Episode 7 | When you can't see the forest for the trees
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains candid conversations around suicide.
As we head into Mental Health Month, we made a choice to embrace this years theme of 'Let's Talk About It'
In 2020, I (Shannon) was one of the 65,000 Australians who attempted to take their own life. Here , now, I could not be more grateful that I wasn't successful.
But it's been a long road forward.
In this episode, along with Megan, and our beautiful friend Rachel, we engage in a candid conversation around what that time was like for not just me, but for them also.
How do you support someone who doesn't have the capacity to help themselves?
How do we make the world safer for those of us who are not ok?
We don't have all the answers, but that's not going to stop us asking the questions.
Our hope is that within this episode you will find the power, beauty and bravery of vulnerability as well as the capacity to sit within a tough conversation, not just with us, but with anyone who needs you.
If you or someone you know is suicidal and there is an immediate risk of harm call 000
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Lifeline is national charity providing all Australians experiencing emotional distress with access to 24 hour crisis support and suicide prevention services. They exist so that no person in Australia has to face their darkest moments alone.
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Suicide Call Back Service is a free nationwide service providing 24/7 phone and online counselling to people at risk as well as those affected by suicide.
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Beyond Blue is available to help all people in Australia achieve their best possible mental health.
Earlier, easier, together.
Whether you're seeking mental health information or 24/7 qualified support for you or someone else, they here to help.
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MensLine Australia offers free professional phone and online counselling to men across Australia 24 hours a day. Their experienced counsellors are available to listen, understand, and provide support for a range of issues, including:
Men’s mental health, including anxiety and depression
Relationship problems
Anger management
Coping strategies
Grief and loss
Loneliness and isolation
Parenting
Stress
Suicide prevention
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13YARN [Thirteen YARN] is the first national crisis support line for mob who are feeling overwhelmed or having difficulty coping. They offer a confidential one-on-one yarning opportunity with a Lifeline-trained Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander Crisis Supporter who can provide crisis support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. 13YARN empowers their community with the opportunity to yarn without judgement and provide a culturally safe space to speak about their needs, worries or concerns.
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Kids Help Line provide free support and counselling (talking through problems) to people aged 5-25.
You can chat to them about ANYTHING big or small, serious, or silly, easy, or complicated, long or short, bad or good, in the past, future or now...
The most common things people talk about include mental health, emotions, and family & friend relationships.
The stuff you say is private & confidential - and you can remain anonymous.
A personal note from Shannon...
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for listening.
While it might seem like I spend my days wandering through forests with frivolous abandon , what you’re a part of here with us is actually my self-care routine and mindfulness practice.
Four years ago, I went into the forest to die. But today, in that same forest, I can breathe. I can find peace. I feel connected. Nature continually reminds me that, even in the toughest of circumstances, there is always a way forward.
If my story resonates with you, I want you to know: I see you. This conversation is an invitation into a shared space—to acknowledge just how hard life can be.
If you know someone who might be going through something similar, use your experience here, as a way to start a conversation. Tell them you listened, and ask if they can relate.
And if you’ve found your way here and are in the middle of that darkness—the kind that feels suffocating, where the weight of the world presses down relentlessly—I want you to know I’ve been there too. I’ve felt lost in the storm, unable to see a way out. But even in that deep pain, hope still exists. Sometimes it’s hidden, like a seed beneath the earth, waiting for its moment to grow.
When I was at my lowest, I believed the only way to find peace was to let go. But here I am today, and I’m grateful that I stayed. What I didn’t realize then—and what I want you to know now—is that pain, while overwhelming, is not forever. There are moments of light, connection, beauty, and laughter still waiting for you. They may seem distant now, but they are there.
Reaching out to others is not a sign of weakness; it’s one of the bravest things you can do. It’s okay not to be okay right now. What matters most is giving yourself permission to seek support, whether it’s from a friend, a family member, or someone who understands. There are people out there who get it—far more people than you realize, just as I didn’t realize until I started talking about it, and they step out, and say me too. None of us are here alone. Until you find those people, there are resources available, brilliant organizations, full of people who have been where you are.
You don’t have to carry this burden alone. It is possible to come through to the other side, to discover new reasons to live, and most importantly, to heal. I promise you—there is a future worth fighting for, even if you can’t see it right now.
You matter. Your story matters. Stay with us.
With love and understanding,
Shannon
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Source Information
'Suicide and Self Harm Monitoring' by Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, Available at:
https://www.aihw.gov.au/suicide-self-harm-monitoring/data/suicide-self-harm-monitoring-data