How to Make a Guy Ask You Out in 3 Steps

If you’re interested in someone and want him to make the first move, there are subtle yet effective ways to encourage him to ask you out. Follow these three steps to spark his interest and make it easy for him to take action.

1. Drop Hints & Show Interest

Men often hesitate to ask someone out if they’re unsure about mutual interest. Give him subtle hints—maintain eye contact, smile often, and lightly touch his arm during conversations. Compliment him genuinely and engage in flirty banter to make your interest clear.

2. Create Opportunities for Him to Ask

Sometimes, guys need the right moment to make their move. Mention an event, a new restaurant, or an activity you’d love to try and say, "It would be fun to go with someone!" This gives him an opening to suggest a date without pressure.

3. Make Him Feel Confident & Comfortable

Confidence plays a huge role in a guy’s decision to ask you out. Make him feel good around you by laughing at his jokes, showing appreciation for his qualities, and being your authentic self. When he feels valued and comfortable, he’s more likely to take the next step.

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