General Bedroom Tips
Communicate: Talk during sex to build intimacy and establish what feels good and what you both want to avoid.
Take It Slow: A woman's arousal is like a dimmer switch; it takes time to ramp up.
Use Lube: Proper lubrication always makes penetration more pleasurable and comfortable.
Build Anticipation: Physical connection shouldn't just happen in the bedroom. Flirting, teasing, and kissing throughout the day build great tension
For Partner with a Vulva
Foreplay is Crucial: Spend significant time kissing, touching, and exploring areas outside the genitals.
Clitoral Stimulation: The clitoris is much larger than just the external tip. Use your tongue, fingers, or toys gently, and check in about pacing.
For Partner with a Penis
Don't Forget the Balls: The testicles are highly sensitive and require attention.
Vary Your Technique: Explore using your lips, mouth, and hands, while being mindful of consistent pressure.