The Addams Family Dynamics
Cordella Byrge
Cordella Byrge
In 1938, American cartoonist Charles Addams created a series of stand-alone comic strips called The Addams Family. A family from old money who enjoy living a dark and eccentric lifestyle, and they are also unaware of any outsiders who may have a disdain for their personal choices. Originally unnamed in the comics, the Addams family consists of seven main family members. Gomez and Morticia are a couple who are constantly seen near one another, including their children, Wednesday and Pugsley. Along with Gomez’s brother, Fester, their butler Lurch, and Morticia’s mother, who they call Grandmama. As the comics progressed, new characters were added to explore the narratives of the Addams family further.
As the comic strips became more popular, the Addams family began to grow as a franchise. During the comics run, a live-action television series premiered on ABC in 1964, lasting around two seasons. The series was one of the first of its kind, as the show portrayed the Addams family as the opposite of the stereotypical ‘nuclear family’ model. The show received a bit of backlash from both fans and critics alike, as the critics thought that the show was too devilish and scary, whereas the fans considered the series to be a softer version of the comics. Charles Addams himself proclaimed that the series showed the characters only being ‘half-evil’ compared to their cartoon counterparts. They were seen to be a happier family, where the parents accepted the kid's lifestyle choices. Gomez had a positive relationship with his mother-in-law, and they treated their butler more familial rather than just a servant. One feature that the show highlighted was Gomez’s relationship with his wife.
When the show first aired back in the 1960s, there were specific norms that couples were expected to follow. Married couples were not allowed to be seen as overly romantic. Referencing a couple's sex life was extremely taboo, especially in television appearance. Despite the unspoken rules of the decades of relationship culture, Gomez and Morticia Addams were not shown to hide their love for one another, they embraced their partner instead. The couple was seen treating one another with affection, no matter the setting of the situation. This made The Addams Family the black sheep of early 1960s television programs as it made the relationship of the couple more equal. Morticia and Gomez’s relationship reflected a positive marriage where both parties were seen as people, not just extensions of the other person. Reflecting on the more progressive and counterculture ideals of the 1960s as the show progressed.
The video shown is a series of clips of multiple episodes from the program, all clips showing Gomez and Mortica’s both physical and emotional relationship. This was a major difference the show had compared to other programs airing around the same time, as the couple were seen as exaggerated with their love. The two also continue to mention their bedroom life in a way that is not deemed at either persons expense. Kristen Cello, an assistant professor of history at Queens College, City University of New York, wrote a book titled Making Marriage Work: A History of Marriage and Divorce in the Twentieth-Century United States in which she explained the social norms of a married couple of the 1950s, Psych Central explaining “In reality, according to Celello, many husbands did value their relationships and were willing to work on them. But the advice of the 1950s overwhelmingly put the responsibility of a relationship’s success on the wife.” Yet, Morticia and Gomez are doing almost the opposite, both partners making sure their marriage succeeds by giving verbal affection, engaging in one anothers interest, and show public displays of affection, such as Gomez kissing up Morticia’s arm every time she speaks French.
The text below is from Laura Morowitz, an author who explored how both The Addams Family and The Munsters put their twist on a standard American home. Morowitz explains how Gomez showing clear sexual attraction was unheard of at this time. The author explains that the characters simply bend the rules, not break them. Instead, The Addams family challenges the culture of forbidden topics and expresses them more head-on compared to other shows. This idea was seen to be more forward and progressive, as when the show was released, America began to change into being more open about one's relationship.
Text from The Monster Within by Laura Morowitz
Referenced in Morowitz’s writing above, John Astin, the actor of Gomez, was asked about his thoughts on his characters relationship with Morticia in an interview. Astin expresses how many viewers of the show disapproved of how forward the character was with his advances on his wife. He also explains how the producers and himself wanted to keep these scenes included in the show, as well as have to film ‘in the bedroom’ if the parts were allegedly that graphic. Astin’s experience with the backlash reflects on how the characters were seen at the time, as extreme and explicit. Astin also mentions how he wanted to keep their on-screen romance to be ‘grand scale’. In response to the strict conformity that TV had set on its acting couples.
During the series release, the post WWII era began to form. Many younger individuals began to participate in ‘counterculture’. As explained below, counterculture happened when individuals rejected the idea of a nuclear family and began to pursue more individual goals instead of focusing on a family. While the movement was present in the late 1950s, its impact on American culture still lasted into the 1960s when the show was made. The Addams Family does not entirely disregard the idea of a perfect American family, but instead was influenced by the movement. With Gomez and Morticia once again only bending the rules, but still leaning into more progressive ideals. Shunning away from the constricting limits of relationships and embracing more public displays.
Text from "The Counterculture Hippie Movement of the 1960s and 1970s" by Amy Hayes
The 1964 depiction of The Addams family became one of the first shows to put a mainly positive spin on married life between two characters. As time progresses and new adaptations come about, Gomez and Morticia still seem to adore eachother just as they did back in the 60s. Nostalgia World, a blog focusing on pop culture writes reflects on the programs portrayal of the family. Writing, “The Addams Family” was not just a show about oddities and the macabre; it was a celebration of love, acceptance, and the importance of family bonds. Despite their unconventional appearance and interests, the Addamses were a tight-knit and fiercely loyal family. Their eccentricities were embraced, and their love for one another shone through every episode.”
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