There are several thing a woman can do to make her man love her more and more each day, everyone is loving, caring. Passionate at most point until they see reason no to be that way anymore. Sex become habitual instead of spontaneous, and your conversation revolve around the same thing every now and then, while you are trying to hold on with the relationship you don’t want to fall into the trap of losing that initial speak with your partner.
Keep him always into you, reopen that sexual desire in him and remind him of all the reason he could not stand you at any point . Spending quality time with him and letting him know about your plans will also play a great part in your relationship as per say , below you will find our reason why men lost interest and how you can make you boyfriend fall in love with you agaiN.
Have you ask yourself what does men lost interest in woman? There are many reason why men lost interest in woman and below you will find 13 simple step on how to make you man have interest in you again,
Making more effort with your appearance, the way you treat your partner and make them know you can do anything and everything for them , even if you have to go extra miles just to put smiles too there face and to make them happy again, we may try to relax more on how we look before our partner or how much we make them see that we can go to extra miles for them, not been romantic anymore as we use to be at the early stage of the relationship.
Here are some sign to know that you man does not ache for you the way he use to:
*Not calling you the way he use to.
*He is not texting you no more or not as he usually do.
*He is not concern about you.
*He lost interest in your conversation and anything to do with you
*He does not compliment you as much
*It’s never pleasant to feel someone we love stop being passionate about us or the relationship, but the good news is it can be fixed.
* He does not miss you when you leave.
Furthermore read on the 13 step to make your man fall in love with you again.
(1)Appearance : ladies have been there, from the beginning, you will not dream of letting your man see you without looking beautiful as you always do, like always keeping the routing of of makeup/hairstyle,skincare and waxing.it is very important to feel comfortable sound your man at all time looking beautiful and charming at all time for you to be interesting and aching for you, he may say he love you for who you are but you must be your complete natural self which does not mean you don’t have to spice thing up a little.
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(2)Another simple way to make your man fall in love with your is by surprise, it’s easy to become ‘comfortable’. The spontaneous, crazy dates which you used to go on at the beginning of your relationships have transformed into takeaways and a film on the sofa.
Every time you plan a surprise date somewhere exciting, or introduce something new and kinky to the bedroom, he’ll start to look forward to future surprises and his interest in you and the relationship will be renewed.
Even in the bedroom, what used to be passion-filled love-making sagas have reduced to time-efficient sex a few times a week, and it can seem like you’re just following a routine. You both know what to do to get each other over the finish line, and you don’t even bother adding a bit of excitement in.
His craving for you will intensify because he’s constantly wondering what else you’ve got hidden up your sleeve. Let’s face it, we all enjoy being spontaneously surprised every once in a while.
To make a man ache for you, you need to shake things up a bit. You don’t have to go wild, but from time to time, unexpected little surprises will keep him on his toes and pleasantly surprised.
3)Don’t underestimate the power of touch
Remember at the beginning of your relationship when you couldn’t take your hands off each other? Get back to that stage.You might not have as much time, or maybe kids and work limit the amount of intimacy you have, but touching can be really simple and quick.
Do you kiss when you greet or leave each other? Do you give him a hug when he’s had a long day? Touch goes beyond just sex, it’s the physical contact which lets him know you’re there for him.
Perhaps because touch affects both the person being touched and the one doing the touching, it is one of the most fundamental ways of fostering and communicating intimacy in a romantic relationship.”
The same goes for if you want to ignite that sexual spark in him – a slight touch on his thigh when you’re watching tv, or a stroke of his arm or neck can send clear signals that you’re in the mood.
(4)Keep busy
Men like the chase. This is something that is programmed into their DNA and is controlled a lot by their ego and desire to beat the competition.
Many men find the chase exciting and it strikes their ego to feel they’re the one who is finally going to get her attention – and into bed. Add to this the fact that men are very goal-focused and an elusive goal can seem all that much more interesting.”
So you may be wondering how you can introduce a little chase into your relationship because surely it only happens at the beginning when you’re first dating?
There are ways to make your man chase, crave, and ache for you, and it’s much more simple than you realize.
All you have to do is have your own life. Be busy, and make sure you’re not always available for his every beck and call.
Being free for him makes it too easy for him, and he can quickly lose interest. But, if he wants to hang out but you’ve already made plans, he’ll soon realize that you’re independent and have better things to do than sit around waiting for him, which will only make him want you more.
It’s also attractive for men to see a woman who has her own stuff going on. You’ll have more to talk about when you’re together, and the times that you’re apart doing your own thing will give him a chance to miss you.
(5)Let him know that you’re still attractive to others
This one requires a little tact and caution. Your goal here isn’t to cause your partner to feel betrayed or angry, but a little bit of jealousy can go a long way in making him ache and crave for you.
Attention from other men will make him realize that there’s still competition out there, and he needs to keep stepping up to the plate if he wants to keep you solely focus on only him.
So, the next time you’re out at a restaurant or bar, don’t hold back from a little eye contact or smile with the waiter or other guys in your group.
You don’t have to take it as far as flirting, but once your man sees another guy making eyes at you, he won’t be able to help to finding irresistible himself.
Whether you’ve been together for a short period of time or long, knowing that you’re still a catch other men notice will definitely spark that competitive nature within him and make him pay you more attention.
(6)Make him feel like a hero
As outdated as this first sounds, making your man feel like a hero doesn’t involve costume role play (unless you’re into that) or acting like a damsel in distress.
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So, why will making him feel like a hero help make him want you more?
Treating him like a hero will activate three very important drives in every man; the need to feel appreciated and valued, to be respected, and to provide for those he loves.
And it’s easier to do than you think.
It doesn’t mean you have to become dependable on him completely or act weaker, but making room for him to take charge in some areas and feel useful and needed will boost his love and desire for you.
So, the next time you need a hand with something but your pride is stopping you from asking for help, remember that your man will appreciate this small act, and as a result, he’ll appreciate you as well.
Keep in mind though that you can’t trigger his hero instinct just giving him admiration next time you see him. Men don’t like receiving participation awards for showing up. Trust me.
A man wants to feel like he has earned your admiration and respect.
How?
You have to find ways to make him feel like your hero.
There’s an art to doing this which can be a lot of fun when you know exactly what to do.
But it requires a little more work than just asking him to fix your computer or carry your heavy bags.
The best way to learn how to trigger the hero instinct in your guy is to watch this free online video. James Bauer gives a terrific introduction to his concept.
If you can trigger this instinct successfully, then you’ll see the results immediately.
When a man genuinely feels like your hero, he’ll become more loving, attentive, and interested in being in a committed, long-term relationship with you.
The hero instinct is a subconscious drive men have to gravitate toward people who make him feel like a hero. But it’s amplified in his romantic relationships.
(7)Take a trip down memory lane
How often do you reminisce about ‘the good old times’? Do you ever sit and look at pictures from when you first started dating?
If not, now’s a good time to start. Reminding your man why he fell for you in the first place will bring back all those feel-good emotions and rushes of excitement from when you began dating.
Sometimes, we can become stuck in a rut of routine, and we forget how stimulated and euphoric we felt when we first fell in love with someone.
(8)Stop overthinking and enjoy your time together,If you’re worried about your relationship and why your man doesn’t crave you like he used to, the last thing you want to do is let it cast a dark shadow over your time together.
Instead, make sure that the time you spend alone is the best it can be. Be the woman you were when you both first met, carefree, and looking for a good time. Mess around and joke with each other like how you used to, and remind him of how much fun you can be.Your conversations back then would have been a mix of light-hearted, banter and passion, so instead of the boring day to day conversations, try mixing it up a bit.
Finally, don’t make everything about your relationship. You don’t want to make him feel pressured into wanting you more; your goal should be for him to do that naturally.
(9)Compliment him genuinely
It’s not just women who love to be complimented, men enjoy hearing their positive qualities voiced out loud too.
when it comes to complimenting a man, you need to be genuine with your words and don’t overdo it.
A compliment wields great possibility. It shows respect, admiration, approval, gratitude, trust, appreciation, and hope. One of the most generous things you can do in your life is to give someone else a true and meaningful compliment.”
When you compliment your man, you’re reminding him that you still see all those qualities you fell for in the first place.In doing this, you’ll also be boosting his confidence and making him feel great about himself. He’ll see you as someone who values him and this will in return make him appreciate you more.
Remember though, time your compliments right and make sure they aren’t generic compliments which can be given to anyone. Personalize them to him, using terms like ‘I really like how you …’ or ‘Well done for …’.
Compliments can be about his appearance, actions or things that he’s achieved, so make sure to alternate between the different types of compliments you give him.
(10)Take a trip down memory lane
How often do you reminisce about ‘the good old times’? Do you ever sit and look at pictures from when you first started dating?
If not, now’s a good time to start. Reminding your man why he fell for you in the first place will bring back all those feel-good emotions and rushes of excitement from when you began dating.Sometimes, we can become stuck in a rut of routine, and we forget how stimulated and euphoric we felt when we first fell in love with someone.
(11)Stimulate him mentally
As important as it is for your man to be physically attracted to you, you also need to appeal to him mentally and intellectually.
This doesn’t mean that you need to go out and learn everything about his job so you can impress him when he comes home from work, but you can take an interest in the things he likes.
If you know there’s an author he reveres or a football team he follows, a little light research will give you enough to drop some facts into the conversation.This will leave your man shocked and surprised, and he’ll also appreciate that you’ve taken the time to be involved in his passions.
Not only will this ignite his craving for you, but it’ll also make him want to spend more time with you since he can talk about the things he likes and is interested in.
(12)Keep some things a mystery
As time goes on and you feel comfortable around your partner, you might find that you want to share everything with him. From the latest gossip about your friends or a recap of the last series you watched, you want to share every little detail with him.
This might be your way of building a closer connection with him and keeping him involved in the loop, but to most men, it can become a little bit boring.
Now that’s not to say he isn’t interested in the things going on in your life, but too much of anything can start to be irritating after a while, so try to avoid telling him every mundane thought that pops into your head.
It is what keeps you interested and what will keep your partner interested in you. Mystery keeps you thinking about the person you are with and keeps you wanting to find out more about them — to be with them and to study them.When you start providing less information, he’ll start to become more curious. He’ll want to find out the little details of how your night out with the girls went, or how your day was at work.
(13)Make him feel how important he is to you and at every moment let him feel real love by telling him, touching him, feel him close to you at all time. Share you thoughts and emotion with him in a kind and understand way,Reason why that have to be done? When our partner don’t show us how much they still care and love us, men don’t feel secure so because of that they distance them self away in other not to be hurt , everybody want to feel important at all time and is right for us to also make those in our life as important as they make us feel too