How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You All Over Again
Love is one of the most beautiful feelings on this planet. This feeling will make you fly high in the sky. You will feel butterflies in your stomach, and the person you love will become so special to you that you will want to be with him/her every time. But what if the same person starts ignoring you for no reason and his/her behavior tells you loudly that he/she is not interested in you and does not want to be with you anymore? What will be your reaction? You will be heartbroken, we know that in some cases, depression led the person to think about suicide. But that is not the way out. Why don't you try alternative ways?
Before you proceed reading further keep these 2 things in your mind forever;
Do whatever your lover wants but never at the cost of your self-respect.
Always give priority to your lover’s choice but never let yourself down for someone.
Taking care of your dignity is the most important thing in a relationship. If you beg them or ask them to get back in a relationship with you they will rule over you and destroy your personality. If you follow this article to the tee we assure you
that you will get your lover back without losing your self-respect.
1. Take Care Of Your Appearance
In many cases, we have seen, when a person is in love with someone, he/she takes care of all the needs of the beloved but forgets about himself/herself and his/her appearance. Remember that your sincerity comes next. The first thing that draws your lover's attention to you is your overall appearance. It is good to take care of your lover, but letting yourself go is not appreciated in most cases, and ultimately you may lose your lover.
It is necessary to take care of all your attire in front of your lover; otherwise, your lover will constantly compare you with others and may lose interest in you. So if you think your lover is losing interest in you and you want to make him/her fall in love with you again, take care of your appearance. By doing this, you are taking a step forward in getting your lover's attention back on you.
2. Cut All Means Of Communications
Once you have groomed yourself, now cut all communication.
This means that you will not connect him on any social media platform, not on calls or not even on texts. You are all set with your new good looks, and you are ignoring the person you once loved like crazy. This will make him think about your behavior, which means they will eventually start thinking about you. If you want them to fall in love with you again, stick to this rule as long as your lover comes back to you. Now you may be thinking, if you two don't communicate, how can your lover fall in love with you again? It is human nature; if a person thinks more about something, it means he/she wants him/her back. So if your lover wonders about you and your strange behavior, he/she will eventually start missing you without realizing it and want you back again.
3. Recall The Mistakes In Your Relationship
In the first place, you need to think, what was the reason for the separation of the two of you? Now you have to make sure that it was you who made a mistake or your lover. If it is your mistake, try to find out how you can improve yourself, and if it is your lover's mistake, make him realize that he was wrong. In other words, you need to find the culprit and develop an appropriate strategy to win back your loved one's love and trust. Wanting your lover back is not everything; if you have made a mistake, you need to improve and prove to them that it will not happen again.
4. Make An Apology If Necessary
Your self-respect and dignity come first, but if you think you were wrong, and the guilty one, then make an apology as soon as possible as there is no harm in apologizing for your mistake but keep in mind do not do this for the sake of your lover because you want him back in your life.
Many people believe that apologizing makes them weaker, but in reality, it does not; in fact, apologizing for your mistakes makes you stronger. Your attitude will show that you have realized your mistake, and you are ready to move forward and that you want to forget your past. Your changed personality will make him suspicious about you and your current life, and he might fall in love with you again because of your positive change.
5. Do Things That Make You Happy
Don't think all the time only about getting your lover back. You need to think about yourself first, so do things that make you happy. For example, if shopping makes you happy, go shopping. Your happiness is more important. If you think about your ex all the time, you will never be able to bring him back into your life. But if you give yourself some time and space, you will feel better and leave your lover with the impression that he is not as important to you as before. Besides, if you are happy inside, you will become more beautiful and attractive outside. This is the time when your lover will start to think about you and fall for you again.
6. Make Your Lover Jealous
Maybe some of you don't find this a great idea, but we assure you that sometimes this is the greatest thing if you do it in the right and subtle way.
All you have to do is post some of your pictures with the person your lover doesn't know. This will make him wonder who is the other person sitting next to you and why he is so close to you. Again, he will start thinking about your behavior, and eventually, he will start thinking about you. If you want to make him even more jealous, you can flirt with some guys when he is around. This will make him realize that he still needs you and can't live without you, and if he wants to get back to you, he should try harder.
7. Return All His Belongings
During your relationship, you must have exchanged some gifts with him, and if you have his things around, you will think about him all the time. So, it is better to return all his belongings and ask him to return your gifts to you. This trick will work in 2 ways; you will not be surrounded by his things anymore and will not be depressed and unhappy by thinking about him all the time. Secondly, if you return all his things and ask to return yours, he will realize that you are moving on without him. Eventually, he will start thinking about you, and the gifts you returned will remind him of all the loving moments with you. If he just can't get rid of the thoughts when he was with you, he will start missing you, and that is all you want. Also, he won't be able to let go of the idea that you have given all his stuff back and you are moving on to a new life and a new partner. This will make him want to return to you.
8. Try To Indulge In Different Activities
As humans, we have always wanted to do something, but we
can't most of the time. So if there is something like painting, swimming, acting, singing, etc., you always wanted to try, but somehow you didn't. It is high time to throw yourself into various activities that you like. This will not only make you fresh from the inside out but also make your ex think that you are not a lousy woman sitting on the couch and eating potato chips, instead, he will feel that you are a smart woman since you decided to spend your free time more wisely. If you want to get rid of these thoughts, have some fun in your life while bringing him back, try this idea as this will help you the most.
9. Wait For The Right Time To Start Communicating With Him
So far, you are ignoring him by making him jealous and pretending that you don't care about him, right? Well, if you see that your ex is on fire and ready to get back to you and start talking to you again, start communicating with him slowly as this is the right time to get in touch with him. Most women do not recognize the perfect time and get back in contact with their ex
too soon, which will not lead to a good result. Never try to get back in touch with him the next day after the breakup, even within a few days, because this is not the right time. He will think that you want him desperately, which will make him even more distant from you. You both need time and space to understand yourself and your desires, so it is better to stay away from him but always do things that remind him of you. If you subtly do this, you will surely get him back after some time.
10. Contact Him Indirectly
If he somehow hasn't contacted you, try contacting him indirectly just to send him the message that you are moving on. Get in touch with his friends, hang out with them and let them know that you are doing well. Once they find out that you have already moved on, they will tell your ex about it. In short, these friends will act as a middleman. When your ex finds out that you are doing well with his friends, he will be jealous, and when he finds out that you are perfectly fine even without him, he will start missing you very badly. Also, if you are sad, don't let your
friends find out about your sadness and pretend to be genuinely happy, but don't try to act cocky because you might get caught pretending.
11. Recall Memories Together
Once you are back in contact with your ex, start reminding him about the things he likes about you. Like you can reminisce about some humorous event from the past, or you can do such things that he likes about you. For example, if he used to like your dimple; start smiling more in front of him to enhance your dimple so that he can adore you again. Also, think of other similar things he used to like about you. This way, he won't be able to get rid of your thoughts even when you are not around him.
This is one of the best ideas to make him realize his feelings for you without letting him know because this is the time when his brain will start linking all the fond memories with his feelings, and he will start falling for you again.
12. Don’t Move Too Fast
If you two are now in contact, never show him that you desperately wanted him back, instead pretend that you all started again on a friendly basis; otherwise, you will lose him. Take all things slowly and start communicating (try not sending him a text first and don't reply to him too fast), if he insists you
go out with him, say no first. I know deep down you wanted to tell him, yes, but you have to say no, and if he keeps insisting you hang out with him, say yes but make sure he knows you are not going with him as a girlfriend but as a friend. You need to remind him every time that you two are just friends now, so he will keep trying to get close to you. Your positive change, overall appearance, attitude, and hesitation will attract his male ego which won’t allow him to accept you as a friend rather than a lover like before. Besides, all these things make him even more curious about you, and he will surely want back to you.
13. Trap Him Emotionally
This is the best playing card to make your ex fall for you again; all you need to do to trigger his emotional buttons again is to ask him to help you with your office assignment or ask his advice on some serious issues. Tell him that your car is not working and you have to go to an important meeting. It would be great if he could give you a lift. All these things will make him believe that you are having difficulties and can't do it yourself, so he won't regret helping you. This will trigger his emotional desire for you; he will do everything possible to find a solution to your problems and ta-da!!!! He will start feeling for you again and get back to you in no time because his protective nature is awakened and he won’t want you to suffer by any means.
14. Start Teasing Him
I know some of you might find it weird but this is one of the most important steps. Here using the word teasing doesn't
mean you are actually going to tease him rather just poke him into small things like his whereabouts and his attire. For example, if he is wearing a black shirt tell him that black is not in trend anymore. This way he thinks that after your break up your mind has been changed a lot and now you know your worth. He will try harder to get you back because he feels more attracted to you when he realizes that you are not going to accept him the way he is. And, if you are married, your husband will certainly fall back in love with you again!
You know that when a man finds a woman who is difficult to conquer he will try everything possible to get her and when he finally gets her he never leaves her because he already knows how difficult it was for him to please that woman. So be that strong woman he never wants to leave.
15. Make Them Feel Better
If you feel that your ex is sad and not feeling well, help him get back in the mood. You can do this by listening to him. If he doesn't want to share or talk, just sit next to him. You can now quote some inspirational stories or crack some jokes to make him happy. This is not the end; there are many other ways to cheer him up and make him feel better, such as treating him to his favorite cuisine, asking him to go out with you, playing his favorite music, and much more. This will make your lover believe that you are the right person for him, and besides, you two are not together anymore; you are still there for him. Your ex will realize how important you are and eventually start thinking about you again.
16. Control Your Emotions
Never give control of your life to him. If you do he will think that you rely on him, and he will eventually lose interest in you. You need to show him that you are confident enough to make your own decisions and that you do not depend on him every time. You can seek his advice, but make decisions on your own.
He will begin to admire you and your strength and will be more attracted to you than before. He will realize his mistake of leaving you and want to come back to you. In short, support him but as a friend and challenge him to win you back. Now you know what to do if you want him back. It is equally important to learn what not to do if you want him back.
Never ask for his attention.
Don't shower him with affection all the time
Don't act jealous when he is with another woman.
Don't text him to often.
Never allow him to take advantage of you.
The last point is very important: no matter how crazy you are about him, never allow him to take advantage of you. If you don't like something about him, tell him clearly, because that is your right. Remember that your dignity comes first, and you should take care of it.
Wrapping It Up
Sometimes know matter how hard you try, nothing seems to work. At this point you may ultimately find yourself facing a divorce. On the other hand, I believe if you do all these things right, I bet you will get your ex back within no time. But remember, you are a woman; you need to take care of your dignity and self-respect first. So never allow him to walk all over you. Love him, take care of him, but take everything slowly because if you move too fast, eventually he will lose interest in you completely instead of coming back to you. Don't act creepy, sad, or moody in front of him; by doing so, you won't gain his sympathy, but you will push him away from you. So if you want to win him back, make yourself a challenge for him, and he will surely come back to you.