HOW TO DOMINATE YOUR MAN
IN A RELATIONSHIP
HOW TO DOMINATE YOUR MAN
IN A RELATIONSHIP
9 Ways to Be a Dominatrix Goddess
Throughout history, man has been the one who has dominated important positions. Presidents, generals, popes, etc., have been the ones who have dominated the most important decisions in history.
This has also been seen on a smaller scale, in the day-to-day of our interpersonal relationships. Men have always ruled the roost and those who have felt entitled to go out with as many women as they want without being insulted.
The woman's role has been relegated to that of the deluded victim who runs back into the arms of her man at the slightest sign of her remorse. The girls kill themselves in the gym to meet beauty canons, while the boys sit in front of the television eating pizza and drinking beer, thinking about what their next conquest will be. Well, times have changed!
1. To take control of men you need to be in control of yourself. Everyone knows what they like and what they don't. Put your limits and rules, for example, do not kiss him the moment you meet him and try not to break these rules despite how handsome he is.
Study. No matter what you study, it is very important that you have an education. It will not only give you the necessary weapons to face the world on your own, without the help of any man, but it will also develop your mind. The smarter you are, the less likely it is that a guy will take advantage of you or cheat on you.
Be independent. This is VERY important, do not depend on anyone and do not let yourself be led into a situation in which you can become dependent on anyone. When you are the one who makes all the decisions of your life, it is very difficult for someone, except a boy, to dominate you.
Do exercise. To be in control of yourself, it is important that you lead a balanced life. Exercise is a key part of life, you do not have to go overboard on this but it is important that you dedicate some of your time to exercise, as it keeps you healthy and clears your mind.
Do not have vices. If you think you have a problem with alcohol, cigarettes, or drugs, it's time to quit. Having a vice makes you weaker and more likely to fall under the domination of a man. If an object or substance controls you, not to mention what a man can do with you.
2. Play hard to get Let's say you want to go out with a very handsome guy, but don't get obsessed with it, you have to analyze the situation very well. Surely there are thousands of girls behind him, so to begin with you already have many competitors. If you think the guy is interested in you, don't make it easy on him.
He will be more interested in you if you flirt a little, but you should act like you don't care if he listens to you or not, he should feel like he has to work hard to get your attention. Don't go overboard with this, because he may lose interest. Make him chase you and you will be in control. If you follow these steps you will have it eating out of your hand in no time.
Once you get the guy to focus on you 100%, you have to keep him interested, and the trick is to not give him everything he wants right away, and when we say everything, we talk about everything.
Do not have sex with him when he wants but when you want. Even when you have sex, don't do everything he asks right away. You should always have a trick up your sleeve.
When he asks you about your life, just tell him something small and change the subject.
Don't say yes every time he asks you out.
When you're having a phone conversation, hang up before him and don't always answer all his calls.
3. Have control over money. It's okay if the guy wants to invite you to dinner or the movies, but as far as possible, he always pays for you or at least makes it clear before the date who will pay for what. It may sound strange, but some men assume that paying for dinner entitles them to a kiss or something else. If you go out on a second, third, or more date, it means that he is willing to take a backseat and maybe invite you over once in a while.
It's a sensitive subject, so you have to be careful, but always keep in mind that whoever controls the finances in a relationship controls a large part of it. Whatever happens, never let him bear all the financial burden over time, not only because it's not fair, but because it can work as a weapon later to dominate you.
If you're at a bar and a guy buys you a drink, look him in the eye, smile, and say "thanks, but I can buy my drink." When you smile, you won't come off as completely bitter, but you make it clear that you're not willing to be dominated.
4. Be in control in bed. We talked about this before, but it is important that we emphasize it again. Sex is a BIG part of any relationship and can be used as a weapon to dominate. Don't sleep with the guy until you decide, and when you do, take your time to make sure it's the right decision. How many times have you slept with a guy thinking it was the right time and then he never called you back? It only happened to you once is enough. This does not have to happen and you should reduce the possibility of this type of situation to a minimum.
When you decide to sleep with the guy, go easy and don't do everything he asks you to do in bed, at least not right away. If you do, you'll lose whatever cloak of mystery you've built up so far. Like everything in a relationship, some things come with time. It is not a race, he goes slowly and so he will want to spend more and more time with you, gradually falling under your domination without realizing it.
5. Be mysterious and vague. Never answer “yes” or “no” if asked something like “do you want to check out later?” Always answer with a "maybe" so that you are in control of whether or not you will see it and keep it intrigued.
To this we add what we told you before, do not tell him your whole life in the first 10 minutes you spend together. Remember, you want to keep him intrigued, like a good mystery novel. If he asks "have you had a boyfriend?" answers "yes, but I don't like to talk about my past relationships".
He knows that you have already been part of a relationship, but he does not know how many times, for how long, and why you ended it. If he asks you what kind of music you like, he answers "a little of everything." At first, you should give as many vague answers as possible and always try to ask him back, people love to talk about themselves and you will gain valuable information that you can use to dominate him in the future.
6. Always have a strong tone of voice and externalize your opinions, without losing your femininity. You must be sure of what you are talking about and with strong ethical and moral values. We are not telling you that you should speak as if you were a nun, if you believe that the legalization of drugs is the right thing to do, then you must have a well-constructed and valuable argument. No matter what you believe in, you must have the ability to stand up for your ideas intelligently. A focused and intelligent woman can dominate any man who comes her way.
Do not talk about what you do not know. There is nothing worse than giving an uninformed opinion. If you're talking to a guy and he asks you about a topic you don't know, it's better to say something like "the truth is that it's a topic that doesn't interest me much and I can't comment on it", than to say something wrong that makes you seem like a fool
Stay up to date with topics of general interest. If you only know about the life of your favorite actors and what happened in the last chapter of the novel of the moment, it's time for you to turn off the television and investigate what is happening in the world. You don't have to be an expert on everything, but having a general idea will help a lot.
Have a hobby. Don't waste your time on nonsense. It's okay to watch TV or read fashion magazines for a while, but you should find a hobby that cultivates your mind and spirit. Play a sport, garden, help out at your local animal shelter, do crafts, and anything goes. Remember, you must keep your mind active. The brain is like a muscle, the more you exercise it, the stronger it will get, and your brain is your main weapon to dominate boys.
7. Touch him while you give him positive comments about his qualities. Do not exaggerate at this point, because he may think that he has you 'in his clutches', but by showing your interest in a subtle way you will wrap him in your domain network without him noticing.
Say something simple like "I like that shirt" and touch him on the shoulder. Physical contact will alert him and he will want this to keep happening. You may think that a tap on the shoulder is nothing, but put yourself in his shoes for a moment: wouldn't you have a similar reaction if the guy you liked tapped you on the shoulder? You should think of this as going fishing: you throw the hook into the water and little by little you attract the fish until it bites the hook and is under your control.
8. Strengthen your control when performing everyday activities. For example, when you go to a restaurant, provide your name on the waiting list. If you go to the bathroom, tell him to watch your bag while you come back (only if you know him well). That way, you force him to wait for you to come back.
If one day he tells you that he is going to pick you up at 9:00 pm, tell him "I'll wait for you until 9:15 and if you don't show up, I'll go to the movies with my friends. I don't like being late and I'm not going to wait all night." This forces him to be on time and to follow your rules.
When you go to see each other, give her an assignment and be very specific about it. Order him your favorite chocolate, or a headache pill of a specific brand. If he brings you the wrong thing, let him know you're upset. You have to realize that the boss is you. You will not be wrong again, we assure you.
9. He drives the car, even if it's his. If he doesn't open the door for you when you get in or out of the car, make a comment like "I thought chivalry still existed." I know he will feel bad and from then on he will open all the doors that come his way. Instead, if he does, thank him and give him a flirtatious smile. He will want to continue doing things that please you.
Remember, if you are not in control then he will be and this will lower your self-esteem.
Always please yourself before others.
Never let any man know what you're up to.
Although most of the advice is for singles, remember that you can never be happy or comfortable with yourself if someone else is controlling you. Why let someone else control your life?
Have fun, don't listen to criticism, stay away from sarcasm and men who are not worth it.
Don't have sex with someone you just met or on the first date.
Men will do or say anything to get laid. So don't let go of being in control just because he tells you he thinks you're beautiful; they probably say the same thing to any other girl, so she just smiles and says “thank you”.
Do not let your guard down or you will lose control and respect.
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