Anyone 21 and older with an interest in kink is welcome. No experience is necessary and play is not required
About the Venue: Our parties are hosted in the dance floor area, upstairs, at The Bar Complex. If you’ve never been there, it’s a really cool room with lots of space and lots of mirrors! This is a public bar, so guests must be 21+ and they do ID everyone at the door. Public decency laws apply, so nipples and genitals must be covered at all times and no sex is allowed. No outside drink containers are allowed.
There will be spanking benches, hard points, a cross, and a massage table available for use. We follow R.A.C.K. rules, so you are responsible for your safety during play. If you need assistance with setting up a scene or have questions about play, you can ask Apollo, Luna, or anyone wearing a glow stick on a volunteer lanyard.
Rules and Guidelines for the Parties:
KinK night is intended to function as a dungeon party. Here are some tips to help you have a great time when you come out!
Consent is sexy, and necessary! In a dungeon setting, you should never touch someone or someone’s toys without getting permission first! No always means no and it is a complete sentence. People do not have to explain why they don’t want to do something with you.
No pictures during party hours.
During open play, you should not try and engage with people who are playing. That is called “interrupting a scene” and can really mess with headspace and create some bad experiences for everyone involved. If you enjoy watching someone play or have questions about something, wait until they are finished playing and then approach them to chat.
Since this is a public space, some types of play are restricted. Scat, watersports, and rainbow play are all prohibited. Intentional blood play is not allowed. If you break skin by accident during impact, that’s ok. If you’re doing needle play and there’s a small amount of blood, that is also ok. But no blood cupping or blood letting. Fire play is also strictly not allowed.
Nudity is not allowed; female nipples and all genitals must be covered at all times. Explicitly sexual acts are prohibited.
And lastly, keep an open mind! If you’re new to the lifestyle, you’ll likely see things you’ve never seen before. You may decide that some of those things are not for you, and that’s totally ok. We don’t all have the same kinks! It’s completely fine to say, “that’s not my kink” or “I’m not into that”, but we should always avoid saying things are gross or wrong. You don’t ever want to yuck someone’s yum!
If you have any questions or would like to volunteer, please feel free to DM LunaHedone on fetlife or LexKink on Instagram. Thanks!