Bring Out His Hero Instinct that

Make Him Head Over Heel Falls for You

Yaaiiiii…..for all fun fearless independent female out there. The hero instinct in a man essentially boils down to the fact that men need to feel like they are needed, especially by women they are attracted to.

If you want to make your man feel like a hero and trigger his hero instinct, then get him to do something that you cannot do, so which make him feels amazing about himself. Knowing that he can help you, automatically will boost his confidence. Show gratitude when he has completed the task for you. By triggering this very natural male instinct, you’ll not only give him greater satisfaction as a man, but you’ll take the two-way respect in your relationship to the next level.

Here are few tips that can bring out his hero instinct and make him head over heel falls for you.

1. Set some challenges for your man

Men love challenges, it makes them feel like heroes straight away – they have a mission to complete and will be ready to get to it! The majority of men are also very competitive, so they are really willing to take a challenge on in order to prove themselves.

2. Asking him to help you some favors

This point does not mean that you have to ask him about everything. This will not take away from your independence. He will know that you still be able to do anything he can do. However, if you are too independent, your man might feel lost or helpless. He will always want to feel like he is helping you.

When it comes to advice, ask your man if you are feeling confused about a situation or you aren’t sure what the right decision to make. Not only is this beneficial for you, because you will actually be receiving useful advice from the closest person to you, but it will make him feel like he is helping you to solve a problem. In addition to this, he will appreciate the fact that you have opened up and shared details about your life and issues with him.

3. Show gratitude and appreciation for him

This is probably the most important point of all. Men need to feel appreciated so that they can open their hearts. This is the biggest way in which you will make your man feel like a hero. Asked him to do something for you or asked him for his advice, you need to follow this up by saying thank you. This is the easiest way to show your appreciation, and the more appreciation he feels like he is receiving from you, the more he will fall in love with you.

Like women, men feel hurt and used when they are not thanked for what they do for you. Have you ever felt angry or upset that no one realizes how much you do around the house? We’ve all been there lady and I feel you. Men want to be thanked for doing things, especially when it comes to tasks that you have set for him. So if you take him for granted, this will end badly. He is not a personal handyman. He needs recognition for sure.

4. Contrary to the previous point, don’t thank him too much

As much as appreciation is needed for a man to thrive in a relationship, they won’t accept it if they don’t feel like they haven’t earned it. It’s also important that you don’t go too over the top with your appreciation. For example, you don’t need to start kissing and hugging him if he remembered to take his shoes off when entering the house.

5. Boost his confidence in front of his peers

One of the things everyone notices about heroes in the movies is that they get recognition from people for the good things they have done. You can do this with your man and make him feel on top of the world. All you need to do is speak positively to others about him, about what he has done that has really helped you out or made you feel good. So, make a conscious effort to start speaking about him really positively to the people around you. You could mention something specific he has done for you recently, or just tell the people of your appreciation towards him.

For example, why don’t you drop into his workplace and take him a coffee to say thank you for something he helped you with? Most likely, his work colleagues and friends will be around, and he will feel like the man of the hour. They will think it’s sweet of you that you have come to show a token of your appreciation with him because of something he has helped you with and they will also praise him.

6. Make sure he knows that he makes you happy

In order to feel like a hero, not only will your man need to feel appreciated and respected by you, he will also need to feel like he makes you happy. That is the purpose of his relationship with you, so if he feels like he isn’t making you happy, he won’t stay in a relationship where he feels like he is failing. So, it is as easy as making sure he is confident that he makes you happy.

7. Flirt with him

As appreciation since he helps you out. You may flirt with him. Sex can be a beautiful celebration of love in a relationship. This is why we call it making love! Allow sex to move from a purely physical experience to one that is full of shared emotion pour love into your partner as you have sex and make strong eye contact. You can take sex to the physical, emotional and spiritual connection, where it feel like you become one with your partner.

** Hero instinct as part of a man’s secret obsession is something that a guy desires more than love and money and he is secretly obsessed with.

Find out your guy’s secret obsession and you will win him over.