Guidelines
UPDATED 9/10/2026
UPDATED 9/10/2026
Kar | They/Them | EST January 1990 | EST (NY)
Spoonie with AuDHD. Artist, and educator, so I can get busy. I commute, so I'm on the train for a few hours a day as well and can be sporadic activity wise.
Personal blog @karthonic. Self-Indulgent Blog for non-RP stuff over at karmuses. Carrd if you're interested in Commissions or following me elsewhere.
Other RP Blogs: hekatonheros (Suikoden/Eiyuden Multi) | multimundos (Star Wars, Outer Worlds multi)
Discord, Wire & Stoat upon request.
Above all else: Be Excellent to each other and party on, dudes!
Please don’t follow/interact if you’re under 18. If I follow anyone underage, it’s because I wasn’t able to access any about/ooc information, please don’t take it personally if I unfollow! I'd prefer 21+ but I know this site is still very varied. I have every right to not follow someone, decline a roleplay, just as you do. Just be polite and respectful. This blog is also OC/Crossover/AU/Multiverse/Self Insert friendly. Not your thing, then feel free to not follow.
●My activity is sporadic. I may queue a lot of shit. I may go into a black hole for a few weeks or months. It doesn't mean I don't care-- I am here to have fun and not get stressed over things. And to quote Da Share Zone: If it Sucks; Hit Da Bricks (until I'm ready to come back).
The best way to interact with me right off the bat is if folks send me some sort of starter meme or message through my DM reaching out if you're unsure about how to finagle yourself into her verses. I find myself working best riffing off thing and then discussing and building upon after. Low spoon/energy stuff is the best for me. I don't really plot that much anymore-- and if that's an issue than maybe my blog is not for you.
Communication is key. My muse might be intimidating, but I'm not-- just very busy and on mobile more often than not. Don’t know something, or want me to elaborate: ask! I forgot a reply or not feeling a thing anymore, lemme know. I'm good. I like get to know the people I write with, it makes me plot things better. If you ever want to reach out-- all my blogs and personal are listed above, and my discord is on request to mutuals, even though I'm just as much a cryptid on there as well.
Each Aspect is its own blog because I prefer to separate the main thematic aspects. I don't expect you follow each and every one of them, but if you have a Sci-Fi AU on your fantasy blog and want to follow the OG!Kar, etc, feel free! While each one is grounded in a source canon, don’t sweat it if you don’t know the other stuff. If your fandom/verse has a way in, I can finagle her into all sorts of place (she's literally an cosmic horror at heart, no matter the blog).
These are not content resource blogs. If you’re here for the pretty pictures, aesthetics, or memes, this is not the blog for you.
Most art is mine but will be credited. If I reblog any art reposted without the original creator’s permission (or GenAI!), let me know. I’ll remove it.
stellevatum: Star Wars, Mass Effect, Borderlands, Alien/Predator, The Outer Worlds, Subnautica, No Man's Sky, Galaktikon, RaM, H2G2, and more!
obscurushydrae: BPRD/Hellboy, Hades, Devil May Cry, Wolfenstein, Gravity Falls, WTNV, Obey Me!, Sandman, Good Omens, Hellsing, Persona, Durarara!!, Castlevania, Blood of Zeus, Fear & more, Basically anything with demons/angels/gods and the like.
fatalexmonstrum: Dragon Age, Suikoden, Eiyuden Chronicle, Discworld, The Arcana, Castlevania, Fairy Tail,, Baten Kaitos, D&D-ish (I don't know the lore but if you're cool I'm cool.), Fear & Hunger, and more.
Fandoms I prefer not to interact with: Anything GOT/ASOIAF, and especially anything Wizarding World.
for GOT/ASOIAF I don't mind blogs with AUs or Multis having those characters in their rosters but I will not be engaging with anything Wizarding World period.
If I'm not following you back, it's usually one of the following cases:
Non-RP blog with no indication you have an RP sideblog
No clear source of character information that's easily accessible
I've read your information and I don't think our muses will vibe. (Or don't have readily accessible verse to jump in).
You followed me on the wrong themed blog-- if I think you fit with one of the others I'll follow there.
Or frequently move or remake but haven't done any serious interactions.
The solution to that: Drop me a DM, particularly with one the icebreakers below. It lets me know you've read this and I'm more likely to follow back if I know you've read my rules. Or send an ask meme. Otherwise if you're following and not really engaging I just assume you're just here to enjoy the fuckery. (Though you might get softblocked in a follower purge down the line.)
If I follow you or like a post but not follow, it's likely because I want to check out your rules but can't find a mobile friendly/need time to look through things, especially if it's a carrd/other site. If you follow back, I'll try to message/send passwords as I don't want to overstep.
I may unfollow or softblock-- but that doesn't mean I am not against second chances. It usually means either we haven't really done anything and I'm keeping my dash tidy or haven't been around for a very long time (6+ months or more).
If you'd prefer I don't accidentally re-follow, you are free to hardblock. It's a bummer, but we need to what makes each of us comfortable to write. I will only hardblock if it is in your rules or if it was something serious that warrants it.
Posts with Blood, Gore, Body Horror, Drugs, etc, will be tagged to the best of my ability with (name); for instance drugs;
Posts will be tagged upon request, just let me know! If I have forgotten a tag, also let me know.
As stated above, depending on the Aspect her background information will contain mentions of: Sexual assault and trafficking, stalking, Being held captive/resticted against her will. attempted suicide, and self harm and will be tagged accordingly. While I won't roleplay the acts, they may be discussed in threads or in headcanon posts. If written, it wil be tagged/labelled to the best of my ability.
Kar will frequently talk about drug and alcohol use, and make casual references to suicide and self harm in a hyperbolic or self-deprecating way, and unless asked, will be untagged.
Kar for the most part in all Aspects, is a primordial cosmic being/horror/god. Raised by mortals, so she thought she was. And spent most of her life just vaguely gesturing and just going with "humanoid." As for appearance, unless you’re really looking you might notice the fangs. And for the most part, assume she’s wearing her signature sunglasses covering her eyes since those rarely are taken off in public.
While not usually brought up often, but Kar in some of her aspects has attempted to end her life and self-harmed, and/or was stalked/held against her will, and/or assaulted. Nowadays it’s usually just masked with fatalistic humor, recreational drug use, and lots of drinking. It will mostly be mentioned through discussion and not the acts happening.
If there is a case of the above happening in writing I WILL try my best to tag accordingly.
Despite being femme presenting and using she/her pronouns she is nonbinary and neither me or her owe you or your characters any explanation of her own personal relationship with gender to prove or validate her identity. (They/Them is also fine as well though!)
Godmoding is discouraged but I’m not going to stop it. I will likely try to out ridiculous you Bugs Bunny style. Even though she can’t die, you’re free to try and kill her, but let me know first (either way she’s gonna be pissed FYI).
The Anon feature is privilege, I will revoke it for my well-being if need be.
Askbox will only be open for IC interactions, save for when the meme specifies Mun. Private IMs are for OOC communication. Anon feature is for sideblogs, multimuses to interact ICly with me at their comfort. I don't vibe with general "anon" inbox interactions without an explicit character; the exception being Headcanon Questions/Secret Letter memes. If I receive an anon to answer in-character without indicating who it is, I will likely delete it. But if I think it's worth answering, Kar will likely treat it as coming from a stranger and regard it with mistrust and hostility. You've been warned.
I will not engage with: Magic Anons or any king or ask meme/thread variations of "Why are you following me" prompts. It's a personal pet peeve.
There’s no need to wait to send me a meme if you’ve followed me for 5 minutes or 5 months, send the thing.
Regarding ship/prompt memes: If you're not a ship partner you can always send me prompts regarding her pairings on hekatonheros/multimundos if you ever want to (or if we are ship partners and you like those explorations!)
if you reblog an ask meme off me, please send me one. Otherwise, reblog the meme from @karkhive. If you don't reblog from there, you will get a polite reminder first. But if it continues frequently, it will lead to softblocking.
While I prefer to use memes and go from there, sometimes I do plot, but it's not usually how I like to do things. I am a wall spaghetti writer-- toss out whatever and see what sticks. Sometimes plotted stuff doesn't stick for me, at least on tumblr. I feel like serious plotted stuff (for me) is easier in a closed space like a private server. But if you have something you want to try, let me know and we can talk!
That being said if we're discord mutuals, and you’d rather we move things to discord, just ask! I’ll set up a server just for us!
But feel free to jump on any open post, there’s no need to ask permission, they’re there for that reason!
I will be keeping my posts simple. I don't have the time/energy to make super formatted posts, and I like to keep things as accessible as possible. I do try to keep track of the heavily plotted stuff, but feel free to remind me if it's been a bit!
Communicate! If you’re having trouble writing a reply, talk to me! If you don’t like or not feeling a thread, say so and drop the thread. That also doesn’t mean things are done for good. Come to me if you want to skip/do something else.
Shipping is welcomed and willing to discuss the possibility, but I leave the rest to chemistry and just how we as writers write.
I tend not to reach out first (being a femme OC in general and past experiences have made me a bit leery), so if you see me post a call or meme and are interested: SEND THE THING!
Kar is into men (I guess technically you can call her het even though she's nonbinary but pretty cisfemme presesenting) , and will be polite about turning others down, unless one doesn’t take the hint.
I will only write ships with 21+ muns, but 25+ is preferred.
This blog is multiship, meaning each relationship is treated as its own separate place in the multiverse unless discussed and agreed upon. Multiples of the same muse are welcome in case of canons, as everyone write them different. (It's a "Hey more Cakes!" deal on my end!)
Kar can be polifidelitous. She’s okay with having multiple partners and those partners having partners if your character is cool with it. But she can be selectively monogamous in your little bubble too. It's all totally up to discussion and scheming.
NSFW is heavily to be discussed. I would prefer to move it privately, ideally on discord/stoat but I have made a private "inspo/prompt" blog for any ship partners to send me prompts offsite to write and will share that blog only on request. Anyone that isn't a partner that will follow that blog will be blocked at will.
That being said, please be clear and direct. If you are interested; say so. If you are not interested or no longer wanting to go in that direction, please tell me rather than just ghosting/ignoring me. If you are interested, enthusiastic communication, even if it is infrequent, helps a lot, even if it's like a video or meme and you going "it them" goes a long way for me.
If I find myself continuously initiating a conversation and getting vague/non-committal, or no response after a few months, it will be treated as disinterest and the matter dropped. You are free to reach out any time later if you wish to try to rekindle things if you so wish!
If you read and understand this, I would appreciate if you'd let me know if you can-- no pressure, no passwords, just leaving some icebreakers here instead.
Here's a DM icebreakers:
What's your favorite paleofauna? (If you're lucky I may have cool fact about it.)
What's the current song you're jamming to?