The bed in a couple can be the place of all the stakes: you finish seducing your man by making him discover the sweet pleasures of love that you know how to give him, you bicker there, you reconcile yourself there, you make surprises there, you confide in it.
In short, it is a place that you must master, especially from a sexual point of view. So how do you make a man happy in this bed where there is so much going on with your partner? How to ensure that it is a place of pleasure rather than disappointment? The answer in the rest of the article.
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Do you know how to make your man happy outdoors and in everyday life? You will have to do the same in bed. How? 'Or' What ? By remaining the one who knew how to please him otherwise. You shouldn't try to change, to do things that you don't like in order to try to make him or her better in bed.
If that doesn't appeal to you, he will feel it and it will not work. So the easiest way is for you to listen to your desires, to do whatever tempts you, without forcing yourself. You knew how to seduce him very well before getting to bed, you will know how to seduce him once you get there.
By remaining as natural as possible. To make a man happy in bed you don't have to play a role that is unlike yourself, be yourself, natural, to make your time in bed as personal and therefore as enjoyable for both of you as possible.
Ok, it's totally understandable that you are a little anxious if this is your first time in bed with this man you were dreaming of. But put it in perspective, he is a man like any other and if you are there with him, it is because he likes you. So don't be shy, don't tell yourself that you are not up to this man.
On the contrary, be as sure of yourself as you were when you went out to dinner. Be as seductive and as playful as you are everyday. Be the woman he fell in love with. You will be much more comfortable like this and therefore will be even more able to make him happy in bed. So you have no excuse for trying to invent a character for yourself that you don't like and who doesn't look like you.
If it is important for your man to find the one he liked every day, the one he fell for, you can also reserve good surprises for him. Were you quite shy and reserved when having coffee?
This should not prevent you from letting yourself express yourself with this man in bed: if you get it right, great; if you want to take initiatives, do not hesitate. As long as you stay in tune with yourself, do things that appeal to you, you can surprise him as pleasantly as you want.
No man is against good surprises, on the contrary, they ask for more. You should therefore not hesitate. Listen to yourself and innovate to surprise him and make him even happier to be in bed with you.
You can surprise him by showing him a facet of your character that he did not know: more enterprising than he would have thought and more comfortable than he thought. But don't stop there, surprise him too by taking him to a universe he wasn't thinking of.
Prepare for him original foreplay in an atmosphere that allows him to get away from his daily routine, forget for one night the positions you know by heart and which you are used to, innovate and surprise him by offering games and accessories that he likes too.
You have a lot of possibilities to surprise him, from the simplest to the most elaborate, from the most romantic to the most naughty. It's up to you to choose according to your wishes and hers.
Because obviously, even if your man will greatly appreciate that you take initiatives and that you try to surprise him, it is also necessary that you take his opinion into account. Give her some room in your relationship and in bed.
Don't fall for one extreme or the other. There is a middle ground between the woman who does nothing in bed and the one who comes up with all the ideas and who does not let her partner express herself. Remember that the moments you spend in bed are moments of sharing that must be pleasant for both and therefore where everyone must have the opportunity to express themselves, to make decisions, to have fun and to do pleasure to each other. So don't be tyrannical and give your man some room.
And then, even if some consider that these are only clichés, it is still quite present: men often represent themselves in an active role. It is certain that they appreciate that their partner sometimes takes the lead, but not to the detriment of their possibility of action. Some men might even take it badly if you do not leave room for him to give his opinion and that he too offers you surprises to try to please you and make you happy in bed. So do not deprive your man of his possibilities for innovation and surprise. Try to make things happen naturally between you, that each of you has its place to express yourself.
So far we've talked a lot about sex and sexual satisfaction . But it's not just your “performance” that will make your man happy in bed or not. You have the right to show her your love, to be gentle and caring if you want. Your man will be even happier for it. If for a night out this may not be the primary goal, in a long-term relationship leaving room for tenderness and love in your marital bed is highly recommended. You can have a fulfilling sex life full of surprises even while taking time for more tender moments of cuddling. It's even important for harmony to reign in your relationship.
And again, showing tenderness, gentleness and love towards your partner during the moments you spend in bed can also lead you to create moments of surprise between you. Opt for tender and sensual foreplay such as massages in a cozy atmosphere for example. Get him to join you with a sentimental treasure hunt ... Let your ideas be expressed, they will reflect the love you have for him and will allow you to be even more accomplices and close within your relationship. It is not only sex that is the glue of the couple, love is also important.