Here are some easy questions to ask your students about growth mindset, categorized for clarity:
Understanding Challenges & Effort:
What's something you found a little tricky to do today? (e.g., tying shoes, a puzzle, a game)
What did you do when it felt a little tricky?
Did you keep trying, or did you give up right away?
How did it feel when you kept trying, even if it was hard?
What's something you've learned to do that used to be hard? (e.g., riding a bike, counting, writing your name)
What did you have to do to learn that hard thing?
Learning & Growing:
What's something new you learned today?
How do our brains grow? (You can use an analogy like a muscle getting stronger!)
What happens when we make a mistake? Is it a bad thing, or can it help us learn?
What can we learn from our mistakes?
If you don't get something right the first time, what can you do next?
Who is someone you know who keeps trying even when things are hard? What do they do?
Persistence & Belief in Themselves:
What's something you're really good at now that you weren't good at before?
How did you get good at it?
What happens if you say "I can't do it"?
What happens if you say "I can try!" or "I can learn how"?
What's a time you felt proud because you kept trying something?
If you're having trouble with something, who can help you?
Bonus - Open-Ended & Reflective:
What's something you're excited to learn or get better at?
If you could give advice to a friend who was feeling frustrated, what would you tell them?
What's your favorite thing about learning new things?
Tips for Asking:
Keep it simple: Use clear, child-friendly language.
Be encouraging: Praise effort and persistence, not just the outcome.
Use real-life examples: Connect to their experiences (e.g., "Remember when you were learning to zip your coat?").
Make it a conversation: Listen to their answers and ask follow-up questions.
Model growth mindset yourself: Talk about your own challenges and how you overcome them.