When it come to buy the women sex toys like dildo, vibrator, costumes, wands etc, most of the women like to do their own shopping. This isn’t to say there aren’t some couples in dom-sub relationships who love to buy toys, clothing, and accessories together.
Now what about surprising your new girlfriend with a little something new? Is it a good idea, ever? There are two necessary thing to have before buying your lover a toy at your local sex shop or online. One, you need to create a modicum of trust (she’s not going to let you put those sparkly handcuffs on her or a dildo inside her, without having gotten to know you some.) This might take a couple of months, a little less, a little more. Two, you need to think that she is at least into kink lite and what her sexual tastes are, before presenting her with something too outrageous thing.
When you think of these two factors, you’ll come to know that it’s the best to play it safe with the first sex toy which you gift her. Once I had a co-worker, not girlfriend, buy all the women at work dollar-store vibrators. It was a big laugh, but truth be told, that little number did get some action with my next boyfriend!
Here are three sex toys that play it safe, will add some spice to your new relationship but won’t get you kicked out of bed. If these go well, you can go go something a tad kinkier the next time.
Bullet vibrator. It is small and portable that's why most of the women go for it.
Small dildo. Sure, most of the women like their cocks on the larger side, but you don’t want to overwhelm her, or make assumptions. Go for something with a nice texture and vibrating feature (Stay away from realistic cocks with veins.)
Blindfold and sensory objects. This is something which you can enjoy together, blindfolding one another and running a variety of objects over your nude vulnerable bodies.