Summary: Marley feels anxious about attending the Pride parade. But this year, their grandparent, Zara, is receiving an award for their work in the LGBTQIA+ community, and Marley is determined to go. They pack their bag with noise-canceling headphones, a fidget spinner, and their lavender bunny. Although Marley worries about the crowds and noise, they're relieved to find gender-neutral bathrooms and welcoming people. As Zara accepts their award, Marley connects with new friends and feels a sense of awe seeing Zara through their eyes. Despite some challenges, Marley feels part of a community.
Recommended Audience: K and up
Review: Marley's Pride is a heartwarming celebration of identity, well-crafted by Joëlle Reteners, a Black nonbinary author. Illustrator DeAnn Wiley brings Marley to life with sensitivity and depth, inspired by their own experiences as a Black, queer person with anxiety. The extensive back matter includes valuable resources, a brief history of Pride, information on pronouns, and flags featured in the book.
This authentic and uplifting story proves that a mental health diagnosis doesn't have to hold anyone back from enjoying life's special moments with loved ones. A must-read for its genuine representation and positive message.
Read an interview with the author at Pride Less Prejudice (a great resource for this topic!)
Written by Brook Pessin-Whedbee; Illustrated by Naomi Bardoff
Summary: This book explains that gender isn't just about whether you're a boy or a girl, but something more personal and individual. The book introduces a variety of gender identities beyond the binary, including nonbinary and genderfluid, using simple language and illustrations. It encourages acceptance, self-expression, and understanding of people who may identify differently from societal expectations. It's a gentle, inclusive way to for kids to understand the complexity of gender and support their own exploration.
Recommended Audience:: K and up
Review: Great book and easy to follow, the only part I would change the words is on page 18 when it reads: ...the grown-ups guessed "right" ..... I take that would and just leave the words on page 19 that explains what cisgender is.
Extra: Resouces in the back of the book for grown ups and discussion talking points
True You A Gender Journey (2022)
Written by Gwen Agna and Shelley Rotner; Photography by: Shelley Rotner
(Locals!)
Summary: True You is a book about kids being kids! Loving and joyful, strong and playful. The book then goes into that kids are all different genders and that is great whoever you are. The book gives examples of kids sharing about themselves.
Recommended Audience: 4-8 years old and beyond!
Review: This book is joyful. It has real pictures of trans-kids playing, smiling, and having fun together. The pictures are beautiful and provide an affirming representation for kids. The words are the words of the actual children and their feelings and thoughts on their own gender. The back of the book has wonderful inserts about growing up trans, coming out, family affirmations, a glossary of vocabulary, resources for children and families, and language suggestions. The authors are long time educators and photographers in Northampton, MA who knew there was need for a book about gender identity for a young age range that that could help dismantle biased cultural and social stereo types. They worked with experts in the field, transgender and gender nonconforming sensitivity readers, and relied on the real experts, the kids who shared their stories.
Extra: At the back of the book there is a glossary and websites and orginazations to look into for more info. Very user friendly.
Written by Airlie Anderson
Summary: This books starts off in a place where someone is being told they don't belong because they are neither...so then they go on an adventure and find the land of ALL and fit right in!
Recommended Audience: Young children - Elders
Review: It’s a super sweet that shows that everyone can belong just by being who they are. The illustrations are simple and telling at the same time.
Written by Fred Small; Illustrated by Alison Brown
Summary: A story based on the song "Everything Possible" about showing children that they can follow their dreams and be who they are as children and when they are grown up.
Recommended Audience: Young children - Elders
Review: A book and song that will fill your heart with rainbows and tears of love.
Listen to the Song and the Book!
Fred and others sing the song and narrate the story book!
https://nosycrowaudio.com/everything-possible-english-us-hb/
Summary: An affirming narrative about pronouns. Pronouns, when you find the right one, feel right and pronouns can change. This debut novel by activist and creator of the web-series Queer Kid Stuff is a good book to introduce pronouns and why they matter.
Recommended Audience: pre-k and up
Review: LOVED this book and how easy the author talks about pronouns. Linz reading the book:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_U50OIfKNY
Summary: Being You is part of a first conversations series that is meant to introduce the youngest of learners to the concepts of gender, identity, and self-expression. It provides simple and affirming language and starts the conversation of thinking about one’s own identities. It stresses that it is okay to be yourself and that everyone is unique. There is a section at the back of the book for educators and caregivers on tips to start and continue a conversation about gender with children.
Recommended Audience: Early Childhood: 2-5 years
Review: This is a great first conversation book that uses simple gentle language and has tips on how to have conversations with very young children for caregivers and educators. The author and illustrator are the creators of the First Conversation series that was created to provide young children and their caregivers with resources to discuss important topics like race, gender, and consent. They have been recognized for their work in early childhood education and social justice.
Summary: Ari, the main character is a young child trying to discover their personal pronouns. Ari’s Uncle Lior, who uses pronouns they/them comes to visit and together they go on an adventure through the neighborhood and talk with all the many neighbors. Ari learns about the diverse ways people identify themselves through pronouns like she/her, he/him, they/them, ey/em, and ze/zir. Ari realizes that it's okay to take time in finding the pronouns that feel like them and that it is also okay to change those pronouns as your own self-expression may change.
Recommended Audience: Early Childhood 4-8 years
Review: Both the author and illustrators’ words are they/them. It is a very supportive book that introduces young learners to the concept of gender-inclusive pronouns. It is a beautiful model of language and conversations for caregivers and educators to assist with adapting our language for gender diversity and pronoun use. The bright illustrations add to the engagement of the book.
Too Bright to See (2022)
Written by Kyle Lukoff
Summary: Too Bright to See is a a haunting ghost story about navigating grief, growing up, and find ones self. It's the summer before middle school and eleven-year-old Bug's best friend Moira has decided the two of them need to use the next few months to prepare. For Moira, this means figuring out the right clothes to wear, learning how to put on makeup, and deciding which boys are cuter in their yearbook photos than in real life. But none of this is all that appealing to Bug, who would much rather try to figure out what message the ghost is trying to tell her.
As Bug begins to untangle the mystery of who the ghost is and what they're trying to say, an altogether different truth comes to light, Bug discovers who they truly are as a person.
Review: The first middle grade novel by Kyle Lukoff introduces "Bug" who moves into her uncles house with her mom and begins to experience paranormal activates but she does not understand why this happening. After realizing that the ghost is not trying to scare Bug but instead is trying to relay a message, she starts to listen and understand who she is as an individual.
Review: If you or the youth you know are DC fans, this is a must! The pages give a description of the character and then there is a Data file box at the bottom of each page with the characters :
First appearance, Allies, Base and likes/dislikes.
Summary: Ashton Price and their best friend—and longtime crush—Ivy Santos are spending one final summer together at theater camp before heading to different high schools. Ash, the stage manager, is determined to make this year unforgettable, while Ivy shines as the lead in the camp’s musical. Ash hopes to finally confess their feelings, but with Ivy busy rehearsing with her co-lead and Ash consumed by the production’s challenges, their close bond is tested. As the summer draws to a close, Ash and Ivy face a turning point that will redefine their friendship—and their future.
Recommended Audience: 3rd - 7th
Review: This graphic novel is delightful. The pictures are vibrant, colorful, and detailed. The main character is loosely inspired by the author’s own experiences in theater camp. The characters span a wide range of races, sexualities, body types, gender expressions, and backgrounds, but these aspects are woven seamlessly into the fabric of the story rather than being used as sources of conflict or drama. This approach normalizes diversity in a way that feels organic and inclusive, offering representation without tokenism. The plot itself is simple but compelling, focusing on universal themes of friendship, self-discovery, and creative passion. Its straightforward narrative makes it accessible and enjoyable for readers of all ages. This book leaves you smiling and wanting more.
Summary: Ash, who experiences life alternating between feeling like a girl and a boy, constantly struggles with how others perceive them. Daniel, often labeled "too sensitive," longs for acceptance for who he is. When Daniel saves a dog named Chewbarka from being euthanized, he enlists Ash's help to care for their furry secret. As the two grow closer, their bond deepens into romantic feelings, but complications arise when Daniel assumes Ash is only a girl. This misunderstanding forces both teens to confront their truths, navigate their identities, and learn to communicate honestly.
With themes of love, acceptance, and self-discovery woven through a touching rescue story, this novel explores the complexities of living outside societal binaries and finding connection in unexpected places.
Recommended Audience: 3rd-7th Grades
Review: This book is written in a dual-narrative, offering insights into two main characters’ lives. It’s interesting to learn how they each interact with their families and friends as well as each other. Beyond that it’s a solid, middle school coming of age story. It does not have a very complex plot, so this would be good for younger readers. It would also be a good book for someone who is starting to understand gender identity.
Summary: Annabelle's life in a small private school is turned upside down when Bailey, a nonbinary student, joins their 6th-grade class. Bailey's confidence and individuality inspire Annabelle to explore their own identity and confront the homophobic behavior that's emerging at school. As Annabelle navigates their relationships and values, they're surprised to discover that their progressive parents seem uncomfortable with Bailey, forcing Annabelle to question their own family's dynamics and secrets.
Recommended Audience: 3 - 7th grade Lexile: 820
Review: Kyle Lukoff started breaking barriers in 2019 as a transgender author writing picture books like When Aidan Became a Brother. In 2021, Lukoff brought us the middle-grade transgender thriller Too Bright to See, but it's this 2022 middle-grade title that remains at the top of my recommended list.
What I like most about this coming-of-age story is that everyone is changing and growing. Kids and adults are forced to confront hard choices, and no one is perfect. Even Annabelle grapples with why she dislikes the other Annabelle in her class. The principal appears weak, allowing an unruly parent to disrupt a self-directed social studies project created by a new teacher struggling to navigate a school culture that is progressive in name only.
Summary: In preparation for an upcoming Powwow, Anang, an Anishinaabe two-spirited ten year old, decides they want to make a ribbon skirt to wear. With a little help from some spirits, Anang goes on an adventure to collect materials for the ribbon skirt.
Recommended Audience: 3rd - 6th grades
Review: The Ribbon Skirt is an easy read that grapples with some complex topics in a way that feels digestible. Readers get the opportunity to learn about Indigenous culture through a fun story that incorporates a little bit of magic while also including situations around friendship, identity and acceptance that would be relatable to many readers.
Summary: In this funny and heartfelt ghost story, 13-year-old Aidan Cross accidentally tosses his secret journal—containing a love story about his best friend, Kai—into the local haunted mansion on Yeet Street. To Aidan's dismay, his friends plan a sleepover in the creepy house to explore its eerie legends. Desperate to retrieve his journal, Aidan joins them, only to discover a real ghost named Gabby, who loves his writing. Determined to uncover the mystery of Gabby’s death and set her free, Aidan must also navigate the fallout when his journal is found, revealing secrets that strain his friendships. With supernatural threats looming and his feelings exposed, Aidan must confront his fears and embrace his true self—or risk being trapped in the cursed house forever.
Recommended Audience: 5th-8th Grades; 750 L
Review: This book is a fantastic and refreshing blend of themes, combining supernatural elements, mystery, humor, middle school angst, and an exploration of sexuality. While this combination might seem unusual, the story weaves these elements together seamlessly, creating a narrative that is both engaging and multifaceted. As a result, the book has broad appeal and can captivate a diverse audience, from those seeking a spooky adventure to readers drawn to heartfelt coming-of-age tales.
The plot is filled with unexpected twists and turns, keeping readers on their toes, and the unpredictable ending adds an extra layer of excitement and satisfaction. Aidan, the main character, is incredibly well-developed, with a balance of humor, vulnerability, and depth that makes him relatable and compelling. Readers will find themselves rooting for him as he navigates the challenges of friendship, self-discovery, and a ghostly mystery.
The supernatural aspect of the book adds a fun and imaginative dimension, enhancing the story without overshadowing its emotional core. This mix of heart, humor, and suspense makes the book both entertaining and thought-provoking. It’s a story that resonates with readers on multiple levels and leaves a lasting impression.
Summary: In this thrilling Latinx pirate fantasy, 16-year-old Mar León de la Rosa, a transmasculine nonbinary teen with the rare ability to control fire and ice, faces a perilous mission of revenge and redemption. On their birthday, el Diablo comes to claim a sinister bargain made by Mar’s father, threatening to take his life and the lives of their ship's crew.
Miraculously rescued by another pirate crew, Mar is confronted with a choice: sacrifice their own soul to save their father or lose him forever. Though their magic seems no match for el Diablo, Mar gains unexpected allies—Bas, the charming yet infuriating son of the pirate captain, and Dami, a gender-fluid demonio with mysterious motives.
As Mar’s courage grows, they must confront their fears, harness their powers, and navigate treacherous waters filled with impossible choices. With revenge, revolution, and freedom on the line, Mar’s journey is one of defiance, magic, and self-discovery in the face of certain death.
Recommended Audience: 7th-9th Grades; 860L
Review: This was a fast-paced book that was difficult to stop reading. It integrated elements of folk tales and fantasy with realistic fiction with modern and relatable teen issues. There was an interesting parallel within the main character, Mar, relating to hiding their magic and their gender identity. Similarly, this parallel could also been seen in how the other characters reacted when they found out about both of these aspects of Mar. While I have read other books about characters who hide their gender identity with their appearance or hormone blockers, this is the only book I have read (so far) where a character talks specifically about a chest flattener and how it makes them feel - physically and emotionally. It gave an intimacy to the book that I was touched by. In addition to the theme of gender identity, it was everything you expect a swashbuckling adventure to be.
I really liked listening to this as an audiobook. At the end, the author, Gabe Cole Novoa, discusses why they wrote the book and how they researched pirate lore and pirate history in order to make the book more authentic. Novoa talks about how little literature there is about Latinx and queer pirates, yet when looking at actual primary documents there is plenty evidence for both.
Summary: 16-year-old Bianca Torre, an anxious, introverted nonbinary teen birder, stumbles into a murder investigation after witnessing a plague-masked killer take their neighbor’s life through a birdwatching telescope. When the death is dismissed as a suicide, Bianca must confront their fears—ranging from social anxiety to breaking into a crime scene—to uncover the truth.
With the help of their anime-loving friend Anderson Coleman and their crush Elaine Yee, a fellow birding enthusiast, Bianca dives into an investigation that spirals into a bizarre and dangerous conspiracy. As the trio unravels the mystery, the killer becomes aware of their sleuthing, turning Bianca’s fears into a life-or-death reality.
Intended Audience: 9th-12th Grades
Review: I really enjoyed this book. The main character, Bianca, is struggling with anxiety. This is shown in a humorus way while also making readers aware of how crippling it can be which many people will relate to. Bianca is also worried about sharing their sexuality and gender identiy, who to come out to, if anyone, and what pronouns to use. The other characters are delightfully diverse and quirky. Above all though, this is a murder mystery. It is suspenceful with unexpected twists and turns. At times it’s quite creepy and might not be a good choice to read before going to sleep. It was great!
Written by: Hari Conner
Summary: "George has major problems: They’ve just inherited the failing family estate, and the feelings for their best friend, Eleanor, have become more complicated than ever. Not to mention, if anyone found out they were secretly dressing in men’s clothes, George is sure it would be ruination for the family name. Meanwhile, Eleanor has always wanted to do everything "right," including falling in love—but she’s never met a boy she was interested in. She’d much rather spend time with her best friend, George, and beloved cousin Charlotte. However, when a new suitor comes to town, she finds her closest friendships threatened, forcing her to rethink what "right" means and confront feelings she never knew she had" (Publisher Copy).
Intended Audience: 10th-12th Grades
Review: This is a sweet and moving retelling of Jane Austen's classic novel, Emma, mixed in with a touch of real life queers figures from history like Anne Lister mixed in. Hari Conner does a wonderful job incorporating the complexities of racism and colonialism in the 19th century. For readers who are very familiar with Emma, there may be some mild confusion around names but overall this was a really beautiful and sweet story. I particularly loved the approach to George's gender identity and sexuality, which felt very authentic both to the time period without feeling dated for modern readers. The author/illustrator is nonbinary and the novel includes really great historical notes, sketches from drafts, and other interesting backmatter. This would be a great historical fiction honors option for LBGTQ Lit or British and Irish Lit, and I think would appeal more to older high school students who perhaps need a more accessible reading level or love graphic novels.