How to Attract Older Women: 12 Tips for Younger Guys

Dating Older Women

How to Flirt With Single Older Women and Divorcées

How can you attract a middle-aged woman or date an older women? To seduce a woman in her 30s, 40s or older, stop thinking about your sex appeal and start thinking about how to show that you are a mature, charming and attractive young man.


Pop culture portrays older women as cougars chasing after attractive young men. This article avoids any misconceptions about dating and dating older women. Instead, focus on real advice for young men looking to impress single divorced women in their 30s, 40s and beyond.

12 Tips for Attracting Older Women (and Making a Relationship With Her!)

  1. Find common interests or things to do together.

  2. Dress modestly.

  3. Praise him for making him feel attractive.

  4. Be polite; behave like an educated person.

  5. Don't be the loudest person in the room, stay calm.

  6. Listen, let them take charge of the conversation.

  7. Be fun and spontaneous, remind him of his youth.

  8. Be a gentleman, show him that you can be a gentleman.

  9. Don't point out the age difference when talking to older women.

  10. Be mature for your age.

  11. Stop thinking he just wants sex.

  12. Do not brag about your sexual experiences, he will see you.