How To Make A Guy Fall in Love With You

If you're here you have that special someone I want you to think of them right now think of them.

you know this is the person that you came here for I don't know if you've tried to shoot your shot or you haven't even talked to this person do they even know you exist it's okay we're gonna talk about it from all spectrums .

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams , When you are over 30 and want to stop dating and start building a family many women find it is hard to find the right man. Some may even think it is too late.

you're fine everything I'm gonna say is gonna be a pliable applicable you know what I'm saying for now by the way I'm just gonna be talking from a standpoint of girls like a girl trying to get a guy but it is applicable to everybody this is open to everybody it's just easiest for me to think of.

okay so I think the biggest mistake that girls make so often is just like trying to be so available and like be superwoman for these guys, that's not how you're gonna get them do not wear your heart on your sleeve rule number one, don't do that because when you do that you're kind of like showing your hand this is a card game , okay we cannot show our head it's still mysterious poker face baby come on.

I don't know what type of transformer is outside right now but I'm gonna need them to shut it down so yeah I think the biggest mistake that girls make all the time is just being too available hey hey here's my last text hey hey like no no..

you know how many other girls probably doing the same thing especially if you're dealing with like a player girl you were messing it up based off of rule number one of not being like so available rule number two is making him chase you this is cat-and-mouse you're the mouse never be the cat if you want to be the mouse right, for example if you guys have seen my was outside chick video with my current boyfriend you will see in our like story exactly what I did I want you guys to use that as a blueprint once you sense a little bit of interest at first little that little bite you know you got to hold on to that and drag that thing out for example if the first time somebody's asking you for your number ,don't give it like we'll see maybe I don't know you like that yeah we'll see play the game sister you can't just be like it here like you can't be so height because you think damn that was easy that's boring – guys you know what I'm saying think about playing a game with a five year old and you just you're gonna beat them every single time that's boring we want competition you have to be interesting you have to seem different from the other girls because you are different from the other girls that's what I did in it work I'm just saying make it a chaise make him work for it when you guys try to like just be so quick with it because you're so happy that, this person has given you the attention that you like wanted from them which is a natural feeling but you've got to be able to curb that together real quick sweetheart like you can't put those emotions out there like that because that's not fun for a guy that's not interesting ,that's not gonna make him want to chase you, so if you want to seem different if you want to be harder to get if you want to make him work for it don't give them digits up baby or even if it isn't a number if it's like Instagram or something like that be playful don't be so nice.

so what are we gonna hang out I don't know, we'll see wait for him to be like what are we gonna hang out another second we'll see I'm kind of busy right now but I don't know what were you thinking hmm like very like I don't need me type of energy now that's assuming that that person already is interested in me if we're talking about a stranger or we're

talking about somebody doesn't know you exist or somebody you just haven't spoken to yet there is a couple different things.

we must do first if you see this person in person like in real life not over the phone you need to make sure that you're passing by this person, do you understand what I'm saying like if you get an extra opportunity if there's a different routes you can take to walk past this person like his locker or something take the route and make sure when you're taking the route you look up to park you know I'm saying , I'm not saying you need to have your face beat buddy out that is that like no , I'm not saying you need to do that, at all I'm saying to you that you need to make sure you're not like busted must didn't crusted that day you know like it's some days where I just be looking crazy that wouldn't be the day to take that second round.

okay we want to make him enticed you could look cute in some sweatpants in a sweatshirt you definitely can but just make sure you're not busted must have encrusted if there's a guy at work if you can walk around his cubicle instead of going you know the straight way, do you wait you gotta try to snatch his attention , there's little conversation starters that you can like have so like I told you guys in my how to shoot your shot I think how I told you guys and that one it's just like it's at school asking what the homework was little things about lunch little things about events clubs like ask a question where you see an opportunity there's gonna be a little hole of opportunity and you just go through it you are the mouse scurry now this is somebody that you are either too scared to talk to in person or you don't see in person like if it's Instagram or something like that you can be inconspicuous girl , okay so let's do this right let's say you're trying to get their attention and you don't want to be like out right and like leave a comment so you just kind of sneakily like you know let's say you do that right No Mas you can't keep going because that's already like you're already making the first move which is okay it's just you don't want to have to keep initiating the first moves because then he'll never have to do it therefore he won't do it'll be too comfortable some other girls make him work harder got me you can like those pictures, but then keep it cute wait for him to respond to you wait for him to like your pictures back wait for him to DM you wait for him to swipe up on that story like, don't keep being the cat now something that I think personally is like important is just like being the light in the room being the witty one being the funny girl like that is what I think people get interested in now there's also interest in like the mysterious girl who's kind of like after herself, but most of the time most of the interest is gonna be in to the girl that everybody wants everybody's looking for her she's that girl you're that girl.

so if you're around him or you're talking to any more anything like that be witty be funny try to be clever with your comebacks trying to be quick with your comebacks like work on comebacks and jokes with your friends and then come back to him and be like ooh God and he's like ding like that's interfered like that like men like competition unless now let me tell you this unless you pick the misogynistic man or unless you picked a weak man that needs to like shut his woman up to feel bigger about himself and I already know there's gonna be a couple of those in the comments hi if you like if you picked a weak man or whatever that like needs to feel big by himself by putting you down,

then he's not gonna want you to be the life of the party he's not gonna want you to be witty and funny and give him a run for his money Oh bars but yeah he's not gonna want you to do that because he needs to shut you up step on you

so he's bigger he's taller he's louder by silencing your voice that's not a boo boo and if you think that he might even leave via that type of man let him go cut him off you will be miserable I promise you I don't understand that like why as women and do we feel like we have to like make ourself small to like make men bigger that's just not what it is and I know with my man it's not like that be that and if you are being that and he seems turned off and you don't want him anyway because that is a miserable life you're setting yourself up for failure, let yourself know that that was a red flag you're like oh great that's a weak man next now another important thing is if you guys have gotten to the point already where you're texting or you're talking and stuff like that backing up is also a great idea

let's say you take two hours cuz you were busy doing something and you text them and they respond right away are you doing something like make them feel like you're busy too or be busy like do other stuff you have a life of your own as well they aren't your first priority because they should not be at this point at all you have other stuff too let's say let's say two hours go by and the guy hasn't texted you right and then you text me he's like hey sorry I was doing good other than that, don't take him back right away duplicated it know you're busy - sweetheart you don't need an excuse just how you like no ways it's fine how are you period you have stuff to do - this man is not at the top of your priority list and if he is you need to get some hobbies in activities because I know what it's like to be like oh like I just like want him so bad that but that shouldn't be consuming a majority of your time you have a life of your own and you need to make sure you're at the top of your game before you enter something like that as well so go do some girl be busy damn do your homework do some work work do something a hobby shoe a therapist I don't know like you got to do something like think about even as girls like how much more often we talk about like the bad ways right like I have so many friends.

let's stick with the bad boy time and time and time and time again no matter how nice the first guy was if that first guy was super nice super available always doting on her she was bored you have to think that way like you have to think like what can I do to string him and like make him more and more and more and more interested in me if you jump out the gate like getting your whole life story you're available every second of the day you're texting him first every time you're calling him first you're making the plan he doesn't have to do anything therefore he won't do anything if you're the one that's doing all the effort why should you make an effort .

so play cat Mouse play go back and forth with it also again if you do not have a man I think men really love like intelligence and like decent conversations so like if you can't hold a conversation like I have guy friends great and they'll be like okay yeah like she looks good, but like when we talk is just like in one ear out the other like airhead you do not need to be that girl you don't have to be mrs. genius but be able to hold a conversation with somebody else about substantial things especially if you're going on like dates or you're texting or you're talking this is the time to impress somebody this is the time to be like hey I'm my own person and I can hold it down, I don't need you to speak for me I don't need none of that that's how you get the moogle, it doesn't have to be like what's the quadratic formula , no that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about deep conversation what do you feel about this how do you feel about this like deep thing so you can get to know each other and see if you're even compatible because truthfully this is the truth that you don't want to hear but truthfully no matter how good

somebody looks and how like Kiki key it is if you guys don't feel somewhat similarly on like important events and forint topics you're gonna clash a lot and that might be the demise of the relationship regardless, so it's important to get these things out it's important for you to initiate them as well so that he looks at you like them like she knows what she wants like she's serious that's a woman we're not little girls but also be able to have fun be able to make jokes be able to go back and forth and Kiki be able to make fun of each other like that's the fun of a partner as well I don't want you guys to be so serious and be like looking for this plaything with this, but like it's always serious no but it needs to be interjected it's also attractive when everyone just like knows her worth so.

it's like if he's not really giving you the energy like that that you feel like you need or like the effort fall back completely that's gonna show him like okay she knows her worth like she knows like she can't be played like that if you keep like doing a whole like entertaining him and stuff like that when he's literally giving you like no type of effort he's just not gonna be interested because it's like she doesn't really know her value because a woman that knows her value wouldn't allow me

to be treating her this way but then when you do that's like a wake-up call him as oh crap I don't want to lose this girl like let me get back on it so guys that is basically everything, for now I'm probably gonna make a part two today's.