photo by Larry Cotton

Dear Sandra,

Thank you so much for your stunning performance last evening. I don't have the words to express how deeply I was touched. 

Blessings,

Larry


"Picking Up Stones: An American Jew Wakes To A Nightmare"

Hi, I'm Sandra. I have a play for you.

October 7, 2023 sent shockwaves around the world.  It sent a shock through ME,  propelling me to write for the many voices - Israeli, American, Palestinian,  affected by the Hamas attack and the ongoing war.  How shall we process the unfolding tragedy and trauma? How has the Israel-Hamas war impacted the relationship between Diaspora Jews and Jewish Israelis? How do Americans from every generation and political viewpoint navigate the war's moral implications?  How shall we Jews in and outside of Israel, BE for each other? As a woman, a mother, a teacher, a 'cousin' of Israel and an ally to what it represents to Jews around the world,  how can I capture my emotional truth about this historical moment? 

I'm a conservatory trained actor (BIO here). I tour William Gibson's Tony-award winning Golda's Balcony.  My play, "Picking Up Stones.." gives voice,  in a balanced way,  to 21  characters, including 'me',  from Golda Meir to a 10 year old Palestinian boy to dramatize the background and the after-shock of 10.7, capping my take at Day 30 of the war.

Picking Up Stones: An American Jew Wakes To A Nightmare  is balanced; it's personal and political, laced with humor and hope.  I welcome the chance to bring this program, which includes facilitated discussion after the show,  to your community.  In this important election year, it's a chance to have civil discourse safely,  respectfully.

 Below are articles, interviews, some short clips and YouTubes of previous (pre-Oct. 7, 2023) iterations of my play, which has solidified into an inquiry about Jewish identity, values, and morality, a lamentation on the first 30 days of the Israel - Hamas war. 

The messages below are from a sold - out January, 2024 production at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Peacedale, RI, the May production in Canton, MA, All Souls UU in New London, CT, and the Providence Fringe Festival, July '24 where Sandra won the coveted "Artists 4 Artists" award.  September 2024 at The Granite Theater in Westerly, RI.  

Picking Up Stones... is 100 minutes without intermission. Watch the preview to the right.  An hour long version is also available.

Here is a 2024 interview about the play

Contact Nancy Richman: nrichman618@gmail.com

or Barbara Holtzman: barbaralholtzman@gmail.com

for further references

TESTIMONIALS: 

From Mark Sawtelle, who saw the most recent 'hour-long' version at Providence Fringe Festival:  "Sandra has an uncanny ability to balance passion, compassion, and a respect for the facts in this tour de force performance. Highly recommended. "

 From an audience member:  "Sandra’s play has the plea for peace at its core. Yet its power lies in giving voice to the many perspectives of a complicated and thorny issue: the need for peace in the Middle East. Sandra magnificently inhabits the many people and voices in her play — who all speak with urgent, passionate, sometimes humorous and very divergent perspectives.  It’s magnificent acting on view in an important story that needs to be shared. It made me think — it made me ask questions. It made me aware of my own ignorance and naïveté about the conflicts in the Middle East. If you have an opportunity to see this show, don’t miss it. It is excellent top shelf theater, and we are very lucky to have this talented performer and writer in Rhode Island sharing her intelligence and heart with us." G. Hanrahan

Sandra Laub has an impressive ability to inhabit characters she presents, whether those we are familiar with, such as Golda Meir in Golda’s Balcony, or those of her invention, like those in her one-woman show, Picking Up Stones: An American Jew Wakes To A Nightmare.  That’s not an easy accomplishment for an actor, even with the 10 years experience she has had performing the former. - Bill Rodriguez


Dear Nancy and Bina,

I just need to say what an amazing afternoon at Sandra Laub's play, “Picking Up Stones!” I was riveted to my seat and intensely emotionally connected throughout the whole play. Sandra did an outstanding job portraying multiple perspectives and feelings and heartache. Her ability to make extremely complex conflict resonate with very humane thoughts and questions made me wish this play could be shown throughout the world. Her play offers a springboard for more conversations with depth. I am extremely grateful for her generosity in giving us this play, and her effort and incredible talents make me have hope.

Thank you for all the hard work you did in bringing Sandra Laub and “Picking Up Stones” to our community!!!

Sending much love always,

Jeanne A.


Dear Sandra,


I was really glad to be able to see your performance of "Picking Up Stones" on Saturday. Such an ambitious and heartrending piece! In this polarized, "pick a side" society we live in, it is so hard for some to make room for conflicting narratives. Your play brings up more questions than answers, and for me, that is why it is so compelling. As they say in Hebrew, Kol HaKavod--every honor to you.

Amy O. Hillel Director, RI



Sandra Laub’s performance of her one-person play “Picking Up  Stones:  An American Jew Wakes to a Nightmare,”is a deeply moving and thought-provoking drama.  The horrific scenes from October 7th and the ongoing war has led Ms. Laub  to write, direct and play the various parts of Israelis and Palestinians directly effected by this tragedy.  In just 100 minutes I experienced myself being on both sides of the conflict, feeling unimaginable pain and loss, wanting to blame and yet unable to judge, desperately searching for a way out of this decades-old conflict, hoping for an equitable and sustainable peace.  With so much to absorb I look forward to seeing the play again!

Karen C.


Dear Sandra

I wanted you to know how much I appreciate you and value your message as expressed in your Sunday performance.  I found your presentation sincere, heart wrenching and beautifully delivered.  I am amazed at your power for memorizing and wish I had just a little of that ability.


The issues we all face, Jewish or not, is one of deep concern for all the victims of these horrific wars and acts of violence.  As you know I have been an advocate for peace most of my life and encourage the study of nonviolence.  The complexity of the issues are vital in understanding the way forward and without a sincere respect and love for our fellow humans we can not figure it out.  Some of it has so much to do with militarism and the profits that are gained by keeping the war machine going.  Dr. King said it best. “We must learn to live together as brothers and sisters or perish together as fools”.


You are contributing to a better understanding of how to hold the tensions between two truths together.  The desire for peace and the need to protect those we love.  It isn’t easy.

Thank you again for putting yourself out there, speaking up when it is difficult and taking the criticism that is inevitable in today’s climate.


May there be peace in Israel and Palestine soon.


With much love and peace,

Madeline


...I feel Sandra could get a MacArthur Fellowship for this play. Maybe she might consider, too, turning it into a movie? Her play is very powerful, and should be shown to a lot of audiences. Maybe by making a movie this would help her talents and insights reach a wider audience. If it is no trouble, would you please ask her if this is a future possibility? - audience member, Unitarian Universalist Congregation Peacedale, RI


"When your heart is broken over lives lost and the profound suffering in Israel and Palestine, Sandy Laub's , "Picking up Stones" is a riveting and masterfully performed, fresh and original work that heals. It is the balm so needed to make space to see, think, act, resolve, and to heal. It is a treasure!" - Sharon S.

"It was a really good play - really glad to have seen it. Sandy's portrayals were so accurate, and made the play quite real. A must see." - Yury S. audience members at UU Canton, MA.



Reverend Denis Paul of Unitarian Universalist Congregation, Peacedale, RI: If you were one of the folks lucky enough to get to attend Sandra Laub’s performance of “Picking up Stones” at UUCSC on Saturday, you probably left with a sense of awe, swimming in the complexity of the subject. Ms. Laub wrote the script, and performed all 21 parts, including the part of herself. Sandra moved effortlessly between characters in Israel, Palestine and around the world, reflecting on the conflict going all the way back to the Holocaust and even Sarah and Hagar. I left feeling like there was so much to unpack, but a couple things stood out above all else. A few days after the October 7 Hamas attack on Israel, Ms. Laub mentioned to her Rabbi that she was thinking about the innocent noncombatants dying in Gaza. He stopped her and said it wasn’t her responsibility to worry about them so soon. Her job for the moment, and for as long as she needed, was to tend to her own grief, fear and worry about her family and friends in Israel. While I don’t remember him saying it to her directly I thought, “Exactly. It’s the job of others right now to do that kind of worrying. People who aren’t under attack are the ones who should be worrying right now about Gaza. People who aren’t personally targeted by the worst attack against Jews since the Holocaust.” I’ve said so many times that we must endeavor to hold the hope for one another in difficult times, so that in the midst of loss and chaos we can tend to ourselves and the people we love. This is the kind of hope I’m talking about: hope that no more innocents will die. Many of my ministerial colleagues are calling Israel’s response a genocide. Some — most of whom have no stake in the crisis — are saying that by not using the word genocide I am personally accountable for the deaths in Gaza, an accomplice to murder. Each time I hear that kind of charge, it reeks to me of antisemitism. Ms. Laub has been publicly attacked for trying to play both sides of the issue. I don’t see that. I see someone who can sit with the nuances of an ancient and perhaps unresolvable conflict, even in her identity as a Jew. I’m glad she has invited us, as a community of diverse faith, to be with her. In Peace, Rev Denis


Reverend Denis Paul



I love what you are offering with this performance. You really bring out the human story and weave in the history and present situation so clearly along the way. 


Leslie (audience member, Canton, MA)



Good Morning, Sandra,


I attended your June 1st performance at All Souls, and I'm still feeling its impact. I stayed in the hall for the discussion, where I learned/re-learned some history and heard additional perspectives.


So, thank you first for the honest sharing of your insights and emotions. And thanks for your vulnerability and courage throughout the performance and talk-back. 


Peace,

Ginny Campbell










as Golda Meir in Golda's Balcony (photo courtesy Richard Dionne Jr.)

Picking Up Stones mystic '23EditedforSL.mp4

Workshop Performances 2023

Clip #2.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT

Clip #1 - LAUB.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


Clip #3.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


Clip #4.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


clip 5.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


clip 6.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


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Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


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Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


clip 9.mp4

Dragon's Egg, Ledyard, CT


April 2023

The pre October 7 version of the play was part of an article about Palestine Museum US:  Challenging the Israeli narrative through art


Youtube of the play performed at the museum

November 1st  2022 "Draft" Zoom

Picking Up Stones 3:19.mp4

Community Culture Showcase interview  with Palestine Museum Founder/Director Faisal Saleh and Harriet Goodman Grayson; PRE-OCT. 7

Community Culture Showcase Sandra Laub and Faisal Saleh.mov

Get in touch at sandralaub08@gmail.com

As we prepare to enter another national election cycle, it's a good idea to inspire civil public discourse about controversial issues. Theater does just that in encouraging, inclusive, non-threatening ways. This show dramatizes "all sides" yet takes a very personal view of what it means to value and practice Jewish moral concepts, such as Tikkun Olam: heal the world.

 

A performance at Mystic Outdoor Performing Arts Festival August 2023