Are you looking for an edge with girls? Curious about how to get a girl to chase you for once instead of you fawning over her without any action?
I bet you've heard the advice: you have to play hard to get and girls often want what they cannot have. That tends to be true but guys don't have a strategy to implement it correctly. They use a shotgun approach and the result is that it backfire.
Here is a short post on some strategies for how to get a girl to chase you.
Guys that don't have a strategy come off as disinterested, too arrogant, or potentially gay. The result is that many guys go off her radar completely without creating any attraction or interest.
I'm sure you've heard the phrase: "if a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it...did it make a sounds?"
If you are playing a disinterested game and she doesn't notice you then or isn't paying any attention then you have no advantage. It's not going to work. That's what many guys do.
You need to get her to start thinking about you when you're not there.
The more she thinks about whether it is good or bad- the more starts to anticipate seeing you and the more investment she is making into you.
It's up to you to make this happen.
Again, this is where most guys go completely wrong.
You want her to be the one sitting around asking questions like: "what did it mean when he said this... or did this..."
Guys that are losing the power struggle at the beginning of meeting a girl are usually the ones asking those questions. The person with the power is not.
I discovered an odd but extremely effective mind game called the scrambler technique and you can use it on a girl to get her thinking about you. And we ultimately want your crush to be excessively thinking about you.
This is going to have you on the path to getting the woman of your dreams and not being enslaved to your desires.
These tricks outlined the scrambler borrow on psychological hacks and neurolinguistic programming.
It will help turn a female friend into your lover or girlfriend. You need to get her fantasizing about sleeping with you and the scrambler helps you set the right moves in motion to make it happen= step-by-step.
You can click the link below and watch a short video on how you can flip the attraction switch on your crush or any girl you might want to pursue.
One initial pullback can boost the attraction level of any girl you are trying to date, stuck in the friendzone with, or currently dating.
Some examples of what you can actually do with the pullback include- calling a little less or not calling at all for a couple days. Asking to see her a little less than you initially did.
Being a little cold or distant during conversation or acting a little less enthusiastic or certain of when you can meet up. Any of these subtle strategies can have the same effect or you can amplify the pullback and do several at once depending on her initial level of interest. The more she has shown interest, the more aggressive your pull back can be. And the harder she will ultimately chase you.
It's sneaky but powerful when done in small amounts and at the right time.
The first benefit is she is going to spend more time thinking about you. She will start replaying conversations in her head and analyzing your words and and actions. This is good and something you want to shoot for with every step you take.
Getting her to work a little harder to sustain your attention is a critical step in how to get a girl to chase you. By worker harder- I mean she she may start dressing a little nicer or checking in a little more often.
This creates a power shift and she begins to focus on your good qualities and make a larger investment in you incrementally.
Psychologically she will begin to tell herself that she must like you and this creates a feedback loop where she convinces herself of her own conclusions.
Finally- it will increase her anticipation to see you. If she is uncertain about when or if she might see you again- she will start to convince herself that she needs to have you inside her.
If you're focused on a co-worker or female friend/crush and want to know step by step how to get her to chase you then check out this strange mind game called the scrambler technique. Click the video below and watch for more tips and strategies you can apply to your situation.