Dear Aristotle,
At work, I tend to be late. Maybe only one or two minutes, but still it's late. Recently I have been making up excuses for being late, like car troubles or traffic or needing to get gas. It was fine at first, but lately I've been starting to feel bad about it. Not for being late-- my managers constantly let me off later than I'm scheduled (sometimes more than 15 minutes), and I figure it's eye for an eye-- but for lying about it. Should I feel bad? It's just a coffee shop, and it's not really hurting anyone. What do you think?
~Sebastian
Dear Sebastian,
Ah, what a plight it is, to be stuck between Scylla and Charybdis. Ha, sorry just a little Ancient Greek comedy for you. While it seems you have taken a note from Hammurabi, my opinions on the matter seem to sway in a slightly different direction. From what I read, I understand you to be showing up to work late. But your boss holds you later than agreed upon constantly. However, it isn't the fact of you arriving late that bothers you , or so you have written. Upon arriving late you tell small stories, of no truth to give reason to your lateness. It is having had said multiple false hoods which seems to have shaken you to ask me of the morality of your actions.
If your question would not have included the fabrication of stories, I would have been almost totally inclined to agree with your application of Hammurabis code. For I believe what you were attempting was a form of justice. You perceived that a wrong had been done unto you and in response you seek retribution. This may not be the exact case, as it seems your lateness was not premeditated, but just happenstance. Seeking justice would normally require one to do the "seeking". But this does not seem to be the source of your woes, so let me address the ethics of lying.
Lying is quite a nasty thing. Lying has no place in the world unless under the most extreme of conditions. It is the antithesis of honesty. In such extreme cases where telling the truth would cause harm to someone who unjustly deserves it , lying would be permitted. I do not believe your circumstance to be one of life or death, or even next to such an extreme. Everything you do is aimed at your goal of happiness. Saying lies seems to have given an immediate sense of happiness, but in retrospect is leading to a sense of guilt. So to answer your question of , "what do you think". I think lying is almost never a good action. For "liars when they speak the truth are not believed"~me. So go on. Strive to be honest, in which I am sure you will inch closer to happiness.
~Aristotle
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