iConversation Starters

Most women, if they had the choice of walking through the world or meet single men for dating and have fantastic relationships with them, would choose relationships. We talked to a large number of women who are tired of attending events for singles, writing ads, and browse through the various profiles of men on online dating sites, all with the sole intention of finding a man to go on a date with and maybe have a quality relationship.

Many women are absolutely able to get out and meet people, but one thing that comes out from time to time are the mistakes that women make when they make a date. There are some women who think that the guy that they have dated are afraid to call them again. These women mistakenly assume that these men prefer to stay in the world of singles, when in fact it is just as likely that he is gone because he made a crucial mistake on the first date. Regardless of whether you are attending with older men or younger men, the attitude of men towards relationships can be surprisingly similar to yours, although women are conditioned to think otherwise.

Avoid these mistakes and you will never again attend events for singles or browse through the various profiles of men on online dating sites on Friday night alone at home:

Bringing your baggage to the date. This does not mean the kids or anything like that. For "baggage" we mean the insecurities and drama of your life. No man wants to hear about all the things that have happened to you, or the last report in which you had been the victim, or simply the fact that you do not like how your ass looks with the dress you are wearing. He went on a date with you because he likes you, so please do not turn off their signals of attraction, revealing your insecurities to the world.
Talking too much. It 's always been in the minds of men that being a good listener will enter him in the book of good for most women. For a lot of people this means that they sit back and let you talk incessantly without interruption, simply because it seems the right thing to do. The truth is that the man wants to talk about himself as much as you do, so ask him provocative questions about himself, his goals and let him speak.
Conforming to a personality type. An advantage of ads for singles is that it allows you to show your diversity on paper. There are some personality types that are universally attractive to a guy that is sexy, playful, funny, smart, serious, affectionate and cute. One thing that we see too often in the early stages is a woman who is too conforming to a type of personality. If you're too sexy then you are easy, if you're too smart you are an exhibitionist. Try to integrate them all when you go out with a man, shows how you can be so different that no man can classify you to a personality type – and he continues to keep on guessing!
Not being relaxed. A guy who is on a date with you wants the real you, not a nervous version that hides all your best features in a shell which is impenetrable! One thing to remember when you have to meet a man is to not let others make you nervous before the singles' event! We spend the most pleasant moments when we are relaxed and have fun with people. This means being involved in the moment, and do not analyze every little detail of the date. Let things develop naturally. Relaxed and confident women who are in full control of themselves are more attractive in the minds of men. This is especially true when you meet older men, who value a confident woman.
Spending too much time with a date. Dates should be short and fun. This keeps it fresh and spontaneous in the early stages: so save a bit 'of time for the next meeting!