Adults need
friends too.
Together4 hosts quirky hybrid events that promote genuine connection by reducing small talk.
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Events
Events
EACH EVENT IS DISTINCT AND SEPERATE FROM ONE ANOTHER
OverDinners
OverDinners
Mingle at a catered dinner where you sit with different people at each round of appetizers. After everyone has finished eating in many small groups, everyone gets together for a mixer full of people you have already met, and others you've had your eye on. (50 People)
In the Spotlight
In the Spotlight
People from the audience take the stage and spotlight one person at a time. Those in the spotlight answer a series of thought-provoking questions from the audience on meaningful topics. Eventually, others get the spotlight and the process continues.
Table Talk
Table Talk
A dinner party focused on just one single conversation, with only one person speaking at a time. The purpose is simple: to listen, learn, and inspire one another through meaningful dialogue around a particular topic. ***This month's topic: Artificial Intelligence.***
Toast to Toast
Toast to Toast
A theme is chosen beforehand and every guest will tell a personal story that ends with a pithy toast where everyone clinks glasses at the end. These toasts are accompanied by a flight of various drinks - after each toast, the drinks are rotated, keeping sips small while adding variety.
Speed Friending
Speed Friending
Meet 7-8 new people in one night and decide if you’d like to connect. A spark between two people can develop in many ways, so this event makes connecting platonically easy and fun one-on-one and in a larger mixer afterward.
Speed Hating
Speed Hating
This strange variation on speed dating takes the pressure off "selling yourself" by creating opportunities to bond over what annoys or frustrates you. It may sound negative, but we're positive you'll have a good time with this unconventional approach.
Reciprocity Ring
Reciprocity Ring
Get together with members of your community to make a request to the entire group. Everyone is then tasked with pooling their collective expertise, resources, and connections to help fulfill each of the requests made. Its amazing what you can accomplish when an entire group puts their energy behind one individual’s needs.
More to come
More to come
There are many additional events in development as you read this. For example: Listen4Love
What do you want to get together 4?
What do you want to get together 4?
About
About
We host events that empower people to meaningfully interact with others in ways designed to promote genuine connections while reducing small talk. We gather in creative, playful, and provocative ways that leave participants feeling more connected to their neighbors and themselves.
Together4 gatherings are different - they are infused with just enough structure to make it easier for people with different personalities, preferences, and interests to get in sync and create memorable moments together in a welcoming environment. These curated experiences aim to accelerate the transition from total strangers in a room to a group of people who feel seen and heard.
Mo Goltz started Together in 2023 in Chicago after 5 years of event planning on the west coast.
Community Values
Community Values
Camaraderie
Make new friends. Help others feel welcome; afterall, we are all hosts.
Curiosity
Explore the unknown. Get to know other people. Be open to learning and trying new things along the way.
Fun
Enjoy today through play. Find ways to amuse yourself and make others smile.
Authenticity
Speak your truth. Go beyond the surface and share what’s real.
Mindfulness
Be here, now. Be present in the moment and put your phones away.
⏷ Event Types
⏷ Event Types
Community
Get to know your neighbor by sharing things about yourself
Entertainment
Have fun and make friends while doing or learning about something new
Relating
Group events that take the pressure off meeting that special someone
Business
Transforming the work world from the transactional to the relational
Spirituality
Integrate the heart, mind, and body to discover more meaning in life
⏷ Event Sizes
⏷ Event Sizes
Small: 8-15 people
The ratio of intimacy to intensity favors intimacy generating a nuanced and refined energy that is only possible when the group size is limited. More intimate events are successful because of the depth and strength of connections formed is easier to develop when size is limited, attention is constrained, and there are less distractions.
Medium: 16-50 people
The ratio of intimacy to intensity favors balance between the two ends of the spectrum. Medium sized events are successful because they still generate a sense of connection among most, while adding spark of energy to the mix created by the zest of unraveling the mystery of of meeting new people over the course of an event.
Large: 50+ people
The ratio of intimacy to intensity favors intensity, generating a communal spark - a shared energy that is only possible when lots of people congregate. Larger events are successful because of the buzz generated when lots of people come together. These events are large, but don't always feel that way because the frequency of that energy is modulated over the course of the event, and is dialed up and down to provide contrast and enhance accessibility for various types of people.
⏷ Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
⏷ Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
When will Togeteher4 start hosting events?
Summer 2025
Why is this company called Together4? What's the 4 for?
The number 4 is short for the word for, as in the phrase "We get together for..." [insert purpose of gathering here]. The 4 gave the name a unique flair and plus the domain name wasn't taken! And thus, Together4 was born.
Who are these events for?
People in their 20's, 30's, and 40's. Some events are 20-40, while others are 20-30 and 30-40.
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1. What is Together4?
1. What is Together4?
Together4 is a company that hosts unique and engaging events designed to foster genuine connections among adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. The events prioritize meaningful interactions and minimize superficial small talk through creative formats and structured activities.
2. What makes Together4 events different from other social gatherings?
2. What makes Together4 events different from other social gatherings?
Together4 events are intentionally curated experiences that go beyond typical social gatherings. They incorporate structured activities and unique formats that encourage interaction and deeper conversations, helping participants connect on a more authentic level. Whether it's themed discussions, interactive games, or shared experiences, each event is designed to facilitate genuine connection and create memorable moments.
3. What types of events does Together4 host?
3. What types of events does Together4 host?
Together4 offers a diverse range of event formats, including:
OverDinners: Enjoy a catered dinner where you rotate through different seating arrangements for each appetizer course. This allows you to meet a variety of people before joining a larger mixer.
In the Spotlight: Participants take turns being in the spotlight and answering thought-provoking questions from the audience on meaningful topics.
Table Talk: A dinner party centered around one specific conversation topic, with only one person speaking at a time. This format encourages attentive listening and insightful dialogue.
Toast to Toast: Guests share personal stories aligned with a pre-selected theme, culminating in a pithy toast accompanied by a flight of different drinks.
Speed Relating: A fresh take on speed dating, Speed Relating allows participants to connect platonically or romantically with nine new people in one evening.
Speed Hating: This unconventional event encourages bonding over shared dislikes and frustrations in a fun and lighthearted way.
Reciprocity Ring: Participants share requests with the group, and everyone collaborates to leverage their skills, resources, and connections to help fulfill those requests.
4. What are the community values of Together4?
4. What are the community values of Together4?
Together4 is built on the values of:
Camaraderie: Building friendships and fostering a welcoming environment for everyone.
Curiosity: Embracing the unknown, getting to know others, and being open to new experiences.
Fun: Engaging in playful activities, finding amusement, and bringing smiles to others.
Authenticity: Expressing oneself truthfully and sharing what's real beyond surface-level interactions.
Mindfulness: Being present in the moment and engaging fully without distractions.
Logistics and Participation
Logistics and Participation
5. When will Together4 events start?
5. When will Together4 events start?
Together4 events are scheduled to launch in Summer 2025.
6. What does the "4" in Together4 stand for?
6. What does the "4" in Together4 stand for?
The "4" in Together4 is a shortened version of the word "for." It represents the idea of gathering "for" a specific purpose, whether that's connection, shared experiences, or personal growth. It also adds a unique touch to the company name.
7. Who are Together4 events for?
7. Who are Together4 events for?
Together4 events are primarily designed for adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Some events may have specific age ranges, such as 20-30 or 30-40, to cater to different demographics.
8. How can I stay updated on Together4 events?
8. How can I stay updated on Together4 events?
You can join the Together4 events waitlist to receive updates and notifications about upcoming events. You can also listen to their overview podcast for more information about the company and its mission.
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