DISCIPLINE WITH RESPECT

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction: The Principle of Respect

• An Educational Challenge
• The Relationship Factor
• Elements of Respectful Relationships
• Why You Should Buy This Book
• What You Will Find in this Edition

1. The Principle of Purpose

• Purpose and Timing
• Purpose and Plan
• Purpose, Plan, and Discipline

2. The Principle of Advertising

• Personalize Your Message
• Try a New Formula
• Strengthen Your Message Using Signs
• Interactive Communication
• Target Your Audience
• Be Persistent

3. The Principle of Leadership by Example

• The Role Model Effect
• Questions Teach Discrimination
• Four Sources of Role Models

4. The Principle of Coaching

• Specific Feedback
• Corrective Feedback
• Timeliness

5. The Principles of Encouragement

• Encouragement Builds Good Habits
• What’s Wrong with Rewards?
• What About Giving Allowances?
• When Encouragement becomes Discouragement
• When Encouragement Seems to Fail

6. The Principles of Changing Behavior: Guidelines

• How Society Tries to Change Behavior
• Negative Consequences and Attitude
• Communicate Negative Consequences
• Connect Negative Consequences to Misbehavior
• Negative Consequences Should Be Fair

7. The Principles of Changing Behavior: Applications

• The Reprimand
• Loss of Points and Repayment
• Loss of Privileges
• Corrective Action
• Time-out

8. The Principle of the Pure Spring

• The General Principle
• Substitution at the Micro Level
• Substitution at the Macro Level

9. The Principle of Choice

• Step One: Define the Problem
• Step Two: List the Alternative Responses
• Step Three: Choose the Best Alternative

10. The Principle of Relationship Repair

• Understanding Forgiveness and Reconciliation
• Learning to Let Go of Past Hurts
• Seeking Forgiveness and Sincere Apologies
• Reconciliation
• Big Problems

Chapter Notes

References

Resources

Acknowledgements

About the Author