CHANGING HABITS
Assalamualaikum
Mostly we are focused on the bad habits of our children but we can't realize that every single child can act or react by his vision, means that elders or parents can provide an appropriate environment to their children so that they cannot get into any bad habit. And must use check and balance policy in this part.
But sometimes we observed that a child is raised in good environment but still there is something wrong he or she is doing, that's happened very often. The reason is that parents sometimes try to provide best to their children and for that, they try working harder and harder in their carrier or they have sometimes some other important activities to deal with, but they couldn't realize that because of this they are not willing to give attention to their kids (which is also an important part of their life) and as a result the child adopt some bad habits which are not right for them for instance bad company and because of it smoking, drugs, drinking, inappropriate parties and some more too.
So there are some point to mention in these cases.
1- Parents must have their priorities and kids must be their first priority. (Becuase you might get another job but you can't get your child back if got for bit anything happened)
2- Must have great communication between cchildren and parents.
3- Let your kids participate in house courses.
4- Share small problems with your kids and let them understand your situation and ask them for their advice also.
5- Ask them about their lives, what exactly happened on that and discuss their issues as a friend not as a parent.
6- Allow them to share anything anytime.
7- Give them confidence that anything anytime thy did wrong if they share honestly nothing happened to them. no abusing, no scrolling.
8- Teach them what our Religion need from us.
These are some important point and by this practice a child has his own confidence and he/she never did wrong.
Sana Kamran
Lead Life
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