1. Please be respectful to all other members and organizers.

2. If you sign up for an event and you're unable to attend, please be sure to change your RSVP status so someone else can go. If you RSVP and no-show for 3 events, you may be temporarily banned from the group or attending some events.

3. Racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or any other bigoted comments of this nature will not be tolerated.

4. This is not a dating group. While we understand that members may form more intimate connections with each other, the primary goal of this group is to create friendships and foster a positive social atmosphere for everyone. Unwelcome advances toward other members will not be tolerated.

5. Unless explicitly stated, events are strictly 18+. This group is intended for people in their 20's and 30's, and while there is some flexibility for your plus ones - most events will not be suitable for minors.

6. Some events may be hosted at places that serve alcohol. While we don’t mind attendees having a drink or two, excessive alcohol consumption or rowdy behavior will not be tolerated - especially if said behavior poses a danger to oneself or others.

Breaking any of the stated rules may result in either a temporary or permanent ban.

Our main goal is to create an atmosphere where all members feel included and welcome. Any behavior that impedes this goal will be dealt with on a case by case basis.

Many of our events require reservations in advance. When that’s the case, cancellations made less than 24 hours before the event will be marked as no-shows. We understand this might feel a bit strict, but there are a couple of important reasons behind it:

1. It opens a spot for someone on the waitlist

As our group has grown, many of our events now fill up quickly and have active waitlists. When someone doesn't show up and hasn't cancelled in time, it prevents another member—who really wanted to attend—from taking that spot.

Cancelling more than 24 hours ahead gives the event hosts time to reach out to those on the waitlist and offer them your spot.

2. The venue needs a heads-up

Restaurants, bars, and activity spaces often make special accommodations for our group. That means they might rearrange space, bring in extra staff, or set aside resources just for us.

Some venues even charge a fee if there is a high number of cancellations. In other cases, there are a few venues that require a deposit from the person making the reservation. If our group shows up significantly smaller than planned, the host may be held responsible for those costs.

By updating your RSVP early, you help us avoid these fees and give the venue time to adjust. It’s a simple way to respect both the effort of our event hosts and the businesses that work hard to accommodate us.

3. We want to maintain good relationships with our venues

The better we are at communicating and showing up as expected, the more likely venues are to welcome us back and make special accommodations in the future.

Being respectful of their time and effort helps us build trust, which can lead to perks like group discounts or priority bookings down the line.

If an event has a last-minute cancellation policy, it will always be noted in the event description. The host will also send out a reminder message 1–2 days before the event to encourage members to double-check and update their RSVPs if needed.

We totally understand that life happens—unexpected things come up, and sometimes you just can’t make it. If something urgent or out of your control prevents you from attending, please reach out to the host to let them know. We won’t know it was an emergency unless you tell us.

Thanks for being thoughtful and helping keep things running smoothly for everyone involved!