Madam Matrimony is the perfect blend of my personality and professional interests. I became “ordained” back in 2016 when a dear friend from high school wished to uniquely include me in her wedding day. I researched extensively and paired this role with my strengths in both writing and public speaking. I was oddly surprised with how seamless the ceremony went. More-so I can recall how exhilarated I felt while receiving many accolades throughout the evening. It took little to no time for me to realize I could be on to something.
In my early 20's I offered this service once or twice in exchange for giving a wedding gift. Within a few ceremonies I somehow generated a market beyond my own social circles. So here I am, a "younger" officiant, now hired by strangers and performing weddings for people close in age. I think that's what puts me apart from other officiants out there. I won't give members of your audience "creepy uncle" vibes but more of a friend that is there to support you on the biggest day of your life.
Not to brag but it was the best summer of my life, like one out of a movie. I befriended my husband when he was working as a mate on a Point Pleasant fishing boat. Every Thursday night a slew of servers from the boards and my future hubs and his crew would rendezvous late night at good old Broadway Bar and Grill. We'd get packaged goods and go back to said fishing boat and drink til the sun came up. on repeat. all summer. This story is why I crave and love Jersey Shore weddings. We got married in town at the Lobster Shanty with the after party at where else?...Broadway (see pic). Since 2019 we have bought a home nearby and are raising two awesome little boys who certainly keep us on our toes. If it's nice out you can find us fishing and boating in the same waters where we fell in love.
Professionally I have been a School Counselor since 2013 and achieved my NJ state counseling license in February 2023. Practicing therapy part-time, I run a small private practice called Coastal Vibes Counseling. My employment background definitely enhances my ability to officiate a wedding with style and grace. My counseling skillset makes me approachable and allows for a true working relationship as we move closer to your wedding date. In addition to officiating your ceremony, I can also facilitate premarital counseling sessions. I am excited to incorporate this facet into my work as an officiant as it allows for strongly established and continued relationships. Whether through premarital counseling or, as I am finding, aiding former brides into newly entered postpartum stages, I enjoy staying connected with clients and blending these two worlds. To hear more about my counseling practice and specialties please visit my website linked below.