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Sunday 29 May 2022
HARD Pressed is an opportunity for open, informal and friendly discussion - think less Question Time, more Loose Women.
The audience will be primarily Black Queer men, and the panel is focused on centring their concerns, we cannot, however, guarantee that only Black queer men will have access to the panel and the recording.
We ask those attending/viewing to be open to challenge and to growth - we do not presuppose a political position for Black queer people and are keen to use our exchanges to stimulate independent thinking rather than create dogma.
Elliot and Rob co-host the panel, and pick the topics between them. We invite two or three guests to join us each month, introduce themselves to the audience and then discuss the agreed topics. We aim for a mix of light and slightly more serious topics - and try to keep the pace brisk and the outlook optimistic. At the same time, we want to show that well-humoured, principled debate is possible, and give suitable space to address issues and promote healing.
The panel will be recorded and shared via the BLKOUT HUB. For online only editions of the event, we will also stream to YouTube
Guests are asked to introduce themselves which we ask they do by sharing an object that tells us something about them or about the month that they have had. Let your imaginations roam . . . but only as far as an item that you can picture.
*VISUAL AID - it always helps to provide a visual in support.
Send details of your object to Rob in advance of Brunch (ideally by noon on Friday 27th)
An election, a jubilee marking remarkable continuity amidst massive change, the constitutional upheaval of Brexit, the potential collapse of power-sharing in Northern Ireland, rhetorical racial reckoning leading to negligible change despite yet another generation's leadership in demands for civil rights, and war in Europe
Power is now (as ever) the issue.
How do we understand our own power today?
What can we do to increase balance so that more have access to utilising their power?
What would you do with power if it were granted in a wish?
How far will you go to save power?
'Heating or eating' is the nightmare scenario facing many people in our society as costs. There have been a number of unhelpful interventions for saving money from MPs, keen to display the distance they have travelled away from the lives of the ordinary people whose votes they seek.
What adjustments would you suggest to save money as energy costs rise?
Using less power is a good outcome for the planet,
What medium term sacrifices (by 2025) or changes are you making/willing to make.
“Auntie Diaries,” a nearly five-minute ode to two of Lamar’s relatives, both of whom are trans. Sounds good in theory, but many have taken issue with the song’s execution.
For starters, the titular “auntie” is a trans man, and the first lyric is “My auntie is a man now.” The song’s narrative structure progresses chronologically, following the rapper’s progression in terms of coming to understand his uncle and cousin, and ultimately apologizing for his past missteps. But along the way, Lamar misgenders and deadnames both his uncle and transfeminine cousin, and — perhaps most controversially — repeatedly says the word “faggot” in order to demonstrate the errors of the homophobia and transphobia of his early years.
https://www.them.us/story/why-kendrick-lamars-auntie-diaries-has-polarized-the-lgbtq-community
What was your initial reaction to 'Auntie Diaries'?
Should we be grateful for what we get or should we demand the highest standards of inclusive language at all times?
Should Kendrick have done better?
Pride in London 2022 marks 50 years since the first London march for gay liberation. Much has changed since 1972 as a result of principled struggle. What does Pride now mean, and as the Mayor opens the festival up to tender, what is the future of Pride in London?
What is your favourite memory of Pride?
What should Pride be like in 5 or in 25 years from now?
Pride at 50
Keen to leave our viewers/audience with some inspiration and a call to action - combined here in our final round of questions that provides an opportunity to remind the audience that there are positive developments if you know where (and how) to look, and remind us all that we have reasons to hope for a better future. Hence our final question related to the theme of the month . . .
What have you learned about love since the first COVID19 lockdown?
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Respond to this Video Ask so that we can introduce you to our viewers and create a short promotional trailer for Hard Pressed @ Black Men Who Brunch
You are welcome to join us for the whole of Brunch. Could you please be available at the venue by 4.30.
If you are running late or have any questions on the day, could you reach out to one of the hosts.
On the day: Elliot will be your first point of contact