How to Sexting - Starter Guide

Sexting works. That’s a fact. It is the new form of foreplay that will drive her crazy. The random text message in the midst of the day to perk her sexual desire. The enjoyment banter back and forth that will make her rip her clothes off when she sees you. But the questions is: How to sexting?

For those of you who haven’t tried sexting, I am here to help you today. Today I am going to tell you how to start a hot sexting conversation.

Note: “Only” to start, I will tell you "How to sexting" entirely taken on our next articles. But right now, let’s sit back and learn how to start out it in the right way where your partner and you will enjoy. Get ready because things will get hot.

What's nice about dirty talking, as a regular part of your ongoing sex life, is that it is flexible to whatever living situation you have. Couples use dirty talking in all aspects of their active lives including:

• Sexting at work

• Spicing up their sexual foreplay with dialog

• Using dirty talking during sex, to heighten orgasm

• Enjoying quickies with toys and a shared fantasy

• Enjoying intimacy while away from each other, through web cam, phone or texting

• Helping to boost each other's confidence

• Improving creativity and keeping sex spontaneous

• Resisting outside temptations since dirty talking and fantasies address these needs and desires

Use an oldie but a goodie. Start off by asking “what are you wearing?” This four-word phrase will get the conversation on the right track. First the feeling will be picked up if she or him is in the proverbial mood for sex talk. Second, it’s the lead question into how graphic the sexting conversation will get.

Employ simple phrases to get in touch. Say “oh, baby, you make me so happy” or “oh, honey, there are things I would enjoy to say to you right now. ” When either of these statements are made, the recipient’s interest and ego will be stoked for more talk. These are generally easy questions with endless possibilities of a sexting conversation.

Taking the lead. After the initial questions are put out there, wait for the recipient’s response. This is a determining factor. If his or her response comes back sexually toned, it’s a go for continuing the sexting conversation

Test the sexting waters. Interest is shown but don’t be pushy. This can easily scare them away if a dominating presence takes over or strong language offends. Don’t rush the sexting conversation once interest is shared and acknowledged. Choose your words carefully.

Once a mutual texting language is determined, continuing the sexting conversation should be easy. As the conversations become more frequent testing new words and phrases can be explored.

Describe the intentions. Once the sexting conversation has commenced, slip into dirty talk mode. Tell her how things will be when you meet up. Describe how her body will be ravished and desired. Tell him how he’ll feel when certain parts of his body will be touched by fingers, lips, etc. Tell him or her what you want to do and what you cant wait to do.

Yes, relationships are built on good communication and stay strong through constant reinforcement of intimacy. Sexting can help in this regard because it constantly challenges you, keeping you on your feet, reminding you of how young and rebellious we all can be at any moment in time.

  This is solid communication and game-playing that can stand the test of time, keeping lovers red hot and interested in each other from now and into their golden years. It doesn't even matter if looks fade or if life situations change. Your minds will always be connected, always in love, and always full of passion for each other.

If you're still feeling a bit shy about practicing your X-rated diatribe then there's nothing wrong with sampling a bit of the old "blue material" to see how everyone else does it. You can find everything you need from PG-13 rated movies and TV shows talking about sexy feelings and passionate love making...to a little more outrageous imagination by way of porn and erotica.

You can even use the book "Text Chemistry: Use Texts To Make Men Love You"

Especially if you are in love with a man and you want to get his attention, it can help you a lot. As its name, it is about text that can create great chemistry between you and the man you love...Well, it is a book that will give a lot of solutions to make him get crazy about you.