GET SOBER & GET F*CKING LIVING.
You don't need saving - you need a strategy, a mindset and someone in your corner.
I don't just know the theory - I've lived the chaos, the cravings and the comeback.
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You don't need saving - you need a strategy, a mindset and someone in your corner.
I don't just know the theory - I've lived the chaos, the cravings and the comeback.
I’m Gary - a former alcoholic, dad, and coach who’s been in your shoes. I’ve lived the chaos, the craving, and the comeback. My experience isn’t just theory; it’s hard-earned wisdom from the frontline of sobriety. I dedicate my life to helping others get sober and stay sober with mindset tools, motivation, and a belief that transformation is always possible.
I know what it’s like to wake up exhausted by your own thoughts, to live in the chaos of addiction, and to feel like you’re stuck in a cycle you can’t break. I don’t speak from a textbook. I speak from the trenches. I’ve lived through the cravings, the shame, the countless false starts. And I’ve found my way out. Not with luck. Not with a magic bullet. But with a set of solid, tested strategies that rebuilt my life from the ground up.
My sobriety isn’t just something I’ve achieved - it’s something I’ve crafted. I built my recovery on ten personal pillars that kept me grounded, honest, and moving forward. These pillars didn’t just help me stay sober - they helped me build a life I’m proud of. A life full of purpose, energy, and wonder. And now I coach others through the same proven structure, because no one should have to figure this out alone.
Beyond my sobriety, I bring years of experience supporting people through tough times. I’ve worked with autistic adults, mentored young people who’ve faced huge life challenges, and helped people rebuild their confidence and mindset. I’m not here to save anyone. I’m here to walk alongside you and show you what’s possible. I believe in tough love, big heart, and practical tools that actually work.
If you’re ready to get serious about change, I’m in your corner.
This isn’t a vague, feel-good programme. This is real, grounded coaching built on ten powerful pillars - designed to get you sober and stay that way. Pillars that I have applied to my life for the last 11 years.
These pillars didn’t come from a textbook. They were forged in the fire - born out of relapse, resistance, and raw experience. They represent everything I wish I’d had when I was at my lowest.
This course walks you through each of these pillars, step by step. It’s not just about stopping drinking - it’s about building the mindset, habits, and identity of someone who stays sober and thrives.
Expect straight-talking guidance, tailored strategies, and tools that you’ll actually use. The focus is on lasting change - clarity, strength, and freedom - not just f*cking white-knuckling it through the week.
Your Investment
£279 for 10 Weeks of Life-Changing Coaching
That's just £27.90 a week to sort your goddamn life out! You'd spend that on the piss before you could blink.
✔️ 10 weeks of focused, practical, real-life coaching
✔️ Guided step-by-step through my proven 10 Pillars of Sobriety
✔️ Weekly group coaching calls - powerful, connected, no one left behind
✔️ Resources, challenges, and direct support between sessions
✔️ Access to me in a private community for ongoing accountability
Who This Is For
This coaching is for you if…
You’ve tried to get sober for an age, but you always press the ‘fuck it’ button.
You are living in booze-related survival mode and you don’t know how to change
Alcohol is severely limiting your potential
Your relationships are suffering because of your drinking
You haven’t yet uncovered why you drink
You’re struggling to accept the problem, but know one exists (big difference between knowing and accepting)
You often get derailed by FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
You feel like a piece of shit most of the time
And…
You’re willing to do the inner-work and face the hard stuff
You’re ready to start living free - not just staying dry
You want more accountability, more inspiration, and more direction
You know the current version of you has to go
You’re up for taking some hard-truths on the chin
This isn’t just a pep talk. You’re getting structure, strategy, and serious support.
✅ 10-Week Program Built on The Ten Pillars
Each week, we go deep into a new pillar — mindset, purpose, identity, environment, and more. These are the tools I used to get free and stay free.
✅ 2 x Weekly Group Coaching Sessions of 60 minutes each
Live, focused, powerful. I keep the groups tight so every voice matters. You’ll get real-time coaching, connection, and no-BS accountability.
Session 1: Deep-dive on the pillar of the week
Session 2: Group check-in, integration & support
✅ Straight-Talking Video Lessons
Short, sharp, and made for people with busy lives. I cut the fluff and get to what works — mindset shifts, sober strategies, real-world tools.
✅ Guided Journaling Prompts & Weekly Challenges
This is where insight becomes action. You’ll get questions that punch through surface thinking, and challenges that grow your grit. Weekly self-reflection tools that deepen learning.
✅ Weekly Sobriety Challenges – Action-based tasks to build mental muscle and grow confidence.
✅ Private Support Community
You're not doing this alone. You’ll join others walking the same path, sharing wins, struggles, and raw honesty in a safe space.
✅ Personal Support from Me
You’ve got direct access. Between sessions, I’ll be in the group and on hand — not some ghost in the background.
I created this coaching to cut through the fluff. No preaching. No perfection. Just structure, connection, and encouragement.
I believe sobriety isn’t just about stopping drinking - it’s about building a life that’s too good to fuck up.
That’s what I’ve done, and that’s what I help others do.
It’s the blunt, honest, direct help that I needed when I was 20 years old.
Gary always had a plan. Sometimes, we just talked, and he understood that was all that I needed for this week. To talk, shed a few tears, and knew that he was listening and understood how I was feeling. He is a great listener, a great person, and an unbelievable coach that I will value in my life forever.
FAQs
How long is the coaching course?
The course runs for 10 weeks, with each week dedicated to one of the ten sobriety pillars I’ve personally used to change my life.
When does the course start?
You'll be allocated a place in the next open group upon booking. Your course will start when that group reaches 6 people.
How many people are in each group?
Groups are intentionally kept small, so everyone is seen, heard, and supported. There will be a maximum of 6 of you.
What if I can’t make the live calls?
Every call is recorded and shared privately with the group - you’ll never miss out on content or insights.
Is this a 12-step program?
No - this is not based on AA or 12 steps. This is a modern, mindset-first coaching journey based on real tools and personal transformation.
Will I be told what to do?
No one-size-fits-all. I’ll offer tools, challenges, and truths, but you’re always in charge of your own recovery.
Will I have access to Gary personally?
Yes, you’ll be able to ask questions directly in the group chat, during the coaching calls, and get real support throughout.
How much does the course cost?
£279.00 for the whole 10-week course.
Is it refundable?
There are no refunds — this is about commitment. But I’ll give you my full energy and tools if you give me your trust.
How do I sign up?
Hit the Book Now button, pay via PayPal, you’ll get a confirmation email with all the information. Then I'll be in touch with you personally ahead of the first session.