Cyberstalking is a growing concern, often happening closer to us than we realise.
She first approached me over social media more than a decade ago—when I had barely spoken to her in person. At first, I didn’t think much of it. But over time, multiple anonymous accounts started popping up, viewing my stories, and coincidences kept adding up. It no longer felt random. And it went on for years.
In person, my unease only grew. Every single time, even the way she stared confirmed it.
So, I set boundaries.
Cyberstalking is real, and more often than not, it’s someone you know. Sometimes, people need support to recognize when their behavior crosses a line—but in this case, that support cannot come from me.
I created March4ward (inspired by the theme of International Women’s Day) to encourage those taking steps to protect and care for themselves.
March 4ward gathers some fundamentals resources to help understand cyberstalking, how to recognise it, and what to do next. You’ll find legal amendments in the region, step-by-step guides, research articles, and even therapist discussions on YouTube.
Whether you're seeking information or support, these resources can help navigate the next steps.
Latest Legal Amendments in Malaysia & Singapore
'Finally!': Stalking is now a crime, whether it's done physically or online
What is cyberstalking? How to spot the red flags and what you should do to protect yourself
Supports and step-by-step guides to protect yourself from cyberstalking or online harassment
Welcome to Solid Ground - Faced with online harassment or abuse, and not sure what to do?
Free, expert help for victims of cybercrime, digital fraud & online harm
These creators have shared insightful videos on stalking and online harassment. They also cover other related topics on their channels.
Dark Side Of FEMALE STALKERS: Exposing Obsession & Toxic Family Relationships
What are the Characteristics of Female Stalkers?
Stalkers - Motives and Personality
Narcissists and Cyberstalking | Cyber-Narcissists
BABY REINDEER: The psychology of stalkers // [ Baby Reindeer is on Nextflix ]
Interview: The Victims of the UK’s Worst Cyber Stalker Open Up In New Netflix Documentary // [ Can I tell you a secret? is on Netflix ]
Please find one that's accessible to you
Singapore (online chat available)
For other countries, please Google or Find a Helpline