How To Spice Up Your Relationship

1 Make love in new positions. Even if you feel good and comfortable in the missionary position, it may be time to make some changes under the covers. If you always have sex in the same conventional position, a routine can set in. The more you vary the positions, the more frequently you will want to renew your antics. You can try some of these variations:

• Reverse the roles. Although it might sound funny to you at first, you'll love it. If you're used to being on top and your other half on the bottom, reverse. The change will turn you on more.

• When making love, give yourself this goal: You should never do it in the same position as usual. Find new, completely different ways to get excited.

• Don't be afraid to try totally new positions. Search the internet for positions, read the Karma Sutra, or if you are daring, ask your best friend for advice on positions for sex.

• Gain flexibility. Take yoga classes together or go for a run and stretch before and after jogging. Prepare your body to be more flexible for the act. If you know how to do the splits, you can use it to your advantage under the duvet. If you are a woman, try to be flexible enough that you can lift and straighten your legs close to your partner's head when they are above you.

• Make love standing or just one partner standing. Don't be afraid to do some oral sex on your partner (standing up) before you act.

• Make love with one person seated and the other above.

• Be bold in your positions, but don't do anything you are not comfortable with. Both partners have to put their efforts into trying new things; otherwise, the intercourse could become an unpleasant moment.

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2 Do it in new places. While having sex in new positions can do wonders for your sex life, adding new positions to new positions will spice up your relationship in an astronomical way. A new place has endless possibilities: a new corner of your room, a hotel or even a camping tent. Here are a few examples to try:

• Book a hotel to make love. The hotel doesn't need to be in an exotic location, it may be just a few blocks from your home. Booking for such an obvious purpose will make you feel attractive. If the hotel is near you, don't even pack your bags; it will make your reason for being in the hotel even more obvious.

• Take an exciting vacation. Plan a trip to a romantic island or beach. Pick a destination where there is not much to do other than sunbathe on the pill and indulge each other. If you're too busy sightseeing, you won't have time to set off on your lovemaking.

• While having sex in a car may seem uncomfortable, it can also be very exciting. Sex in public can get you in trouble, so do it in a totally secluded place where you won't be in danger of being seen.

• Have sex in a place where you can be caught in the act. While this is undesirable for many reasons, if you really feel able to do it, do it somewhere you can get into trouble, like a friend's house or your home when you have guests.

• Have sex in new rooms in your house. Make a pact: not having sex in your bed for a week or two or even a month. Instead, do it on the kitchen counter, in the shower, or even on your favorite chair.

• Do it on your couch. The sofa isn't just for lazing around and being the king of zapping.

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4 Role play. You need to spice up your relationship because you feel like you have fallen into a routine in which you still have the same roles, day in and day out. What better way to spice up your relationship than to indulge in a light and fun role-playing game? This will force you to take risks, but it is worth the effort. The next time you have sex, try one of these scenarios:

• Pretend you are having a big argument. Really ramp up. Shout and throw things. Then make passionate love to be reconciled.

• If you're a woman, pretend your boyfriend or husband is knocking on the door to come fix a leak, ask you to sign a bill, or just because he's lost and looking for his way. Invite him for a drink and then let the events unfold ...

• Try on some outfits from the sex shop. There you will find lots of ideas to boost your imagination, whether you dress as a police officer, princess or sexy kitten.

• Let your partner know about your fantasy, no matter how ridiculous it is. Realize it!

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5 Try something new together. Being adventurous isn't just about having daring sex. You and your partner can improve your relationship by coming out of your cocoon and trying out a novel and new activity together. Here are some examples of what you can try:

• Do an outdoor activity together: zipline, bungee jumping or a parachute jump. It will make you euphoric and bring you closer.

• Travel to a totally exotic destination. It could be Singapore or Argentina. Go to a place that is completely foreign to both of you.

• Have an exciting new hobby. It can be mountain biking or karate. Just pick an activity that is new to both of you and stick with it. You will learn something new and spend more time together at the same time.

• Eat foods that you have never tasted before. Make a point of going to restaurants serving cuisine different from the one you know, at least once or twice a month. You'll test your taste buds while having more time to talk to yourself.

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1 Always be ready for romance. Even if you've been with the same person for five or twenty-five years, that's no excuse to lounge in your pajamas until dinner time. It's not about being dressed to the nines every day, it's about acting like your relationship is just beginning and choosing your clothes carefully.

• Always be available. If you're trying to spice up your relationship, you need to be prepared to have sex anytime and anywhere. Shower regularly and maintain good personal hygiene so that you don't have to turn down advances because you don't feel clean.

• Dress well for an evening date. If you are dating one night, make an extra effort to dress to be attractive. You can also both put on your thirty-one just to feel good and have fun. Women can dress seductively by wearing a nice dress and high heels. Men can wear a stylish coat or even a suit. You will feel more attractive and attracted if you are dressed attractively.

• Even if you don't have a date, make it a point to look after your appearance more than usual for a while. You will both feel more involved in your love affair.

• Don't forget to compliment your other half on their appearance. Be gentle and romantic. Tell her how much you like her and how much her eyes are highlighted by her clothes.

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2 Plan romantic dates. Now that you have the right look, you can play the right scenario. You are dressed and ready for some romance, now is the time to act on it. Plan romantic dates, it should spice up your relationship and make you want to take action when the party ends. Here are some great ideas for a good romantic time:

• Go stargazing. Seriously. Sit together and watch the stars. Take a bottle of wine and chocolate with you. Pick a full moon night and kiss while looking at the sky.

• Listen to romantic music together. Go to a cool jazz bar and stroke your partner's hand while swaying to the beat of the music. Dress smartly and go to a piano concert.

• You two go and test some wine. Sip a glass of fine wine and take a stroll through the vineyards, it will put you in a romantic mood.

• Go for a walk. Take a hot air balloon ride, horse-drawn carriage ride, or just drive along the beach with the roof open.

• Walk along the beach at sunset.

• Have a romantic picnic. Go to a park and open a bottle of wine, a good salad as well as some cheese and some snack cookies.

• Plan a romantic date at home. You can't go out every day, but you can make your surroundings more romantic. Cook a simple, yet delicious dish, create a subdued atmosphere by turning off a few lights and lighting candles instead. Put on a background of jazz and you will be immediately more excited.

• Even though you may not be able to “meet up” every night, you should plan romantic evenings as often as you can. At least once a week should do the trick.

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3 Bring romance into your daily life. Whether you're in a hot air balloon or in the grocery store, you can always find ways to add a little romance to your relationship. You must learn to think and act romantically, no matter where you are.

• Be romantic in a creative way. Leave little messages around the house reminding your loved one how much he / she means to you. Even a post-it on the mirror will do.

• Act romantically. If you are a woman, kiss your lover at an unexpected time and let him know how beautiful or awesome he is. If you are a man, be a gentleman. Invite your partner to sit down by offering her a chair, open the doors and give her her coat if she is cold, even if she insists and says she isn’t cold.

• Write a love poem for your other half. Don't be embarrassed! Let your heart express itself there. You can even go to a park together, spend an hour writing romantic notes or poems for each other, and then share them.

• Always remember to compliment your partner on their qualities. Tell her how much you love her every morning, every day, and night before you go to bed.

• Be romantic, even when you're not together. Whether you're both at work or one of you is away for a few days, remember to send each other messages, email, or leave the other a voicemail message telling them how much you love them.

• Spend more time kissing. Spicing up a relationship isn't just about sex. It's about enjoying every detail you love about your spouse, including their tender kisses.

• Communication can be romantic. Take the time to chat and share your thoughts and feelings with your significant other. Take the time to write a long letter telling her how you are feeling.

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1 Be naughty with the food. Certain foods can make your relationship and sex life naughty and more exciting. Don't be afraid to be daring by incorporating certain foods into your lovemaking. Here are a few tips to try:

• If you are a woman, let your partner pour some wine on your chest and then lick it off.

• Suck on a popsicle, peppermint, or ice cube then kiss and please your partner. Savor this new sensation.

• Eat naked. If you eat pleasurable foods such as fruit or chocolate, eat them naked, it will get you in the mood.

• Be a part of the dessert. Place the dessert on your body, at the level of the naughty parts and invite your other half to take their dessert directly on your body.

• Drop some chocolates on your lover's naked body and enjoy them. Don't use your hands, just your mouth.

2 Express yourself in a naughty way. Flirty words can help get you horny and spice up your relationship. Whether said under the duvet or over text or over the phone, these naughty words should get you in the mood to take action without restraint.

• Be naughty on the phone. Tell your significant other what you would like them to do to you. Set up a date to make your fantasies come true. You can also make love over the phone.

• Have naughty words before you even get to foreplay. The right words will turn your partner on before they've even kissed you.

• Use naughty words when making love. Tell your significant other how you feel and how much you love their body.

• Send naughty messages. Write to him that you can't wait any longer. Be as explicit as you want. Just make sure it's somewhere where no one can read your messages.

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3 Watch an erotic program. Watching an erotic film together will get you in the mood in less time than it takes to take off your clothes. It might seem strange to you at first, but watching other people desire each other will not only turn you on, it will also give you lots of new ideas for making love.

• Watch an erotic film together such as 9 Weeks 1/2 or The Wild Orchid.

• Watch a steamy program. Watching people seducing, touching or even having sex on TV is going to get you in the mood.

• Use the old ways. Look at charming photos together.

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4 Be spontaneous. Your relationship will be more exciting if you know that you can have sex anytime you want. While it's important to have romantic parties and to put in the effort to talk more and share more activities together, it's also important not to plan everything.

• Kidnap your partner in the middle of the day and book a hotel for sex. Until the last minute, don't tell her where you're really going.

• If you feel like having sex, go for it. Unless your partner is really not in the mood, if the mood strikes you, don't be afraid to pounce on your partner.

• Kiss with passion. Kissing can spice up a relationship as much as sex. If you're in the mood, kiss your other half or take them to some unexpected place to have sex.

• Plan a surprise trip. Pack your bags and take your partner to the setting sun. You will be able to chat and have beautiful conversations as you drive and make love with amazing passion when you arrive.

• If you are in a place where it is impossible to do so, take your loved one by the hand and lead him home. Tell her "I want you right now," then run under the duvet for a really hot moment.