In case we meet...

I like talking in philosophy seminars. I like public speaking. I like asking questions at philosophy talks. And I love hanging out with philosophers, and humans generally, *one on one,* or in very small groups (max seems to be 5). But I typically don't do well once the gathering reaches >5, e.g., conference receptions, group dinners, breaks between conference talks, or any medium to large groupy, social-like, gathering, especially when most people are strangers. I might appear unfriendly or as though I don't care about making philosophy friends, but that isn't it. I just don't know how to handle these things (wish I did...) If you want to talk, the best thing is to walk up and say, "hey, can I talk you", and I will be happy to find a (quiet) spot to do just that. Alternatively, you can always email later. Related issue: I have an atypical sensory processing system; this make me extremely uncomfortable with bright lights, loud or clashing noises, or really most types of strong environmental stimuli. I get nausea very easily, and if a room is especially crowded, or loud, or bright, or whatever, I won't be doing my best. However, I promise, I really *do* think you're awesome, even if it seems otherwise. On a more positive note, I am super stellar at responding to emails.