school world, this translates into material objects, entertainment sources, personal service (ex. manicure), parent-provided transportation, or parent-paid expenditures that are not required to sustain life.
    • Examples: cell phone and Internet usage; playing on a game console; buying name-brand clothing and shoes; transporting him/her to the mall or to a friend’s house; allowing him/her to “hang out” with friends; granting the always-desired “free time.”
• Help your student to examine his/her way of thinking
  • Ask: What do you think that you deserve? What do you think that you must earn?
  1. Challenge: Whether they admit it or not, most students believe that they are entitled to the things that we as adults consider “privileges.”
  2. Problem: If students are not required to EARN their privileges, then we are prompted to establish a negative consequence system. This means that we look for things to “take away” when our students do not meet our expectations.
  3. Solution: Adopt a new thinking paradigm & communicate this new philosophy to our students.

“The Big Picture”

• Help prepare your student for the real-world life experiences, where attendance, preparedness, productivity, and competency are prerequisites for gainful employment.
• Help your student to see himself/herself as capable & responsible.
• Help your student to understand and accept that the answer to “What’s in it for me?” is so much more than a getting a new_____, or receiving $______ for doing their homework or getting “good” grades.
• Help your student enhance his/her self esteem through academic confidence.
• Establishing appropriate positive rewards
• Work with your student to determine what is reasonable, logical, and desired.
• Random reinforcement of rewards tends to be more effective than attempting to acknowledge and reward every positive behavior.

1. More Money, Less Problems

Did you know that, on average, college graduates earn more than non-graduates? Maybe you did, but did you know that graduates with a bachelor’s degree earn up to 56% more per year than those with just a high school diploma.

If you’re looking for financial independence and stability, getting a degree puts you ahead on the salary ladder simply by having the degree which is one of the main economic benefits of college education.

2. Lower Unemployment Rates

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, in April 2018, college graduates experienced a 2.1% unemployment rate, compared to 4.3% for high school graduates. The overall unemployment rate for adults able to work was averaging 3.6%, so it’s easy to see why having a college degree has the potential to shield you from unemployment.

3. The Cost of Not Going to College is Rising

While the cost of a four-year public institution rose by about 34% between 2005-2015, the undergraduate enrollment in post-secondary institutions rose more by 37% from 2000-2010.

You may be wondering why the attendance has grown more despite the huge increase in costs, and that’s because the benefits of a higher education are growing faster than the costs.

To explain, the income of those without a degree is going down at a faster rate than the cost of tuition is going up. This means that the gap between getting a degree and not getting a degree is getting wider, faster.

4. Benefits of College Beyond You

Besides the personal benefits of college education, you may have a family, or intend to have one in the near future. Did you know that many of the jobs that provide benefits like family healthcare, retirement plans, social security matching benefits, typically require at least an undergraduate degree? It always makes sense to consider your family when deciding whether to go to college because your job, career satisfaction, and its benefits will play a role in your family life.

5. Broadening Your Network

You’ve probably heard the old saying, “Your network is your net worth.” College offers an opportunity to connect with people from all over the globe and different walks of life to make connections that could last a lifetime.

Beyond just friendships, these connections could pay off when you enter the job market. Experts estimate that 70%-80% of jobs aren’t advertised publicly. Often, despite your skills, you simply have to know the right people to secure the employment you seek.

6. Discover Your Passion

Whether you know exactly what you want to major in or not, most colleges require a set of general electives to be able to begin your “upper division,” or major-specific, coursework. This means that you’ll be learning about various topics that you may have never been exposed to before, which expands your chances to discover a new interest, passion or hobby.

For example, if you’re going to major in Computer Science and you have to take a Humanities elective like a writing class, you may discover a new love for words. Even though it’s technically outside your area of expertise, it allows for diversification and well-rounded thinking.

7. Learn Life Skills

There’s no denying that college is demanding. Between being a student, managing your course load, working a job, spending time with your family, and making time for your social life and hobbies, there is a lot to learn to balance when earning your degree.

The good news is that the skills you need to master as a student translate to personal benefits of a college education as they help teach time management, budgeting, working with others and resourcefulness.

8. Improve Your Communication and Analytical Skills

Besides the personal life skills gained, college coursework prepares you with better overall communication skills that are beneficial for the workplace. From oral communication and presentation skills to writing, working in a team and research, higher education teaches you to see the big picture and be able to analyze situations better so that you can be a problem-solver.

9. Be Healthy, Be Happy

According to a recent CDC study, those who obtain a bachelor’s degree or higher tend to live about 9 years longer than those who don’t. This doesn’t mean that simply going to college makes you live longer, but it is correlated to the fact that more educated people tend to make choices to positively affect one’s life span.

Additionally, when it comes to psychological health, since we spend so much time of our lives at work, it’s important to find a job that you enjoy doing. With more education, you’re naturally expanding the amount of opportunities to secure a job and grow your career.