Procrastinate No More! 


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What is Procrastination?

Putting off tasks

Not Prioritizing 

 'Procrastination Cycle'

1. Task/Goal


Firstly, to start off procrastinating you need to approach a task or goal you have committed to which is a priority in your life. Approaching the task/goal may be in the form of just thinking about doing the task, planning to do the task or actually attempting the task. As we previously saw the task or goal could be from many different areas of your life, for example, work, household, study, health, financial, social, family, relationships, self-development, and decision making.

2. Unhelpful Rules/Assumptions

When you approach a task/goal either mentally or physically, one or more of your unhelpful rules and assumptions gets activated. These rules/assumptions could relate to needing to be in charge, pleasure seeking, fearing failure or disapproval, fearing uncertainty or catastrophe, low self-confidence or depleted energy. Once activated, these rules/assumptions start to guide how you think and feel about doing the task, making the task appear aversive to you, and hence arousing some form of discomfort about doing the task. For example, if your task is to do the household chores, and you have an unhelpful rule/assumption about pleasure seeking, you are going to think things like “fun should always come first, I don’t want to do these mundane things”, and you will feel bored and frustrated about doing the household chores.

3. Discomfort Driven


If you then detect discomfort in yourself when you approach or think about approaching a task or goal, it is going to make you less likely to want to do that task or goal. In addition, if you are also a person who can’t stand feeling uncomfortable, that is you can’t tolerate unpleasant feelings and detest discomfort, you are going to have even more problems with following through on the task. Your urge to avoid these feelings or dodge discomfort is going to build if you feel both uncomfortable about doing the task and hate these feelings of discomfort. Putting each of these things together means that overall you will be discomfort driven, that is, whether you follow through with a task will be heavily influenced by wanting to stop or avoid any discomfort you are experiencing about the task.

4. Procrastination Excuses


In addition to being discomfort driven, you will start to think of excuses that justify and make your procrastination OK in some way. You often pick out some truth about the situation, and conclude that you are better off doing the task at a later date. For example, “I am too tired, I am better off doing it tomorrow when I am rested”.

5. Procrastination Activities


The more discomfort driven you are and the more convincing your excuses are, the more likely you will actually procrastinate by engaging in other activities that divert your attention away from the task/goal at hand. The types of procrastination activities you might use as a substitute are, pleasurable tasks, lower priority tasks, socialising, distractions, and daydreaming.

Other Reasons People Procrastinate

™Family issues

–Divorce

–Relationships

–Chaos

–Abuse

™Grieving

™Financial Stress

™Depression

™Anxiety

How to Change it!

Are you tired of it?

Do you want to change?

Change Your Outlook!

Sometimes we need to change the way we look at things

We have to learn to spin negatives into positives.  Instead of looking at a glass as half-empty, think about it being half full.

The way we see things affects our outlook and our daily lives.

By rewording certain things you can make the impossible...possible.

Examples

“Things don’t have to be all my way, and doing things I don’t like or because others tell me is just a part of life”

“Fun and achievement are equally important, some short term boredom for long term gain and later fun is the way to go”

“I can’t know exactly how things will pan out, but better to take action than remain stuck”

Avoid Critical Self-Talk

Instead motivate yourself by thinking positively

Challenge Your Conclusions 

Why am I putting off the task?

•Am I really better off starting this task later rather than now?

Do I really have no time to get started on my task?

What would happen if I started on my task now? Later?

How to Stop Procrastinating

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Prioritize

Firstly, write a ‘To Do’ list of the tasks and goals you need to work on. This could be a list for the day, the week, the month, or longer, depending on what makes most sense for your circumstances. You may have more than one list, for example, a longer-term list for the month and a short-term list for each day. Depending on your situation you may have lots of things on your list or just one big thing that you have been putting off. When you stand back and look at the list(s), think how realistic it is to achieve these things in the time allocated. If it isn’t realistic, see which tasks or goals can be postponed and revisited at a later date.

With your remaining list of activities, it is now important to prioritize. Order them from zero onward as to what things need to be done first and foremost, then what next, and what can be done later down the track. That way you will know where to start, not based on what you feel like doing, but instead based on what is most urgent and important.


Worst First

One option is to knock out the worst task first. If there is something you are dreading, get it over and done with first, and then all the other things you need to do will seem like a breeze after that. This works particularly well for small, but dreaded tasks (e.g., phoning someone you don’t want to speak to).


Using Momentum

Another option is to start doing a task that you like and that energizes you, and then without a break quickly switch to a task that you have been putting off. The idea is to use the motivation and momentum you get from the task you like (e.g., cooking), to help you get through the task you don’t like (e.g., cleaning the fridge out).


Set Time Limits

A different approach is to set a specific amount of time to work on a task, and stick to just that, rather than extending things even if you feel you can. If you know in the back of your mind that you are going to expect yourself to do more when the time is up, it may stop you from starting in the first place, as it can feel like you are just trying to trick yourself. Whereas, if you know you only need to do 30 minutes and that is it, regardless of whether you feel like doing more, you may be more willing to get going.


Prime Place/Time

Choosing the right time of day to approach a task can be helpful too. You might need to work out what time of day you are most productive or energized or creative. The idea is to attempt tasks when you are at your optimum. You may be a ‘night person’, a ‘morning person’ or a ‘middle of the day’ kind of person. Also, there may be different times of day that are better suited for different types of tasks. For example, all the ‘dry’ tasks (e.g., household chores) you may be better at tackling in the morning, and ‘creative’ tasks (e.g., painting or drawing) you may be better with at night. Another example is that you may find it easier to follow through with a new exercise routine in the morning compared to the end of the day, or vice versa. The important thing is to become aware of what time of day works best for you, and seize those moments to get going.

Place

It is also important to choose the right place to attempt a task. You need to be aware of what types of environments you get more done in, and what types of environments have distractions that make you more likely to procrastinate. For example, trying to get a task done while there are lots of people around, means there is the potential for social distractions, which isn’t going to help you get going. Therefore, you may need to isolate yourself for a set period of time in order to get work done. In addition, attempting tasks whilst there are other distractions within arms reach (e.g., TV, fridge, telephone, etc), is just teasing yourself and tempting procrastination. Hence, seek out environments you can work in with minimal distractions (e.g., the library versus your home, your desk versus the loungeroom or your bed, etc).

Reminders

If forgetting tasks is a big part of why you procrastinate, use visual reminders and prompts to help you. If the things you need to get done aren’t ‘in your face’, then it will be a case of ‘out of sight, out of mind’. So take steps to make sure that the tasks you need to get done are ‘in your face’. This could involve writing notes or lists and placing them in prominent places (e.g., fridge, bedside table, bathroom mirror, desk, diary), or using other reminders (e.g., mobile phone, email manager, asking someone else to remind you).

Visualize

Another way to approach your tasks or goals is to first visualize doing them. If you are good with imagery, bring to mind a very vivid and real picture of doing the task. Try to use all your senses to make the image as real as possible. In this image notice any obstacles coming up that get in the way of the task, and visualize yourself successfully overcoming those obstacles and following through with the task to completion. In the image focus particularly on the good feeling you have when the task is complete. Once the task is successfully completed in your mind, use the momentum from the visualization to get going on the task in real life.

Focus

If you are feeling unsettled when sitting down to commence a task, take a moment to close your eyes and focus on your breath. Try to lengthen each breath in and each breath out. Slow your breath down to smooth, slow and steady breathing. Take in normal and comfortable volumes of air, and try to allow yourself to breathe from deep in the lungs and belly, rather than shallow in your chest. Just focus on the breath. It may even be helpful to count your breath to yourself (e.g., “breathing in-2-3-4…hold…breathing out 2-3-4-5-6”), counting whatever rhythm feels comfortable to you. Spend 5-10 minutes using your breath to settle and focus, and then return to the task. Anytime you notice yourself becoming unsettled, again just focus on a couple of slow and smooth breaths. Just observe the unsettled feeling, rather than being irritated by it. Let go of the feeling by imagining each exhalation as carrying that unsettledness away from the body, as the breath leaves the body.

Plan Rewards

A really important part of approaching tasks and goals in a productive way is to actually plan rewards and ‘play time’. Often the things we could use to reward ourselves (e.g., pleasure, socializing), are the very same things that distract us and get us procrastinating in the first place, and hence make us feel guilty. But, there is a difference between these activities interfering and distracting us from what needs to be done, and instead of using them to reward ourselves after something has been achieved or as a well-earned break from a task. The more you plan regular rewards for your achievements, the less you will feel like you are missing out or being deprived of something, and hence the less likely it is that you will procrastinate. The key is to let these rewards be guilt-free, by having pre-planned them and fitted them around the work that needs to be done. People will often think “I don’t have time” or “I don’t deserve rewards or fun”. But think of it this way, the things you don’t like doing tend to zap some of your energy, whereas rewards, leisure, and pleasure help replenish your energy, allowing you to do better quality work in the long run. It is all about a balance between pleasure and achievement. When you are a procrastinator the balance is out, in that there is more pleasure (often guilty pleasure) and little achievement. The aim of overcoming procrastination is not for it to be all about achievement and no pleasure, as that doesn’t lead to a good life. Instead, finding the balance between pleasure and achievement is the key to being a ‘doer’, rather than a ‘procrastinator’.

More Tips!

Study Formula

We recommend that students study a minimum of 2 hours per class hour.  The following is the formula for a minimum number of study hours per week. To get a "B or Better."

For an easy class, multiply the amount of hours spent in class by 2. 

For an average class multiply the amount of hours spent in class by 3.

For difficult classes multiply the amount of hours spent in class by 4. 

Easy class credit hours  

Class hours x 2 = _______

Average class credit hours  

Class hours x 3 = _______

Difficult class credit hours  

Class hours x 4 = _______

Total  

_______

Add the total  amount of hours you need to study

You should allow for at least 32 hours of study time per week.

Managing Your Time 

™Think about what you do on a regular basis. Are there any areas where you can take time from and apply it to homework time? 

™Create a time management guide. 

™Set the hours you are going to school, study, work, fun, etc… How much you study has a direct impact on what your grades will be like.

Sample Time Management Guide 

1.Write down your class/work schedule

2.Include travel time (tt)

3.Write down Wake-up/shower/breakfast time, Lunch Time, and Dinner. Make times consistent.

4.Include 7 Hours of sleep and 1 hour of relaxing time before bed.

5.Fill at least 32 hours of study time.

6.Make sure to give yourself free time.

You can get there from here! 

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