HOW TO GET REVENGE ON
YOUR EX BOYFRIEND
HOW TO GET REVENGE ON
YOUR EX BOYFRIEND
Breakups are painful, especially if your ex really hurt you. When you're going through a painful breakup, it's normal to want revenge on your ex. While this may sound like fun in theory, in practice you're only going to make it worse.
If you really want revenge, there are several simple strategies to put in place that will keep you out of trouble. However, the best revenge is to show him that you don't need him. In addition, you may feel better managing your need for revenge, as this indicates that you are suffering.
1. Text another boy by accident. Show her that you've already moved on by sending her a well-written flirtatious text. Right after you send it, send a second one to tell her you sent her by accident. This will make him think that you don't care about him anymore and that you quickly found someone else.
For example, you could write to him: “Thank you for the outing last night. I really look forward to seeing you again. Then send: "Oops, the wrong number." I'm deleting your number now. »
2. Post an embarrassing photo of him. You should never post private photos of your ex, but you can post less flattering photos. Share the photo on social media or ask a friend to post it for you. Alternatively, you could also print it out and make a poster out of it to hang around his neighborhood or where he hangs out.
For example, you could use one of the photos where he does something stupid or has an awful hairstyle.
Don't post a picture where he's naked or half-dressed for any reason.
Warning: remember that this may become harassment if you continue to do so. If you want to use this strategy, do it once.
3. Hide one of his things when you go to his house. Tell him you need to come to his house to pick up something you left there. While you're at it, hide one of his favorite things, like the TV remote, his favorite video game, or pieces of a Lego set. You'll drive him crazy for a while while he searches for it.
Don't take anything with you, it's theft.
When you hide it, also make sure it won't break. For example, you can slip the remote control between the sofa cushions. However, do not hide her behind the toilet where she will take the water.
Put it in a place where he will eventually find it. For example, you could hide the bottle opener in the wrong drawer, but not in an air duct.
4. Send an anonymous message to his new girlfriend. If he's already dating someone else, it could be painful for you, especially if he cheated on you with that person. Try not to take it out on her new partner, because she might not know you exist. However, you can tell her that your ex is not necessarily the boy she thinks. Send her a message via email, social media, or text to explain what happened to your relationship.
Create a fake social media profile or use a fake email address. If you want to text her, try an app that lets you do it from a fake number.
You could say, “I heard you were dating Liam. I think you should know he was already in a relationship when you started dating. He cheated on his ex and he was lying to her all the time. If I were you, I would be suspicious. »
5. Let him suffer the consequences of his actions. It's a great way to get revenge because you don't have to do anything. After he hurts you, you might feel like he got away with it. However, his deeds will catch up with him sooner or later. Relax and watch him deal with the outcome of his bad behavior.
For example, right now he might feel like he's the king of the world with the girl he left you for. However, others will find out that he cheated on you and it will damage his reputation. Besides, this new relationship got off to a bad start and his new partner isn't going to trust him. Think about those consequences whenever you feel upset about what he did to you.
1. Go out with your friends and have fun. After a breakup, it's normal to want to curl up in a corner to cry. Even if you have the right to do so, you should go and have fun instead. Invite your friends to fun activities and enjoy life. Then post photos that show you having fun so everyone knows you're living life to the fullest.
For example, you could go rollerblading, bowling, mini-golf, audition for a play, host a game night, go out for a drink, or do karaoke.
2. Flirt with other boys under his nose. Even if you're not ready for a new relationship, it's okay to flirt. Besides, people tend to want what they don't have, so your ex might be jealous of seeing you with another guy. Compliment other boys and gently touch them on the arm or shoulder. When your ex is watching, lean closer to another guy to make your relationship seem more intimate.
You might say, "You're so funny! or "This shirt really brings out your pecs." »
Tip: Post pictures of you with other guys on social media if you think he'll see them. Even if they're just friends, you'll make him jealous and he'll realize you don't need him.
3. Celebrate all that is going well in your life. The breakup could make you unhappy, which is why it's going to be hard to think positive thoughts. To help you focus on the bright side, you should make a list of everything that is going well in your life now. Then, share your gratitude with others by talking about it with your friends and posting it on social media.
You could post, "I'm really happy to have had the chance to display my creations at Good Beans Café" or "I'm so grateful for my best friend, my puppy, and the job that I love. »
4. Spend time on your appearance to feel good. Put on your favorite outfit, style your hair, and put on makeup. Consider pampering yourself with a manicure or a new haircut. Then take some photos in your best gear and post them online for everyone to see. In addition, you could ask your friends to accompany you when you go to a place that your ex frequents.
Don't try to change yourself or improve your appearance. You are already amazing!
5. Try something new to evolve. During the breakup, it can be difficult to spend time alone when you were used to spending it as a couple. Take advantage of this free time to do something you've always wanted to try! Make a list of activities, hobbies, or interests to try. Then tick them off as you do.
For example, you could try out a new restaurant, take up painting, learn to play the piano, or try a team sport.
6. Avoid talking about him. Since he hurt you, you might want to tell everyone. However, it shows him that you still care about him. Try not to talk about him anymore. This way, he'll think you've moved on.
If you still need to talk about what happened, confide in a friend or family member you trust. However, don't talk about your feelings with everyone.
1. Let your emotions express themselves. It's a safe bet that you are in pain now and that's normal. It's also understandable that you want revenge. Tell yourself that your emotions aren't a problem and let them go.
You might say to yourself, "I'm really mad at John because he broke up just before Valentine's Day. I thought I mattered to him. I want him to suffer as much as I suffer. »
Tip: You might feel a little guilty for wanting revenge, but there's no need to feel guilty. It is completely normal to imagine your revenge.
2. Visualize your revenge and its consequences. In general, the idea of revenge is more satisfying than revenge itself. Imagine hurting your ex, like spray-painting a message on his lawn or burning his favorite t-shirts. Enjoy the satisfaction of watching him suffer. Then imagine what would happen if you really did.
For example, let's say he cheated on you. You might visualize yourself painting "I'm a cheating guy" on his car. Then imagine the shame he's going to have driving his car with this message. Think about the consequences of this act. For example, his mother could get angry and you could get arrested or have to pay for repairs for his car.
3. Find an activity that calms you down. You're probably feeling pissed off right now and you have every right to be. Try not to make decisions while your emotions are at their peak. Instead, do activities that allow you to relax and regain control.
For example, you could take a yoga class, meditation, paint, go for a walk in nature, go window shopping with your friends, or play with your friends.
4. Discuss how you feel about your ex. Even though you probably never want to see him again, you might feel better talking with him about the pain you are feeling. If you think it might be helpful, chat face to face or over the phone. Then, use first-person sentences to show him how much his actions have affected you.
First-person sentences allow you to put yourself in the center without pointing the finger at the other. For example, you could say, "I feel like you don't respect me" instead of saying, "You don't respect me. »
You might say, “I feel like you broke my trust and it hurts me a lot. »
Variation: If you don't want to talk to her, you can text or email her to let her know how you feel.
5. Have pity on him. For now, you hate him and that's normal. However, if you see him as someone who deserves your pity, you might feel better about this situation. Try to see him as a damaged or weak boy who couldn't handle your relationship. Then understand that it's really sad.
You might say to yourself, "It's really sad that he's not mature enough to break up with someone before moving on to another story" or "He must be really lonely to think he needs two girlfriends. I feel sorry for him. »
Remember this sentence: “The best revenge is a full life. »
You could make your condition worse by carrying out your revenge. It would be better for you to focus on things that make you happy instead of hurting him.
Don't share nude or suggestive photos of your ex as revenge. Besides being completely inappropriate, it is also illegal.
Don't break the law to get revenge on him. For example, don't scratch his car or damage his belongings.
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