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Become a Masterful Lover
Become a Masterful Lover
Get out of your head and into your primal lust while feeling empowered and free
I want to create a space for our date where we feel comfortable to share any desires with each other. A space where we can escape the outer world for a bit and have a relaxed and fun time together and at the same time build deep connection and intimacy which will make the sex even more ecstatic and exciting. I will show you how to be a masterful lover- get out of your head and into the present moment, tap into your primal lust while feeling powerful and confident. Connect with yourself on a new level and find out how your sexual energy can help you to not just survive but thrive in your life.
If you've been looking for a partner to try out tantric sex practices with but havn't found anyone yet to deepen and expand your pleasure capacity, to heal deep painful wounds through sexuality, I offer an intimat partners experience where I'll guide us through tantric practices + help you attract your dream partner along the way.
You want to:
Reignite your sexual lust and desire?
Reignite your sexual lust and desire?
Thrive and live fully?
Thrive and live fully?
Heal an issue like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?
Heal an issue like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?
Explore spiritual sexual experiences ?
Explore spiritual sexual experiences ?
Be an amazing lover to your partner?
Be an amazing lover to your partner?
Have a space to be your full self and be accepted?
Have a space to be your full self and be accepted?
With holistic sex practices using
breathwork - visualization - sounding - focus - movement - mindfulness
I will give you a glimpse of how sex could look like when you release the shame, fear and repression that is holding you back from having outrageously pleasurable experiences in bed.
Of course this will not happen in just one hour, it’s amazing how much transformation can happen in an hour though, but I can show you and practice with you easy tools that you can do on your own and have for the rest of your life. You can always come back to me, learn even more and use the tools so that we can become masterful lovers together.
Example Practices
Example Practices
The emphasis in my work is on sexual healing. This means we‘ll do everything that feels empowering and safe to heal emotional wounds whilst using pleasure as fuel. I will use my intuition to work so our date will look different everytime.
This also means this process can lead to penetration and orgasm but it doesn‘t have to. Penetration and Orgasm are not the end goal. The goal is intimacy, connection, love, safety, belonging, empowerment and healed emotional wounds.
Consent, communication, presence and honesty therefor will be key in us working together!
Who Am I ?
Who Am I ?
I’m half german, half american born and raised in Berlin, Germany. I can be shy and awkward but also confident and cheeky if I want to. I care about our world that we live in and want my input to be something that has purpose and lights up the world a little bit more. My heart leads me to help individuals heal in their sexuality and through their vulnerability. So I‘m just trying out different things and having fun with it.
I create content for onlyfans, where in the future I will be talking more about the different tools that I use to become a tantrica mastress in my videos. You can also see me in other porn movies from Cheex, Hardwerk, Ersties and Abby Winters.
I‘m a Vita Certified Sex, Love and Relationship Coach with a tantric approach. You can look at what my teacher does on her website (laylamartin.com) and youtube channel. We get taught a tone of practices and tools to help the clients get what they desire in one on one sessions usually over zoom.
I created a concept that combines sex work with the tantric tools that we received to create deep intimacy, love, safety and empowerment in a sex date.
Concept & Example
Concept & Example
1.-We find out what your True Desire is. My first Questions: What do you really really want ? Do you want better Sex or sacred Sex?
Example
We go through the practice, Love, Fears and Desires and find out: You struggle with premature ejaculation and you desire to feel relaxed and confident during Sex (you wish for sacred sex)
2. 5 Senses Reality/Body-mind mapping/meditation/exploration- I guide you through your five senses while you imagine yourself living your desire + I guide you while you scan your body and feel where resistance might come up towards your desire .
Example
You and I are cuddling and I'm holding you in my arms. You answer to the 5 senses reality: I can see myself in bed with my partener after hours of sex, there's a mess everywhere. I can feel my sweat on my skin, I can smell her body sweat & I hear some nice jazz music in the backround.I can still taste the strawberries that we were eating before. We are both laying there, our bodies intertwined and relaxed as never before. Everything feels peaceful. When I imagine this I can feel that my stomache starts hurting and my back feels tense. Also thoughts come up that make me afraid. We start exploring with the tenseness in your back since that one feels the strongest... I keep it in the back of my mind to work with during the next practices.
3. I create a plan & choose practices that help you get what you desire. I go with what my intuition tells me.
Example
We create a ritual space with love, safety and acceptance- a safe ground where healing & transformation can occur
We set intentions & concecrations: We intend to stay as present as possible & We offer this practice to devine unconditional love
We activate the power centers within your body- Chakras
We do an intimacy exploration to build trust - for instance eye gazing
We do a breathwork practice together to get out of our pre-frontal cortex part of our brains (the thinking brain) and into our primal part of the brain- this is good for releasing the thoughts that made you afraid after the 5 senses reality
After the breathwork we start touching each other, kissing, massaging, petting, whatever feels good maybe we even move into penetration. If you feel the tenseness in your back again I guide you to focus on your breath, to slow down & to sound the tensenes on the exhale. We move slowly so that you can always refocus towards relaxation & staying present.
4. Closing the ritual space
Example
we cuddle, reflect & exchange thoughts: You felt more relaxed but found it hard to stay present & you feel tired now. You also felt way more sensations in your penis than usual. We take three deep breaths together to close of. I give you some homework to do by yourself: testical massage.
Next time we'll maybe do soul gazing ( eye gazing but working with the soul) and Sex magic ( Visualizing your 5 Senses reality/desire while using your sexual energy to attract and manifest what you want by moving it through all your chakras and blasting it out into the universe). I will check in with you to see what is present at the beginning of every session. We will work on staying present, hightening the sensations in your body and staying relaxed.
I also have a little journal where I take notes just for you. After the session you take it with you as recap and adding anything else you want to.
Why work with me ?
Why work with me ?
Finally someone that you can share your deepest desires & fears with while being seen and accepted in all of it
One on One personal guidance just for you
I am an experienced escort working since 2017
I am a Vita Certified Love, Sex and Relationship Coach with a tantric approach which entailed an extensive 1 year training
I love this line of work and am committed with heart and soul
I know how to get to the point where you can confidentley say: " I love being sober " & in your day to day life feel naturally high and excited to be alive.
Regular Sex Date
Regular Sex Date
If you are not sure if you want to book a tantric date and you just want to get to know me first you can book a regular Sex Date with me. Let‘s meet see if the chemistry fits and from there on do whatever feels good. You can ask any questions you have about a tantric sex date or you can just enjoy a sexy time with me. This includes penetration, other sexual play, going out for dinner, talking, etc.. Ofcoarse we will still have good communication, boundaries & safety. Just write me your desires, boundaries & where you want to meet in the links next to the prices of regular sex date.
Questions?
Questions?
You want to learn more about what I
do and set a date for a date ?
You can contact me via e-mail
julyvaya@web.de
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