[2:187] [أُحِلَّ لَكُمْ لَيْلَةَ الصِّيَامِ الرَّفَثُ إِلَى نِسَائِكُمْ هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَكُمْ وَأَنْتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَهُنَّ عَلِمَ اللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ كُنْتُمْ تَخْتَانُونَ أَنْفُسَكُمْ ((It has been made permissible for you to be intimate with your wives during the nights of fasting. They are a garment to you and you are a garment to them. Allaah knew that you had been betraying yourselves))]. When fasting was initially made obligatory for the people of Islaam, they were forbidden from food, drink, and intercourse during the night after sleeping. This put some of them through hardship and Allaah, the Most Exalted, subsequently made matters easier for them by permitting those things – food, drink, and intercourse – at any time throughout the nights of [Ramadaan] whether they had already slept or not. That was because they had been betraying themselves by not fulfilling some of the directives that Allaah had prescribed for them. فَتَابَ عَلَيْكُمْ ((so He guided you to repent)) by granting you leeway in a directive due to which you would be considered sinful had He not granted that leeway, وَعَفَا عَنْكُمْ ((and He pardoned you)) for your previous self-betrayal. فَالْآنَ ((Thus, now)) after this concession and leeway that Allaah has granted, بَاشِرُوهُنَّ ((you can be intimate with your wives)) and that includes intercourse, kissing, physical contact, and so on.
وَابْتَغُوا مَا كَتَبَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ ((and seek what Allaah ordained for you)). In other words, by being intimate with your wives, you should have the intention of drawing nearer to Allaah – the Most Exalted – as well as achieving the most significant aims of intercourse, which are producing offspring, keeping yourselves and your spouses chaste, and fulfilling the objectives of marriage.
In addition, something else that Allaah ordained for you is Laylatul-Qadr (the night of decree) which is one of the nights of Ramadaan, the month of fasting. Thus, you should not let the aforementioned pleasure distract you from Laylatul-Qadr and cause you to miss it. The pleasure you forego can still be found at some other time; but if Laylatul-Qadr is missed, it cannot be found at any other time.
وَكُلُوا وَاشْرَبُوا حَتَّى يَتَبَيَّنَ لَكُمُ الْخَيْطُ الْأَبْيَضُ مِنَ الْخَيْطِ الْأَسْوَدِ مِنَ الْفَجْرِ ((And eat and drink until the white thread of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread of night)). This refers to the end of the time during which eating, drinking, and intercourse are permitted.
This passage indicates that if a person is eating and so on, but does not know for sure whether dawn has come, he would not be considered sinful.
This passage also indicates that it is encouraged to have sahoor (the pre-dawn meal) and this is understood from the instruction conveyed [by the words ((and eat and drink))].{1} It can also be inferred that it is encouraged to delay that meal until shortly before dawn based on the meaning signified by Allaah granting a concession and making matters easy for His servants.{2}
This passage further indicates that it is permissible for one to reach dawn while in a state of janaabah (major intangible impurity) due to intercourse, without yet having performed ghusl (washing one’s entire body in the prescribed manner), and that does not affect the validity of one’s fast. This is because a necessary implication of being permitted to have intercourse until dawn is the possibility of being in a state of janaabah at dawn, and any necessary implications of something that is valid are also valid.{3}
ثُمَّ ((Then)) when dawn breaks أَتِمُّوا الصِّيَامَ ((you are to complete your fast)) by refraining from everything that breaks one’s fast إِلَى اللَّيْلِ ((until nightfall)) which refers to sunset.
The aforementioned permissibility of intercourse during nights that precede days of fasting does not apply to absolutely everyone; it is not permissible for the person observing i‘tikaaf. Thus, Allaah excluded such a person in His statement, وَلَا تُبَاشِرُوهُنَّ وَأَنْتُمْ عَاكِفُونَ فِي الْمَسَاجِدِ ((And you are not to be intimate with your wives while you are observing i‘tikaaf in the mosques)).
This passage indicates that i‘tikaaf is something prescribed by Islaam’s teachings. I‘tikaaf refers to remaining in the mosque for a span of time with the intention of performing particular acts of obedience to Allaah, the Most Exalted, and fully devoting oneself to worshipping Him.
The passage also indicates that i‘tikaaf is only valid in a mosque. Additionally, the ال in the word الْمَسَاجِدِ can be understood as implying the mosques that they were familiar with at the time when the Qur’aan was being sent down: ones in which the five obligatory daily prayers are established.
This passage also indicates that intercourse is among the things that invalidates i‘tikaaf.
تِلْكَ ((These)) things mentioned here – namely, the impermissibility of food, drink, intercourse, and anything else that invalidates fasting; the impermissibility of failing to fast without a legitimate excuse; the impermissibility of intercourse for the person observing i‘tikaaf; and other impermissible matters while fasting – حُدُودُ اللَّهِ ((are the limits set by Allaah)). He set those limits for His servants, and further forbade them from those things by saying فَلَا تَقْرَبُوهَا ((so do not go near them)). This is more emphatic than saying “do not engage in them” since the prohibition of going near something impermissible entails the prohibition of actually engaging in the thing itself, as well as the prohibition of all means that lead to it. A servant of Allaah is instructed to avoid impermissible things, stay away from them to the utmost of his ability, and avoid all channels leading to them.
As for the commands one is instructed to fulfil, Allaah said about those things, ((These are the limits set by Allaah, so do not overstep them)) [2:229]. In that context, Allaah forbids transgressing those limits.
كَذَلِكَ ((Just as the preceding was clarified)), in other words, Allaah explained the foregoing rulings to His servants in the clearest and most complete way; hence, it is with such clarification that يُبَيِّنُ اللَّهُ آيَاتِهِ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَّقُونَ ((Allaah makes His directives clear to people so that they would observe taqwaa)). When the truth becomes clear to people, they are likely to follow it; and when falsehood become clear to them, they are likely to avoid it. A person may do something impermissible because of his own ignorance of the ruling pertaining to it, and had he known it was impermissible, he would not have done it. Thus, since Allaah has clearly explained His evidences to people, they have no further excuse or argument for not complying with His directives. Hence, that clarification is a means leading to taqwaa (i.e. protecting oneself from Allaah’s punishment by fulfilling His commands and avoiding His prohibitions).
Notes:
{1} An authentic hadeeth mentions that the Prophet (may Allaah grant him commendation and protection) said, “Have sahoor (i.e. the pre-dawn meal consumed at the end of the night) because that meal certainly contains blessings.” [al-Bukhaaree 1932, Muslim 1095]. There are also other authentic ahaadeeth containing this directive.
{2} An authentic hadeeth mentions that the Prophet (may Allaah grant him commendation and protection) said, “Hasten breaking the fast (i.e. the meal after sunset), and delay the sahoor (i.e. the meal before dawn).” [as-Saheehah 1773]. There are also other authentic ahaadeeth containing this directive.
{3} ‘Aa’ishah and Umm Salamah (may Allaah be pleased with both of them) narrated that there were days when Allaah’s Messenger (may Allaah mention him with commendation and grant him protection) would reach dawn while in a state of janaabah due to intercourse. He would then perform ghusl and still fast. [al-Bukhaaree 1926, Muslim 1109]. The narration of the hadeeth from Umm Salamah contains the addition that he would not refrain from fasting that day, and he would not make it up at another time. [Muslim 1109].
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