Introducing your new pet to your pets at home

Introducing Cats to Cats

Successful cat introductions take time!

Introducing cats too quickly can damage their relationship permanently and lead to all sorts of problems including aggression, fear, anger, and litterbox issues for one or both cats. Patience is the key to a successful integration of cats into the household.

These are only approximate timelines, every cat and household dynamic are different. Some integrations can proceed faster or slower depending on the cat’s personalities, comfortability with other cats, ages, history and other factors. For example, if you are bringing a shy cat into your household the resident cat can help the new cat gain confidence and they can be integrated much more quickly most of the time.  

When you bring your new cat home place them in the prepared, secured room. Let the cats smell each other through the closed door. After a few days, start to exchange bedding between the cats daily so they can get used to each other’s scents. Began letting the new cat explore outside of their room for a couple hours by placing the resident cat in a secure room. You could do this several times for the 2-4 day acclimation period.  

Place your new cat in a carrier outside of the secured room and let your resident cat check out the new arrival. Look out for signs of aggression or discomfort and keep the visit short. Repeat this as many times as needed and you can switch cats, so the resident cat is in the carrier. Once the cats appear to be more comfortable with each other or are ignoring each other you can move on to face to face interactions. 

Let the cats meet each other at their own pace. Leave the door to the secure room open a bit so that the new cat can explore at their own pace. Supervise any interactions at this stage and be prepared to intervene if you see serious aggression or threats from either party. Keep these visits short too and slowly lengthen if everything is going well.

If things aren’t going well, slow down the progression. Go back to the previous step with them seeing each other with a barrier. A screen door also works well as a barrier. You can also feed, give positive attention or give treats while they are on each side of the barrier so that they associate the other cat with positive things. Feliway may also be helpful for integration.

Even after the cats have been integrated for months there could be the occasional swatting, hissing and general grouchy behavior. Cats’ hierarchical social structure is constantly being tested and these spats are considered normal for cat siblings.   

Some cat relationships tend to be easier than others and you can take that into account when considering a new cat family member.

General Cat intro tips


Introducing Dogs to Dogs 

This should NOT be in your home. Ideally, it would be in an outdoor, fully fenced space that neither dog has claimed. If that is not available a large garage or basement would be an alternative as long as it is a neutral space. Make sure to put away items that a dog may be protective of, such as toys, bones, beds, and food bowls.

Start with the dogs on leash. Do not let them interact yet. This will require two people. Watch for wagging tails and friendly body language. If one of the dogs is performing a hard stare, or freezes in place, has their tail tucked, or has a tense body posture, or the dog is clearly stressed and runs to you, take a break from the interaction. If you are not comfortable with how the dogs are interacting, reach out to a professional trainer for help.

Take the dogs for walk moving in the same direction where they are aware of each other, but not close enough they fixate or can reach each other. After a while, turn around and switch sides coming back. This gives the dogs time to sniff the potty spots to learn more information about the other dog. As the dogs are looking relaxed, gradually decrease the distance between the two. Do not have them meet face to face as this can be stressful. 

Once you are comfortable with the interactions of the parallel walk, return to the neutral, enclosed space. Drop the leashes, while leaving them attached and let the dogs interact. Praise them for calm, friendly interactions. As they continue to sniff and get to know each other, they may start to play. Make sure the play is respectful and not too pushy. 

Once you are comfortable with their interactions, you can bring your new dog into the home. Have the resident dog separated from the new dog and allow the new dog to investigate. Once the new dog has thoroughly investigated, you may bring out the resident dog. Make sure to pick up all of the toys, treats, beds, food bowls, prized possessions before bringing the resident dog inside as well.

Be aware for signs of tension, such as low growls, hard stares, and body blocking. If these occur, give the dogs a 20–30-minute break from each by separating them and directing their attention elsewhere.

Other tips: 

Introducing Dogs to Cats

The goal with desensitization is to get the dog accustomed to and lose interest in the cat. It can take days, weeks, or even months 

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Other tips


Tips for introducing your children to your new dog

ALWAYS supervise interactions between the dog and children.

Have the dog leashed and sitting before introducing them.

Teach your child how to be gentle and respectful of the dog. Monitor the dog’s body language and make sure they are comfortable with the interaction. A lot of times on the internet you see "cute" videos of young children crawling all over a dog and the dog is clearly stressed. DO NOT ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO DO THIS. This can easily lead to your child getting bit. 

Remove items the dog may be possessive over.