high-activity at times, but I'm a tutor/have other blogs and I'm chronically ill/disabled with ptsd, so I take hiatuses. Priority goes to threads, I love chatting and I will leave ooc tags, but I feel drained if I socialize and don't write. I'm a sap and want happy endings. On tumblr since 2012.
If you unfollow me because I'm on hiatus, I'm not messaging you when I'm back. Also I have a bad memory, if you want to block me, hard-block!
I'm also going to shamelessly promote my oc Bonnie: whatever fandom we write in, consider her when asking for a starter or sending a meme <3
PLEASE like the 'if you are interested' post for the muses you want to interact with (found on each about page too). My memory sucks and it helps. If you don't like anything, I'll assume you are up to write with anyone including my ocs, and I'll use them. And when I write that one of my muse is open to crossovers or 'open to x verse' I mean they literally have those verses written so they can be inserted in that fandom.
I'm adding this new important note (July 12): I rp since 2012, and I've always answered all asks and written all requested starters, messaging almost everyone first to check their preferences. But now it's impossible to be that active and to be on dash.
A common rule is 'if you follow me first, start interactions first too', but if I send you something I'll be putting all the weight of writing for a canon div./oc on you, so I'M ASKING YOU to feel encouraged to like my starter calls/send a meme even if I followed you first: this way I can write a starter for you as a real first step. You can leave the choice of characters up to me too. That's just a request, if you don't reach out because you are waiting for me, I will like a call/send you a meme soon (and I'm 70% picking my ocs if you didn't like any interest checker for a canon one)! If you ignore what I send, it's your turn. I'll block people who don't respond and don't send.
1. I only write with mutuals, and they must older than 21. I'm not following if you don't cut/trim threads. Passwords etc are sent if you follow me back. I ignore interactions from blogs I don't follow even if we are mutals on others. I am selective with characters from the same blog too.
2. ALL my muses are either canon divergent, AU or OC: you need to read the bios of the characters you are writing with at least once, like I'll read yours. Some of my muses are only here because I want to explore some canon interactions, as you'll read on the navi page. I will reference things written in their bio as if they are canon.
3. I don't write with canon or oc characters from shows I don't know UNLESS they have a bio, with a verse in a fandom I know. I cannot jump in the dark. I also don't do exclusives.
4. I match enthusiasm. I don't rush anyone to write with me, we write when you feel like it: you can ditch everything, you can write a thousand threads with me, you can prioritize your mains, be FREE. I'll also respond to things I'm more into writing first. You can take weeks to reply, no need to justify yourself! However you can also insta-reply if it works for you, because I love it.
5. about some specific fandoms I write in, and you can skip this if not involved: for DC I only know and interact with Legends of Tomorrow, Superman, and a few famous exceptions. Fallout? Just the show and part of 3 & 4 (though my memories of the games are hazy), NO NEW VEGAS I don't want spoilers. I can't remember the lore NOR have memorized many side-characters and factions. Bg3? No Durges because I want to play as one first. Also your villains may find easier to interact with Torvic instead of Lex. The Walking Dead: I played the telltale game and watched the main tvshow, The Ones Who Live, and Dead City. Doctor Who:. I don't know Doctor Who before 9 and I'm not interested in it. One Piece: I reached the end of the Wano arc in the manga, I've started the anime because my memory failed me too hard(I reached the timeskip, and just so you know, after I had only read the manga I barely remembered Ace, now I love him). Once Upon A Time: I'm ignoring the last season and, for personal reasons, not interacting with Regina and Neal characters. When it comes to MCU and x-Men: MY KNOWLEDGE of the lore is scarce, based only on movies I haven't seen in a decade, so I'm remembering characters by their vibe and following your characterization. What I mean by mcu: main shows/characters from early 2010s avengers (not too comfortable with Scarlett Johanson) & ant-man's team, guardians of the galaxy, wandavision/agatha all along (I love Elizabeth Olsen but not as Wanda so no to her too), agents of shield, loki the serie, thunderbolts, technically x-mcu but: deadpool and wolverine, and the various characters from the x-men series. Agents of SHIELD has been my main fandom, together with ouat, for many, many years too.
6. I changed some fcs due to lack of resources OR because the characters were so AU that they may as well have a different face.
7. if I use icons with videogame or anime/manga characters I'll TRY to tag with 'animated fc tw'. If a character doesn't have one by default, but we already rp in other fandoms using them, I might add it for you if I can find a 'good' one.
8. memes and open starters are always open, but if we already have many threads I may not respond to new ones until I feel we have developed the ones we have enough. Also when it comes to old stuff, priorities goes to new mutuals.
1. I'll never forceship. This blog is 90% platonic. But I love shipping, so I want to be specific: if I ship it in canon, I'd still like to check the versions we write are compatible, but I'm quickly open to it; with everyone else I need the build up and I cannot guarantee romance. I write what feels true to the character, not what I want for them to happen. I'm not writing my character in love if I'm thinking 'she doesn't know them enough, and I don't know their behavior enough to be able to guess what happens offscreen and assume feelings we haven't written on threads'. So: I won't write with the intention of shipping before we figure out if they get along.
2. none of my muses are submissive in ANY aspect of their relationships, including on/offscreen smut. I'm perfectly fine with no one trying to take control of anything. If you know your muse is the dominant type in any way, we'll keep it platonic.
3. I'll fade to black with smut unless I tell you otherwise (tagged as nsft and under read-more).
1. please tag: 1) images of horror/gore (I'm excluding zombies) 2) all daddy kink references 3) sexual stuff: written or images. And that includes headcanons or explicit wishlist/posts you reblog.
2. I won't roleplay rape (not a trigger, in backstories it's fine, and you may want to block my 'muse: Nikki' tag if it's a trigger for you). There are other topics I don't enjoy (eating disorders, characters on drugs/drunk and incoherent in threads etc), I'll tell you if needed. I prefer to TALK before hostility-heavy threads unless it's canon. I HATE bad endings (your or my character dying, permanently destroying a relationship etc).
3. I won't write threads WITH (due to finding them triggering OR lacking interest, but you do you!)
triggering: deities/myths/religious figures like angels, demons etc with roots in real-life religion (bg3's demons are excluded, for example, they are not christian demons). Aliens that are called gods are fine. Supernatural is unfortunately not fine.
VERY selective with vampires and werewolves. No attracting my muse against their will (being dazzled is fine). I prefer to be able to control my muse unless we are close ooc. What specifically doesn't work for me is: the portrayal of dark creatures as seductive and/or tormented-but-dominant like Dracula, and my muse must act weak/scared/submissive to respect them. In fandoms such as Buffyverse, BG3 and Twilight, there is humor and/or opportunities not to take seriously that 'seductiveness', so those are always fine.
serial killers or similar, though it depends on the fandom (if your muse is a vigilante or on a vendetta-mission, it's fine, for example. If your muse just likes to collect women's heads? no). I'm not interested in 'Saw' type of threads! NO MAFIA. Only fictional organizations.
children, and the "bratty teen" trope. I love the 'mother or aunt figures' themes with teenagers or adults who need them, though.
no JK Rowling.
I don't know them and they don't seem my cup of tea, so: no game of thrones, asoiaf, vampire diaries, gossip girl, nor greys' anatomy.
oc family members who change my characters' backstory, if they have new siblings they supposedly grew up with or you headcanon a different 'growing up time' for them, my muse would need to change.
strangers who are super hostile and dismissive without plotting: if my only choices are to make my muse leave or to be ooc and submit, she'll leave, end of thread. I have had too many experiences where mine is supposed to beg for attention from a stranger (?) and I dropped the threads. If it's canon or if we plot ooc how to make yours chill, or decide why mine should stay, it's fine! I have hostile characters too, but I do everything possible in my threads to give your muse excuses to stay.
1. nsfw images and smut, if written, will be tagged "nsft" and I'll use read-mores. If you don't want to put yours under read-more it's okay, we'll just fade to black.
2. I'll write most types of common triggers and they'll be tagged "// trigger name tw".
Due to canon backstories, how rarer in rp and commonly triggering some are, you should read the about page of each character you want to rp with so you can blacklist the words/choose not to interact. I'm adding an initial paragraph just with those on each page. I'd suggest not reading my other threads.
3. I will not tag written things unless they are detailed (violence, references to gaslighting or ptsd etc), except for noncon in canon backstories.. I also tag everything with "muse: name" if you need to blacklist that. So basically: my Janey Howard saying 'my mother told me my dad wasn't real' is NOT tagged as gaslighting, Janey explaining how horrible it felt and more details WILL be. Kate Austen making even a remote reference to how gross her bio-dad could be: tagged. But that's why I'd suggest checking the character's page before interacting with them and not reading my other threads.
You are entitled to choose who to follow, if you are not comfortable with my faceclaims it's within your right to not rp. However I want to point this out since it's a matter of morals to me: I use/may use some faceclaims that are considered 'blacklisted' by tumblr, because either they are banned with no proof OR I'm literally against the reason chosen to ban them, OR they are banned due to their words being interpreted in the most malicious way possible, and I can't tell if it's true or it's tumblr-fandoms pushing their agenda and destroying real people because of their fictional ships.
I was in the OUAT Fandom when Jennifer Morrison was accused of "supporting rape culture and being homophobic" because she liked a tweet about a fan-made tea that was dedicated to Jen's canon ship (with a fictional man who was never shown to be a rapist, just to make innuendos, which the haters interpreted in the worst way possible while Jen's character was cool about them) and her next crime was that she didn't spontaneously like the tweet about a tea made for a wlw fanon ship (with a fictional woman who was an onscreen rapist and the character's step-grandmother, from fans that had been constantly demanding more real-life interactions between her and the actress who plays the other woman), and things got worse with people accusing her of 'gay panic' because she kept distance from the other actress, with whom she was clearly not friends with but just coworkers. That was enough to make that kind of accusation, and don't get me started on what fans did to Melissa Benoist for the same type of shipwars. I have more examples like that, so unless I have a good understanding of the situation and/or things are blatant, I will not be banning without context, when tumblr is so unreliable.
I don't keep myself updated on celebrities' lives in the slightest, so I wouldn't know if anything new come up, so if one of them does or says something objectively racist, transphobic etc do let me know. But rumors and subtext don't count.