The year 2020 was a year of separation and division. No matter what side of things we found ourselves leaning toward, or which viewpoint we tended to agree with, our experience over the past year has left its fingerprints upon us. For many it has caused the divisions to grow stronger, deeper. I am hopeful that, for those reading this, it has perhaps taken you in the opposite direction. There is a great need in our society for a spirit of reconciliation. Sadly, the Christian church has not always been a place of true and lasting reconciliation.
Take, for example, what was going on amongst the believers in Corinth. The divisions were so great that Paul (the apostle) found it necessary to write them a fiery letter (1 Corinthians) to point out the inexcusable nature of their actions toward one another. In his second letter he pointed them toward the healing nature of the reconciliation we have in Christ.
“For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died (2 Cor. 5:14).”
Jesus didn’t die for just those who share our point of view, just those who voted for the candidate we voted for, just those who look and act and dress like we do… He died for every single human on the planet—past, present and future. God is no respecter of persons (Acts 10:34). He does not agree with our divisiveness regarding race, class, politics, sexuality, etc.
Paul wrote what he wrote because he recognized the unholy and ungodly nature of such a worldview and how incompatible it was with the gospel of reconciliation. He goes on:
“So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer (2 Cor. 5:16).”
At this point, some who are reading this may wish to point out to me that Paul was writing specifically to believers and that it’s different inside the church than it is outside. I agree that Paul’s writings were aimed specifically towards believers, for separation and division within the church should not be tolerated, for it is, after all, an affront to Jesus himself. For “God… reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the ministry of reconciliation (2 Cor. 5:18-19).” If we, who are called to administer reconciliation, cannot consistently apply this to our relationships within the body of believers, how can we be an example of reconciliation to those who have not yet come to believe?
Paul says elsewhere that, “as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers (Gal. 6:10).” Notice that his admonition was to do good to all… not just those who think or believe or look or act like we do. Notice also that it doesn’t say, refrain from doing evil… The point is that, as representatives of Jesus here on planet earth, our lives (words, actions, thoughts) should continually reflect the love of God expressed in Jesus.
“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21).”
We who have been forgiven so very much should, of all people, be the most forgiving, the most understanding, the most patient and merciful and loving. As we begin a new year, let our lives be an expression of the reconciliation we have received in Christ.
Blessings for the year ahead,
Pastor Thom
“And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, ‘Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of Davida Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.’ And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men. (Luke 2:8-14 KJV).’”
For many of us, this may have been the very first scripture we heard spoken. When Charles Schultz was asked to create the “Charlie Brown Christmas” special for television by producer/director Lee Mendelson in 1965, it was a huge opportunity. This was to be the first of many animated TV specials based on the Peanuts comic strip.
I have heard that some individuals at CBS wanted to cut this reading of scripture from the video because it would be “too controversial”. Shultz, however, stood his ground stating something to effect that either it stays or he walks, and so the recitation remained. From the fact that this film earned both an Emmy and a Peabody award, and that it has been aired yearly since 1965, being watched by generation after generation over these past 55 years, I’d say it was the right choice.
But how about God’s choice to reveal this miraculous event to a bunch of shepherds, was that the right choice? I guess we’d be hard pressed to second-guess this decision all these centuries later. I’m sure the shepherds were astonished by these events, and I wonder if any of them were around to recognize the baby grown to be a man some 30 years later.
I do know that the events of this night impacted these ordinary men in a deep and profound way. For, as the passage in Luke goes on to say:
“And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, ‘Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known to us.’ And they came with haste and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger. And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child. And all they that heard it wondered at those things which were told to them by the shepherds…. And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them (Luke 2:15-18, 20 KJV).”
The excitement was evident in their actions. They spread the word, sharing with as many as would listen the words spoken to them by the angel. Now, roughly 2,050 years removed from that event, there is still excitement in the air for those who hear and respond to the message that love came down to earth in the form of a Savior.
While I have never (as far as I know) been addressed by angels, my heart is stirred as I consider how God came down to walk among us and share our burden, how he set aside his power and privilege and humbled himself, taking on the form of a servant. But I am filled with a more profound joy when I consider the reconciliation and healing that comes to us through this extraordinary life which was poured out for us all.
May the promised and sure salvation from our Lord be unto you good tidings of great joy this Advent season!
So thankful for our Savior,
Pastor Thom
Thanksgiving is coming up in just a few weeks. However, with the pandemic still in full swing, travel this Thanksgiving is likely to be much reduced from previous years. But one thing I have learned over the years is that quality typically outweighs quantity. The gatherings may be smaller this year, but perhaps the reasons to be thankful will be in greater abundance. I know they are in my life (not that I was ever short of reasons to be thankful).
Many years ago I received a gift from my mother—a picture of a sunrise superimposed by the words: “Happiness is seeing a sunrise and knowing who to thank.” At the time I received this gift, I had only a vague idea of who God was. These 40+ years later, I have learned so much, and yet I cannot help but believe there is still so much more to learn of his great love for each of us.
Some years back I was having a conversation with a new friend who was sharing with me how devastated she was by a relationship gone bad. She didn’t offer any details, and I did not pry, but I could tell it was a heavy weight that she bore. For her, forgiveness was not an option. The hurt went too deep. The betrayal was too devastating. As a babe in Christ, she was coming to understand the extent of God’s forgiveness, while at the same time struggling to comprehend how a loving God could forgive this individual for what they had done to her.
In attempting an explanation, I related to her a story of a friend of mine who, at a very young age, had been sexually abused by her father. In fact, the abuse spread to all her siblings as well and continued throughout their childhood. I had lost touch with this friend, but had recently reconnected and had learned that her father was on his deathbed and that, as far as the abuse was concerned, all was forgiven.
Now, I don’t know any of the back story, whether he had sought forgiveness from her, or whether by sheer grace on her part it was granted to him. All I knew was that forgiveness had been granted and all that remained between them was love.
After telling this story, I asked a question. Who did my new friend think had a greater capacity for forgiveness, the Creator of the universe, or my abused friend? If it was possible for this woman who had been put through this torturous childhood so many years ago to forgive her father, would it be all that hard to believe that an all-loving God would be capable of forgiving even the most horrendous sin? She said that I had given her food for thought…
O perfect redemption, the purchase of blood,
To every believer the promise of God;
The vilest offender who truly believes,
That moment from Jesus a pardon receives!
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord,
Let the earth hear his voice!
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord,
Let the people rejoice!
O come to the Father, through Jesus the Son,
And give him the glory, great things he hath done.
(To God Be the Glory – Frances [Fanny] Crosby – 1872)
So thankful for his abundant mercies,
Pastor Thom
The crisp days of autumn are in full swing. The leaves are changing and the temperatures are dropping. Winter isn’t far away. Living in the northeast means that summertime is a narrow window of time and it is rare when we are able to accomplish all the outside chores we set out to do, no matter how well we plan ahead. Autumn is often a rushed time as we make a last attempt to be productive before winter’s shorter days and colder temperatures makes such productivity nearly impossible.
If you’ve seen the movie Schindler’s List, you may remember a scene at the end when the main character, Oskar Schindler, realizes that, after all he had accomplished, there was more he could have done, more lives he could have saved. This man who had risked his life to save the lives of others, who had given so much of himself—of his time, talent and treasure—to save so very many lives from certain death, looked back with regret, realizing that he hadn’t given all…
Oskar Schindler saved 1,200 Jews from the Holocaust, which may seem a small number when compared to the roughly 6 million Jews who lost their lives to the Nazi regime. But for those 1,200 saved by Schindler, his efforts meant everything.
The problem with being a finite human being is that we cannot live up to even our own expectations, never mind the expectations of others. Whatever we are able to accomplish never seems to be enough. Many factors in this life work to limit our productivity. We may get the notion that our efforts are never enough.
“Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin (Zechariah 4:10a)…”
When Zerubbabel began his work of rebuilding the temple, it was a major undertaking. Work likely did not proceed at the pace most would have liked, and it is possible that many grumbled about this. But God blessed the work with this promise spoken through the prophet: “Zerubbabel is the one who laid the foundation of this temple and he will complete it. Then you will know that the Lord of Heaven’s Armies has sent me (Zechariah 4:9).”
A young girl was walking along a beach upon which thousands of starfish had been washed up during a terrible storm. When she came to each starfish, she would pick it up, and throw it back into the ocean. People watched her with amusement.
She had been doing this for some time when a man approached her and said, “Little girl, why are you doing this? Look at this beach! There are so many starfish that you your meager efforts can’t begin to make a difference!”
The girl seemed crushed, suddenly deflated. But after a few moments, she bent down, picked up another starfish, and hurled it as far as she could into the ocean. Then she looked up at the man and replied, “I made a difference to that one.” (adapted from “The Star Thrower” by Loren C. Eiseley)
While it is unlikely that any of us will be presented with the opportunity that Oskar Schindler had, I can say without a doubt that God provides each of us with opportunities to make a difference in the lives of others. But if we allow the “never enough” mindset to eat at us, we miss the opportunities to celebrate what God has already accomplished in and through us, as meager as it may seem in our own eyes.
The people who make the biggest difference are the ones who do the little things consistently (author unknown).
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
Welcome to September! Another summer has come and gone, but by no means a typical one. Below is a list of scriptures which touch on what it means to be in union with our triune God through the redemption found in our Lord Jesus Christ.
“The way we continually talk about our own inabilities is an insult to our Creator. To complain over our incompetence is to accuse God falsely of having overlooked us.” - Oswald Chambers
God sees us from a very different perspective than our own. Able to see the end from the beginning, he views us with our full potential foremost in his mind. Although we believe God for the most part, many of us still struggle with some level of disbelief. When we find ourselves battling against self-doubt, it’s good for us to see ourselves from the perspective of God’s word. As you read through the list, let these verses from the Bible complete the following statement about you:
As a result of the redemption found in Jesus Christ – I, (your name here), am…
PS 139:13-15 …fearfully and wonderfully made & known by God.
JN 15:15 …a friend of Jesus, having intimacy with Him.
RO 3:24 …justified (declared “not guilty” of sin) by the grace of God.
RO 5:1 …justified through faith and at peace with God.
RO 8:1 …free from condemnation.
RO 8:2 …set free from the law of sin and death.
1 COR 1:2 …sanctified and made acceptable (holy) in Jesus Christ.
1 COR 1:30 …righteous and holy in Christ.
1 COR 3:16 …God’s temple, the Holy Spirit’s dwelling place.
2 COR 5:17 …a new creation.
2 COR 5:21 …the righteousness of God.
GAL 3:28 …one in Christ with all other believers.
EPH 1:3 …blessed with every spiritual blessing in Christ.
EPH 1:4 …holy, blameless and covered with God’s love.
EPH 1:5-6 …a child of God by means of adoption.
EPH 1:7 …redeemed, forgiven, my sins are taken away.
EPH 1:13 …marked as belonging to God by the Holy Spirit.
EPH 2:10 …God’s work of art (the workmanship of a master artisan), created in Christ Jesus to do good works.
EPH 3:6, 5:29-30 …a member of Christ’s body and a sharer in the promise in Christ.
EPH 3:12 …able to approach God with freedom and confidence.
COL 1:21-22 …reconciled to God, holy in His sight, without blemish, free from accusation.
COL 2:11 …set free from my sinful nature.
COL 2:13-14 …alive in (with) Christ, forgiven of my sins.
1 JN 4:9-11 …living through Christ, loved by God and atoned for.
We should never lose heart over our frequent foibles. When we do, we lose sight of the grand tapestry that God is weaving in our lives. The grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence from where we are standing. But that’s because we struggle to see the world from God’s perspective. If we were able to see ourselves in the same way God sees us, the troubles of this present life would be greatly diminished. May the truth of scripture found in these verses help you to see yourself through your Father’s eyes!
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
The year 2020 has been a tough one for a lot of people, and we’re barely past the midpoint. Many of us have been on an emotional roller coaster for the past 4 months. We’ve been bombarded on all sides with reasons to lose hope and fall victim to anger, panic and anxiety. It’s like we’re in the thick of a battle, because we are!
The powers of evil would like to throw us into a tailspin every time adversity strikes, but if we keep our focus on Jesus, “the pioneer and perfecter of faith (HEB 12:2a NIV)”, we will not be taken captive by Satan’s distractions. In that vain, I have something to share with you that I received from a very dear friend who received it from a very dear friend (who likely also received it from a very dear friend). I searched for the source of this writing, but couldn’t find one, so I can neither give nor take credit for this work (although I did tweak it a little where I thought it needed a little help).
With all the back and forth concerning COVID 19, with all the restrictions in place and the upheaval on our daily lives continuing into its 4th month, I thought many of you would enjoy this light-hearted reminder of God’s great love for us and the blessing of relationship we have with him…
REJOICE
You don’t need to wear a mask to breathe a prayer.
You don’t need to wear gloves to touch the face of God.
The throne room is never on lockdown.
The Holy Spirit is still operating at full-capacity.
Jesus never practices social distancing.
Gratefulness and optimism are still contagious (thankfully).
Grace, mercy, and peace are never out of stock in the storeroom of God’s heart.
The disinfectant supply is endless beneath the blood of Jesus.
Heaven’s forces will ultimately flatten the curve of Satan’s destructive design.
If your spirit belongs to God, you are never in isolation.
Neither things present, nor things to come, can stop the spread of God’s absolute, loving plan.
The last line in this writing is based on a powerful passage from Paul’s letter to the church at Rome that always helps me keep things in perspective. It also makes for a solid and definitive conclusion to my letter…
“…in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:37-39 NIV).”
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
My goal in life is to do the very best I can with the time and the talents I’ve been given. I just wish I had more time and more talents. J I believe that a job worth doing is worth doing right, which leads me often to procrastinate as I wait for “just the right time” to get ‘er done. Time passes and the list of open jobs continues to grow…
Neither Marlene nor I have much of a talent for planning and organizing like some do. Instead, we flail through life, taking care of the essentials as best we can with the time and talents we do possess. In the process, we have managed together to keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, and maintain the financial stability necessary for a comfortable lifestyle while still having enough extra to be able to give regularly to some of our favorite charities. But we have not done this on our own. We have done all this by the power of God, who works in and through us to accomplish these things.
One thing that has made our relationship successful is that we are honest—before God and each other—concerning our strengths and weaknesses. While always encouraging each other to grow and improve, we have learned over time to be reasonable in our expectations for each other. We recognize that the work of becoming who we are meant to be in Christ is a process, and we do our best to trust God with the timing of that work.
Our small GCI fellowship in Concord is also a work in process. We are not yet all that God has in mind for us to be. Being made up of different people with different backgrounds and various skill sets, God has brought us together to do a work in this community, a work that requires a variety of different abilities.
As members of this fellowship (and, by extension, of the body of Christ), we have a responsibility to prayerfully consider where we fit in his plan. What gifts/talents has he provided us individually that can benefit the group as a whole.
Two months back we had a lively conversation concerning what we are passionate about individually. Now I am asking that you take this to the next level and consider how your passions may fit into the mosaic of our fellowship. My intent is not to bully you into accepting a responsibility for which you possess no individual qualifications. Instead I ask that you allow the Holy Spirit to speak with your spirit concerning your place in the work of God in our community.
Perhaps you have a passion but feel that you possess no qualifications to fulfill that passion. If this is where you are at, then perhaps all you require is the proper amount of mentoring to build upon your passion and take it to the next level. Let’s talk!
I encourage you not to sell yourself short or become discouraged in the process, because each one of us has something to contribute to the whole. If you haven’t found it yet, consider talking to other members, especially those who know you best, about where your talents and strengths lie. And, as I have already mentioned, take it to God and ask him to reveal to you what talents or passions he has placed within you and how best these may be utilized to bring glory to him.
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
It rained today… This wouldn’t be a big deal except we haven’t received an appreciable amount of rain in over a month. The new transplants in our garden and the young plants growing from seed have required daily watering to make survival possible. Preparing the soil for planting has been challenging. The earth is so compacted that I found myself using my cultivation tools more like hammers, breaking up the clumps to which the weed roots persistently clung. So, today’s rain was a welcome sight (and sound). And who doesn’t enjoy a cool drink on a hot day?
We have been in a season of drought for a while now… I’m no longer in reference to the weather, but I am writing about the social climate, the unrest brought about by so many factors. Whether considering (just to name a couple) the difficulties brought about by Covid 19, or the longer, festering unrest caused by inequalities (real and imagined) in society, tempers are running high and blame is flying in all directions.
In these trying times, two passages of Scripture come to mind. The first one is found in Paul’s letter to the Romans:
“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves…. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer…. Bless those who persecute you, bless and do not curse…. Do not repay anyone evil for evil…. If it is possible, as far as it depends upon you, live at peace with everyone (12:9-18 NIV).”
Paul encourages his readers to be other-centered (as opposed to self-centered), to take the high road, the road of love and peace, even going so far as to challenge them to speak a blessing on those who oppose them. Interestingly, he throws in a caveat in verse 18 with the phrase: If it is possible.
Now, if everyone were to live by these words of Paul, everyday strife would be greatly reduced if not totally removed. But, truth be told, it isn’t possible to live at peace with everyone, which is not to say we don’t try. It does mean, for instance that, if our overtures of peace have failed, we are not obligated to continue in any kind of abusive relationship. If we have done what we could to keep the peace, but are opposed by another who chooses the way of enmity, it may be time to try a different tactic.
Which leads me to my next Scriptural passage…
In chapter 6 of the book of Micah, the prophet writes concerning the response that God expected from the nation of Israel:
“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God (v8 NIV).”
When your efforts to live at peace are thwarted, it doesn’t mean you automatically go in the opposite direction. As Paul wrote, it is not ok to repay evil for evil. To put it in modern vernacular, two wrongs don’t make a right. If we are striving for a peaceful and just resolution it is still important, if at all possible, that we respond from a heart of love, mercy and humility.
In closing, I find I must leave you with one final passage from the book of Proverbs:
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding (3:5 NIV).”
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
In the earliest days of the Christian Church, before all the persecutions, divisions and squabbling, there was a depth of cooperation and communion that took people by surprise. The walls of separation that society had erected were torn down as men and women from all levels and classes came together as one to serve the body of believers. This is how Luke records this period of time in Acts 2:
“All the believers devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, and to fellowship, and to sharing in meals (including the Lord’s Supper), and to prayer. A deep sense of awe came over them all, and the apostles performed many miraculous signs and wonders. And all the believers met together in one place and shared everything they had. They sold their property and possessions and shared the money with those in need (vv 42-45).”
This took place shortly after the Holy Spirit was poured out upon the believers on that first Pentecost following Jesus resurrection and ascension. The Spirit gave them unity of heart and mind for they valued people over possessions.
They worshiped together at the Temple each day, met in homes for the Lord’s Supper, and shared their meals with great joy and generosity—all the while praising God and enjoying the goodwill of all the people. And each day the Lord added to their fellowship those who were being saved (vv 46-47).”
For the early believers, it was a joy to serve and to give in this way, for they recognized that it was the Lord who had blessed them to have enough to share in the first place.
As Christians, we are called to such generosity, especially toward the more vulnerable and needy among us. When we see a need we can alleviate, it is our duty to do so, for we are to love others in the same way that Jesus loved us… sacrificially.
“We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person? Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. Our actions will show that we belong to the truth, so we will be confident when we stand before God (1JN 3:16-19).”
In this time of upheaval brought about by the spread of the coronavirus, it has been quite refreshing to see an attitude of giving and serving alive and well through it all. While we (hopefully) realize that we do not earn salvation by our good deeds, it is meaningful to reflect on the fact that our Lord looks kindly upon our unselfish acts of generosity.
“Then the King will say… ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit he Kingdom prepared for you from the creation of the world. For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’…. ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me (MT 25:34-36, 40)!’”
Yours in Christ,
Pastor Thom
April finds us dealing with a worldwide pandemic being kept in check to some extent by stay-at-home orders issued from state and national governments. It’s certainly something that most (if not all) of us have never before experienced. The reactions from society to this virus run the gambit from total disbelief to all out panic, but it’s good to see that most of us are just laying low (as much as possible) and doing our best not to contribute to its spread.
Sometime recently I heard on the news that some churches are defying the stay-at-home orders and gathering in their usual large groups. Their answer to the criticism is, “We trust in God rather than man.” While this is a worthwhile saying if used correctly, this group seems to miss the point of Jesus’ rebuttal of Satan when he quoted Deuteronomy 6:16, “Do not put the Lord your God to the test…”
Yes, God tells us through the Psalmist (Psalm 91:11-12) that “he will order his angels to protect you wherever you go. They will hold you up with their hands so you won’t even hurt your foot on a stone.” In other words, as you go about your daily business, God’s protection is upon you. What this verse is not saying is that his protection will necessarily be there when we take unnecessary chances with our health and safety or the health and safety of others.
I would love to be out visiting and spending time together, and I look forward to resuming these activities once the bans are lifted. In the meantime, I am glad to do my part to minimize risk to others.
When I think about how disruptive this virus has been for so many, I am reminded of a comedy routine I heard many years ago by Mark Lowry, where he shared his favorite Bible verse: “It came to pass…”
The point he was making was that, if you’re bogged down in difficult times, patiently wait on God, because it will pass. With a smirk, he added that, if you’re having a great time and everything is wonderful, that will pass as well. Whether in good times or bad, the answer is the same… Trust in the one who holds the universe in the palm of his hand.
There is a passage in 1 Thessalonians that some may struggle to understand. It is located towards the end of the letter where Paul is giving his closing thoughts. “Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus (1TH 5:18).” Please note that Paul is not telling his readers to be thankful for all circumstances, but in all circumstances. In other words, live a life of thanksgiving regardless of your current situation.
This may be a difficult time for you right now, and if so, I am not trying to be dismissive of the grief or anguish brought on by your current situation. What I am trying to say is that, whatever you’re dealing with, God’s got this—trust him and be thankful.
One observation I have made in this coronavirus craziness is that there is a generous spirit growing in society. People who feel otherwise helpless are finding ways to personally serve their neighbors or communities. It’s exciting to see goodness flourishing, even in times of trouble. I hope this lasts long after the virus has been dealt with and doesn’t become one more thing that “came to pass”…
Stay safe and be well,
Pastor Thom
Welcome to the month of March. The word implies purposeful forward momentum, which is the subject of my letter. As a follower of Jesus, I have come to understand the importance of purposeful movement. Such movement requires a certain amount of understanding. Therefore, it is my intent here to provide greater understanding regarding certain Bible passages. The passage I have chosen is found in 2 Peter 1:10 (NIV)…
In this passage, the Apostle Peter writes: “Therefore, my brothers and sisters, make every effort to confirm your calling and election. For if you do these things, you will never stumble…” I’d like to unpack this passage for you, especially focusing on the words “calling” and “election”.
Let’s start with the word “calling”. The meaning in this passage is invitation. This calling was issued by God himself (see v3). It is an invitation into a new life, a new nature, made possible by the saving work of Jesus, his Son. This life is a gift of grace, provided out of the abundance of God’s heart to those who accept for themselves the once-for-all sacrifice of Jesus on behalf of all mankind.
“Election” speaks of being personally chosen, selected by God to be included in the saving work of Jesus Christ. It speaks of God’s desire and purpose for our lives, that we might participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption of sin (v4).
So, if both the calling and the election are of God, brought about for his purposes, and therefore secure in him, what does it mean that we are to “make every effort to confirm” these? If our calling and election are the work of God, what’s left for us to do?
Let’s consider one more word in this passage in order to better grasp what is being said here. “Therefore…” When a sentence begins with the word “therefore”, it is wise for us to consider what the “therefore” is there for. Generally speaking, this word points the reader to the preceding passages, inviting them to consider what has come before as they read what comes next.
In this instance, the previous verses speak of spiritual growth—purposeful movement—intended to produce a more effective and productive life. So, when Peter says “make every effort to confirm”, he is, in effect, saying, “live like you believe it!” Produce the outward actions in your life that confirm that an inward change has truly taken place.
“His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us he very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in this world caused by evil desires.
“For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ (2PE 1:3-8).”
Purposefully yours,
Pastor Thom
Nothing makes me much angrier than evil which is perpetrated “in the name of God”. Let’s face it, each era has had its own version of this. And there are varying extremes along the way. Whether it’s the pastor who fleeces his flock to feed his lavish lifestyle, or the killing of whole villages because they don’t worship like you do, when the Lord’s name is used to “justify” acts of evil, it is an affront to the cross of Christ and all it stands for.
When you consider that the foremost command of Jesus is, “Love others as I have loved you (John 13:34, 15:12),” and that the way he loved us was to lay down his life as a ransom for each of ours, how can anyone who calls themselves a Christian consider that doing harm to another—except, perhaps, in an act of self defense—is somehow ok? And yet history provides us with many examples of just such a blatant disregard for the teachings of the Lord that such people professed to follow.
A similar council from Holy Scripture is found in Romans 12:18, where the apostle Paul writes: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” This is repeated in at least 4 other New Testament books. And yet we find divisions and back-biting among the people of God that rivals that of non-believers. This should not be so…
I realize that there are those who are not intentionally evil. By that I mean that they try to live a good life and do the right thing, but their human nature sometimes takes them where they had no intention of going. Paul mentioned this internal tug of war in Romans chapter 7. There are certainly stressors in life that break down our defenses and create opportunities for our sin nature to take the lead. Quite often, it is a poorly conceived word spoken in a time of overflowing emotions. This is something none of us are immune to.
As the apostle James put it, “…no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be (James 3:8-10)”. James called such a person double-minded. They profess a relationship with God, then deny the truth of who God is and who they are in him by the way they treat their fellow human beings.
If we truly love our Lord, if we truly desire a close relationship with our Savior, then we must also do our best to maintain a loving relationship with the brothers and sisters he has placed in our lives, whether they are believers or not. I’m not saying there won’t be a poorly spoken word now and then. It happens to all of us. What I am encouraging you to do is this—“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace (Colossians 3:15).”
As we enter into the primary season, let us be civil in our conversations (unlike the politicians who are vying for our votes). Let us choose our words wisely, carefully, lovingly, prayerfully. Always remember that “Peacemakers who sew in peace reap a harvest of righteousness (James 3:18)”
Warm regards,
Pastor Thom
Some of the best (and shortest) sermon messages I have heard have been delivered in the form of a song. Perhaps it’s no surprise that these songs resonate with me, for they bring together my love for music with my love for God. I know I am in good company. After all, King David—a man after God’s own heart—was also a musician and composer. He penned a multitude of praise songs (Psalms) which, in various forms, are still sung to this day. His writings have inspired generation after generation to praise God through lyric and melody.
Music stirs the heart and uplifts our whole being. It can fill us with joy and give us the strength to do what needs to be done. It helps us face down our fears and rise up to meet life’s challenges. From a young age music has the ability to profoundly impact our lives.
This reminds me of a story concerning the great Swiss Theologian, Karl Barth (1886-1968). Apparently, while speaking at an American university, he was asked to summarize the main theme of his theology. He allegedly answered with a line from a well-known children’s song:
“Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so.”
Music helps us remember what we have learned. Put a thing to music, and for whatever reason, it sticks with you. Jason Gray, in his song “Remind Me Who I Am” speaks for those who struggle with the fear of not being good enough when he sings to God his heart-felt prayer:
“In the loneliest places when I can’t remember what grace is, tell me once again who I am to you… Tell me, lest I forget who I am to you, that I belong to you…. If I’m your beloved, can you help me believe it?”
The contemporary Christian rock band, Casting Crowns echoes the words of the psalmist (Psalm 8:4, 144:3) with their song “Who Am I”. After wondering out loud why God would care enough to do all he does for humanity, they provide this memorable answer that resonates with the truth concerning the nature and will of God:
“Not because of who I am, but because of what you’ve done. Not because of what I’ve done, but because of who you are!”
I could go on and on, listing so many songs that have helped me find the words to express my theology while at the same time reminding me of the universality of God’s love for each and every one of us. It is, after all, God himself who blessed us with the ability to make music. It’s no surprise that those who have experienced his love for them have turned it around and used the gift to worship him.
As we enter into a new year, it is my hope and prayer that God plants a song in your heart to carry you through the rough patches (for there are bound to be some), and to fill you with hope and everlasting joy during your mountaintop experiences. May your worship echo the song and may thankfulness fill your heart throughout your journey.
Happy New Year,
Pastor Thom
We are now entering the season of Advent, the four weeks approaching the darkest time of the year for those dwelling in the northern hemisphere, when the sun appears later in the morning and slips over the horizon in late afternoon. Although the historic and Biblical record would place Jesus’ birth at a different time of year, the tradition handed down over the centuries plants this celebration here near the end of December.
This time of year holds a lot of uncertainty for many. This was never as true as when Joseph and Mary made their eventful trip to Bethlehem over 2,000 years ago. The nation of Israel was under the occupation of the Romans. The ruler placed over them by Rome was a tyrant. And it had been hundreds of years since the last prophet had spoken by the authority of the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. The uncertainty of that time would have hung on the air like the heat of a windless summer day.
But in the heart of Mary and Joseph was a joy which they would have been hard-pressed to find appropriate words to express. Through the incredible workings of the Holy Spirit, Mary would soon give birth to the Son of God—Emmanuel. Whatever temporary disappointment was experienced when they were turned away from the inn door, whatever pain was involved in the birthing, these passing events were soon swallowed up in the joy of holding and cherishing their new-born son.
Jesus was the answer that so many were hoping for, yet only a small handful would recognize him as Messiah. His coming into the world as a human being caused a paradigm shift that has sent ripples of change across the seas of time. And yet, although this Prince of Peace has walked upon the earth, although he now sits at the right hand of the Father in heaven interceding for us (Hebrews 7:25; 9:24; 10:12), and although his Spirit continues his work of healing the hearts of those who will bear witness to the truth of his coming, a spirit of uncertainty still covers the earth.
That is why it is so important for Christ-followers who believe in his coming to shine a light of hope into the darkness and to share our blessings with those less fortunate than ourselves. As we walk through this season which brings so much uncertainty for many, let us trust in our Heavenly Father to lead us to those who need to experience the joy of Jesus—filling our mouths with the words of encouragement and hope he desires for us to speak on his behalf.
Let us be diligent in sharing the good news that Jesus came to seek and to save that which was lost (Luke 19:10; John 3:16-17); that He died and rose again so that we could die to sin and be raised (born anew) to abundant and everlasting life (John 10:10; Romans 6:2-4); that He ascended to the Father so that all humanity could be reconciled to the Father directly through His (Jesus’) eternal Trinitarian life—Father, Son & Holy Spirit (Ephesians 2:4-10).
And here is the best news of all—Jesus will return one day to take us home to the Father (1 Thessalonians 4:13-18; John 14:1-3). That’s how much He loves us. That’s how much He has always loved us. That’s worth singing about! “Joy to the world, the Lord is come! Let earth receive her King!”
Blessed Advent to all,
Pastor Thom
As we come into the season of Thanksgiving, originally fashioned around the year-end harvest, each of us can hopefully find reasons for joy in our life. From witnessing a spectacular sunrise or sunset, to spending quality time with those we love, there are just so many positive “happenings” in our lives if only we have eyes to see. One of my greatest joys is to see God at work in my life and in the lives of others who are pleased to take every day as it comes and make the most of what He gives.
For joy to have a hold in our lives, I believe it is important to live each day as a gift rather than a burden. Instead of getting bogged down in the drudgery, focus instead on the blessings, remembering the reasons and responding to the opportunities for giving thanks. While there are always things that need to be done, ultimately doing is not all there is to living, and God called us to live both for Him and in Him. We live lives of service to him so that we might bring glory to his name. By the same token, serving is not always doing. Sometimes it is listening… Sometimes it is just being in His presence (Isaiah 40:31).
Furthermore, joy can be found in the very nature of our triune God who determined in the abundance of his grace, before the foundations of the earth were set, that we would be included in His love through the life, death, resurrection & ascension of His Son (Ephesians 1:4). That He willed for us to be partakers in His divine glory before even time began should strengthen us and fill us to overflowing with joy (Psalm 23:5). I believe that to ultimately come to the place in our walk of faith where we fully believe these truths is to know the true, life-changing joy that Jesus had in mind when he spoke the words:
JN 15:9 “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. [10] If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. [11] I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”
Life will inevitably throw something in our path to trip us up, but the hand of Jesus is always extended toward us, waiting to catch us when we fall. In fact, we are never truly out of his grasp, for he has promised never to leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5) and to always be with us (Matthew 28:20). He comes to us where we are in order to raise us to new and abundant life (John 10:10).
As Thanksgiving Day approaches, may each of us come to experience more deeply the “complete” joy that Jesus speaks of here! May our focus be on allowing His life to fill us and overcome the shadows of doubt! May our confidence in his abundant provisions and amazing promises grow ever stronger! As we follow His command to love others as He has loved us, may our Thanksgiving celebrations be times of refreshing for those whose lives we touch through the out-flowing of His grace and love to all people.
In joyful thanksgiving,
Pastor Thom
I remember a number of years back being totally anxious about something at work. I was really stressing out about it, and a coworker of mine pulled me aside and gave me a bit of advice that I’ve never forgotten, words of wisdom that removed a heavy load from my shoulders. He said to me, “Will the outcome of this situation matter at all a year from now, 5 years from now, 10 years from now? If not, then it probably isn’t worth stressing about now.” Since that day, whenever I find myself getting weighed down by anxiety, I think of his words, and my anxiety evaporates like an early morning fog in the summer sunrise.
A few days after my recent surgery, I was complaining to my 89 year old dad (a man I admire more than I can express in mere words) about some residual inconvenience of the surgery that I would have to put up with for another whole week! His words of advice to me… “What’s a week?” How can a mere 7 days of inconvenience compare to the renewed health I will enjoy for years to come? Point taken… (Thanks dad!)
In the stress of the moment, we can get so wrapped up in ourselves that we lose all perspective. It is so good to have loving people around us to help us to see what’s really important, what is truly lasting…
There are two phrases that are repeated many times and in various forms within the pages of the Bible. They are: “Do not worry” and “Do not fear.” All this repetition tells me that God is making a point that he does not want us to miss. In effect, he is telling us, “Trust me; I’ve got this under control.”
Jesus broke it down into specifics we could grasp when he told his disciples (as recorded in Matthew chapter 6):
“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or stow away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? (vv. 25-27)”
“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? (vv. 28-30)”
I’m not saying that everything comes to us easily once we place our trust in Jesus. No, getting by in this world takes hard work, regardless of who you place your trust in. What I am saying is that worrying or fretting about our situation avails us nothing. In the words of Corrie ten Boom, "Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength."
Here’s what else I am saying, God loves you… Jesus desires for us to experience abundance in our lives. The more unnecessary baggage we carry through life, the harder it is to experience and enjoy that abundance. Let go of the anxiety and fear that are weighing you down and live life as it is meant to be lived, with exuberance and hope, trusting that the great God of the universe has got this…
Faithfully yours,
Pastor Thom
The media has been buzzing loudly the past few years on the topic of white privilege. If you don’t believe white privilege is a thing, consider how many indigenous non-white peoples and nations have been overrun by the “white man” throughout the past 5 centuries. Next, consider how a relatively short a time ago slavery was abolished in our nation. Now, be honest and admit that attitudes have been slow to change over the past 150+ years since the 13th amendment was passed. Yes, white privilege is alive and well in today’s world.
I’m thinking that many who read my words will say, “I am white, but I don’t feel very privileged.” I get that… I have had the same reaction myself. After all, I come from a long line of Anglo Saxons who were not born into affluence, but have worked hard to gain whatever station in life we’ve come to enjoy. But I then came to understand that white privilege was more about discriminatory attitudes and “systems” than it was about societal classes.
Having been born into and growing up as a member of the majority “all white” ruling class, I admit to having little understanding of what it is like to experience the world as a person of color. But that does not negate my responsibility to educate myself so as to be fair and balanced with my words, thoughts and actions. If anything, it means I need to work harder to understand that which has not been a part of my “privileged” white experience.
I am a Christian, a child of the one true God, and as such I am obligated to view all human beings as equal, for that is what they are in the eyes of our Triune God. Sadly, Christians of all stripes through the years have overplayed the privilege card, ignoring the words of the apostle Paul who leveled the playing field when he wrote, “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:28 NIV)”. (Also see Colossians 3:11 & Romans 10:12.) So, when the topic of white privilege comes up, rather than try and deny it, I need to admit that it’s a fact. Next I should ask myself what I can do personally to balance the scales.
There is an old saying that seems to have its origins in the Cherokee nation that goes something like this: “Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in their moccasins.” It’s not talking about being judgmental, but of being able to empathize with an individual, to understand the world from their perspective. Therefore, I have set myself a goal to read books specifically written by people of color so that I may better understand their perspectives. My hope is that, in doing so, I will have greater empathy for their plight and a broader understanding of the world in which I live.
Perhaps the greatest action I can take is to emulate the attitude of our heavenly Father who sent his Son, not to condemn the world, but to save it from itself (John 3:17). Earlier this week Marlene read me a quote she saw on Facebook: “You will never look into the eyes of someone God does not love.” I don’t know the origins of this quote, but it sums up for me the mind-set I need in my approach to all people, regardless of nationality, gender, or social class.
I know that I do not have the power to change the world, but with the help of God’s Holy Spirit, I have the ability to change myself, and that’s a start. I hope that those who read my words may be encouraged to do the same.
Our nation just celebrated the 50th anniversary of the Apollo 11 moon landing – “One small step for (a) man, one giant leap for mankind” (quoted by Neil Armstrong). It was, indeed, quite an accomplishment. But even 50 years after the fact, there are those who claim to believe that the whole event was staged in a movie lot somewhere on earth. No matter what evidence you might bring forward, they are still convinced it was a hoax. One thing is for sure—as often as not, we see what we want to see and hear what we want to hear. Once our minds are made up, humans are hard to convince otherwise.
There are still those who choose to believe that the Holocaust never happened and that the earth is flat. It doesn’t matter how much photographic evidence exists to the contrary, they stand on their shaky convictions. Likewise, there are those who believe that there is no God…
Granted, most of us who do believe in God have never seen him with our eyes or heard him with our ears. We have certainly never seen an actual photo of him and cannot provide scientific evidence of his existence. And yet, the Pew Research Center performed a “survey of scientists who are members of the American Association for the Advancement of Science” and found that roughly 51% of scientists polled “believe in some form of deity or higher power.” (https://www.pewforum.org/2009/11/05/scientists-and-belief/)
So, in spite of the lack of “irrefutable” scientific evidence, there are those who continue to believe, even among the scientific community. “We live by faith and not by sight,” as Paul wrote to the church in Corinth (2CO 5:7). I realize that this all seems like foolishness to much of the world. All we have is a book that was written down by multiple authors over roughly a 1,500 year period. But the authors were men who—according to their own personal testimony—did see God and did hear his voice. Many of these died for the cause to which they pledged themselves. Would they have stood by what they stated to be true in the face of torture and death without personal proof? Unlikely!
We do not, of course, still possess the “original” writings; what we do have are copies that were made by hand over the many years since the originals were penned. Many have pointed to the probability that these “copies” could not possibly be an accurate rendition of the originals. Once again, believers were left with only faith—faith that the God we believe in would have overseen the process and provided us with copies that remained true to the original.
Then, in 1946, the first of the Dead Sea Scrolls were discovered in the Qumran Caves in the Judean Desert on the north shore of the Dead Sea. These range from small fragments to a complete scroll of the prophet Isaiah, and every book of the Hebrew Bible except Esther and Nehemiah. They provided manuscripts approximately 1,000 years older than our previous oldest manuscript, demonstrating that the Old Testament was accurately transmitted during this interval.
This may be of little consequence to those who do not believe in God. But for the believer, the evidence presented by these scrolls supports the faith we have placed in our “unseen” God to control the accuracy of his written word. Perhaps you know someone who is looking for a reason to believe. If so, feel free to share this with them…
Faithfully yours,
Pastor Thom
What is the gospel message? It may not be what you think… On the other hand, perhaps you have a good grasp of what it’s all about. In a nut shell, it’s about relationship, not religion. The gospel is a uniting force, while religion divides. (With all the different denominations out there, that shouldn’t be too hard to grasp.) The gospel is about substitution, redemption, grace, mercy, sanctification, healing. Religion is about rules and regulations and missing the mark.
While religion focuses upon the works of man, the gospel holds before us the works performed on our behalf by the one and only God/man, Jesus the Christ. Where religions continue to fail miserably, the enduring gospel of Jesus continues to succeed triumphantly! That’s because it is not dependent upon our efforts, but on the finished work of Jesus. He is the only one who has ever fulfilled the law by living a perfect, unblemished life, totally free from sin—a feat never to be equaled.
Christians are called to live and share the gospel. That means being a friend of sinners following the example set by Jesus himself. If we, as Christians, struggle to understand what purpose God has for our lives, know this—our primary purpose is to share God’s love with others. Our individual lives can become outposts of the Kingdom of God, where people come to experience the love of Christ.
The good news of the gospel is this: “God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him (John 3:16-17).”
As Christians, we should be known for our love, which should be a reflection of God’s love. Instead we are often known for our criticism, condemnation, and rebuke. Instead of choosing to extend the grace, mercy and love that have been extended to us, too many have chosen to point accusatory fingers at those around them. If this is us, we have fallen into the trap that many in the early church were guilty of (just read the letter to the Hebrews if you want some examples).
If instead of condemning others, we took an honest look at ourselves and our lives, we would clearly see how our Heavenly Father’s abundant love has made all the difference. He is not stingy, as we so often tend to be, but is lavishly generous with his grace and mercy. As the apostle Paul said in his letter to Titus:
“At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life (Titus 3:3-7).”
Now that’s what I call good news! In closing, remember that God never gives up on us and we should never give up on those he loves. And, by the way, he loves everyone…
Gratefully yours,
Pastor Thom
Is it arrogant to believe that Jesus is the only way to God? Many in our pluralistic society would like you to accept that there are multiple paths that one can take, but is this true? I suppose the answer depends upon which “God” you have in mind. If by God you are referring to the supreme being who created all that there is, then the path to him is only found in Jesus, unless of course Jesus was not who he claimed to be.
Those who purport to believe in alternative paths to God, dismiss Jesus’ claims to be one with God and the only path to the one he referred to as “my Father.” Here are a few of these claims which can be found in the gospel of John:
“Then they asked him, ‘What must we do to do the works God requires?’ Jesus answered, ‘The work of God is this: to believe in the one he sent.’” – John 6:28-29 (NIV throughout)
“For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day.” – John 6:40
“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.’” – John 8:12
“‘Very truly I tell you,’ Jesus answered, ‘Before Abraham was born, I am!’” – John 8:58
“I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” – John 10:9-11
“I and the Father are one.” – John 10:30
“Jesus answered her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.’” – John 11:25-26
“I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” – John 14:6
Christian author, CS Lewis, once pointed out that many are willing to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but not his unique claims to be God. Here is his response:
“That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic—on a level with the man who says he is a poached egg—or else he would be the devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God: or else a madman or something worse. You can shut Him up for a fool, you can spit at Him and kill him as a demon; or you can fall at His feet and call Him Lord and God (Mere Christianity, p. 41).”
Obviously, I have chosen the latter. I call Jesus my Lord and Savior because I believe the witness of Scripture, but not only this. I believe because I have experienced his life working in and through me, making me what I could by no other means become… a child of my heavenly Father. There is no doubt in my mind and heart that Jesus is the only way to the Father. The good news is that he holds out his invitation to all. Believe and experience this truth for yourself!
Unashamedly yours,
Pastor Thom
Life’s not fair! I hope that doesn’t shock you… Those who are deceitful in their dealings with others seem to (sometimes way too literally) get away with murder. Others try their best to play by the rules and yet never seem to be able to get ahead and improve their circumstances. No, life is not fair.
If God exists, why doesn’t he do something about this?
Well, in fact he already has. He sent his Son to provide mankind with a way back to himself, back to a life of communion with the Creator. But he will not force that life upon us because he loves us and desires our love in return. And true love cannot be forced. So, in order for us to have the ability to choose a life of loving communion with our triune God, we must have free will, freedom to make that choice.
The problem with free will is that people don’t always make good choices. When we make poor choices, we often cause pain to ourselves and others. But, which of us would rather have all the choices made for us? Which of us would rather be told what to do, what to wear, what to eat, where to go, who to spend time with every moment of every day?
No, we cherish our freedoms, and for good reason. The greatest joys are in discovery, and discovery requires a certain amount of freedom. As small children, we are hungry to learn about the world around us, but are given a limited sphere of influence for our own safety. As we grow and are rewarded with greater freedoms, we have more opportunities to expand our knowledge and understanding and make decisions for ourselves.
Sadly, if everyone has free will, then everyone is free to choose wrongly. The proper intent and use of government is to keep things in balance so that my free will does not trample over yours. Sadly, the institution that exists to provide a level playing field is staffed by human beings with impure thoughts and selfish motives (just like the rest of us). So, where does that leave us?
I believe that leaves us with the ability to choose to be the difference we desire to see in the world around us, to use our freedoms to help and not to harm, to encourage and strengthen, not to belittle and abuse. Be the one that speaks a kind word, the one who is quick to lend a hand, the one who is quick to forgive and slow to anger.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up (Galatians 6:9).”
To put it another way, be the best you that you can be, the you that God sees when he views you through the perfect life of his Son. Let God’s will for you become your will for you, for he knows you better than you know yourself. Embrace the way of selfless love, for the greatest freedom exists therein.
Faithfully yours,
Pastor Thom
The Christian Bible is filled with instructions about how to live in a way that blesses others. Over and over again we are encouraged to treat others in the way we want to be treated ourselves. Sadly, people often take the words of God out of context and use them as a club to try and beat others into some kind of externally imposed submission. Interestingly, God chooses not to force his ways upon us, but encourages and urges us to live righteous and holy lives. He approaches us in love, not in anger, admonishing us to do that which will be of the greatest benefit to us. Unlike many of us, he is patient in his dealings with stubborn and rebellious people.
In 2 Peter 3:9—in response to those who scoff at the promised return of Jesus, saying in effect, “What’s taking him so long? If he’s coming back, where is he then?”—Peter writes: “The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”
That is the God that I have come to know and love, for he has been extremely patient with me, loving me through my stubbornness and gently leading me through my many failings to greater and greater successes. While accepting and loving me as I am, he encourages me by revealing to me that I can do better, I can be better. Like the loving Father that he is, he leads and guides me through life, helping me make right decisions. Through it all, he continues to love me unconditionally.
Regardless of the life you’ve lived, God is never disappointed in you. He doesn’t see you as a failure in any sense of the word, because he continually sees in you your greatest potential. Do you think your weaknesses and insecurities and stupid decisions take him by surprise? Not at all! He knows who you truly are, your every failing and your darkest secrets, and he loves you anyway.
And the best way we can repay his love is to treat others as he treats us. The writer of the letter to the Hebrews provided instruction to help us do just that when he wrote:
“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24).”
Imagine how beautiful the world could be if that were our daily goal! Just think how well we might get along if we could just learn to be patient with one another and, rather than pointing out all the things we don’t like about each other, we instead chose to encourage each other in our efforts to do good to our fellow human beings…
It’s likely that those you consider to be your very best friends treat you in just this way. That’s what draws you to them and keeps you coming back for more. So, I guess what I’m encouraging you to do is to treat those you encounter as if they are deserving of your friendship. Be the one who lifts others up rather than tearing them down. If you don’t see eye to eye on everything, find that which you can agree upon and rejoice in it.
Draw on the strength God provides to live in a way that reflects his generous nature and enduring love to others. Your life will be better for it and you will show yourself to be a true child of your loving heavenly Father.
Earnestly seeking your best,
Pastor Thom
Marlene and I just enjoyed a fun afternoon with friends, something that we don’t do nearly as often as we should. It’s a shame, really, how we fill our days with so many chores and leave so little time for relationships. After all, God designed us to be relational beings. And it is in relationship that he comes to us in the person of his Son, Jesus.
A lot of people spend hours a day on social media, but that’s a poor substitute for a relationship. People gather together in various venues, but then spend their time with their eyes on the screens of their smart phones. It’s almost like folks have forgotten how to enjoy a one-on-one conversation, and it’s sad. We’ve taken a life already too full of distractions and added even more—indeed, we’ve added an abundance of distractions to an already over-busy existence.
Sometimes we need to just stop! We need to put away the electronic devices; we need to put aside the chores; we need to unplug from all that keeps us from relating to those around us, and we need to turn our complete attention on the people we care for and the God who loves us unconditionally.
Unconditionally? Yes, unconditionally! There is absolutely nothing you can do that will cause God to love you less than completely. John 3:16 does say that God loves the world (which includes all of humankind) enough to send his Son to heal the rift caused by sin. Romans 8:38-39 make it plain that, through the sacrificial death of Jesus all debts have been paid and therefore there is nothing left that could ever separate us from his love.
God is relational—existing as Father, Son and Spirit before the creation of the world. Existing in such an amazingly close and fulfilling relationship that God chose to create a being he could share this relationship with. He created us for relationship and He desires a relationship with each and every one of us.
God is who he is, with or without us. He doesn’t need us, but he chose to create us to join him in relationship. While we do not influence who he is at all, many of his attributes can only be experienced in relationship. In other words, we come to know him through our relational experiences with him.
God is fully perfect and complete in himself. He needs nothing form us, and yet he seeks us out in order to share with us his completeness, his perfection. For we are far from perfect; we are far from complete. We are definitely a work in process. And as such, I believe that we need what he offers… Speaking for myself, I am a better man because of his influence upon my life. My relationship with Marlene is stronger because God is at the center of that relationship.
So when Jesus says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest (MT 11:28)”, I am compelled to comply with his invitation. My experience has been that, when I lean on my Savior, he causes me to flourish. When I put my trust in his guidance, he brings me to a better place. When I listen to his instruction to me, all I hear is his love coming through, penetrating my darkness with his unquenchable light.
There is so much more I could tell you about my compassionate, merciful, and gracious God. But perhaps you already know of his personal love for you. I sincerely hope that you do, and that you take full advantage of every opportunity to be in relationship with him.
Gratefully yours,
Pastor Thom
Time seems to rush by far too quickly this time of year. Most likely it is due to the shortness of the daylight hours, but I cannot swear to that. Maybe it’s the ending of the calendar year that does it, just one more indication of the passage of time and our inability to keep pace. Or maybe it is a combination of all these things. All I know is that this time of year always feels rushed, like everything is moving along at a faster pace.
Thankfully, our gracious God is never in a rush. He patiently waits for the perfect time and faithfully fulfills his promises, one by one. Although Isaiah wrote of the coming Messiah 700 years before his incarnation (and this likely made many in the nation of Israel impatient for his appearing), Jesus came at just the right time in just the right place, right on schedule.
As the Savior of the nation, many expected that his arrival would be trumpeted with more pomp and glory, but that did not fit into God’s plan…
“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.” (Micah 5:2)
Jesus came with the humblest of beginnings so that he could serve all, from the least to the greatest. His plan was to lift the human race from its lowly condition and present us to his Father as a pearl of great price. So, he came… into modest conditions he was born—King of the Jews. He came to bring light to a world trapped in the grip of darkness.
“The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned.” (Isaiah 9:2)
Many would have chosen for Jesus to come at a different point in history. But the conditions were right at that time for news to spread quickly throughout the Roman Empire. Thus, after his death, Christianity reached, as intended, across the continents to touch the lives of all mankind. Once again, God’s timing is perfect. Jesus came at the appointed time to the appointed place to fulfill the appointed promise!
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end.” (Isaiah 9:6-7)
So, if life seems to be rushing by all too fast these days, just remember that God’s timing is still perfect and his plan is still in motion. Things may not happen at the pace we would like, but we need to learn to lean upon the Master as he fulfills his wonderful promises to us and to all mankind.
I hope that your Advent season is blessed with family time and the joy of knowing that the One who made heaven and earth and all that is in them has also made a way for us to share in his unquenchable joy and love. May your joy be so great as to spill over onto others as you celebrate the coming of the One who saves us from sin and death through his glorious life!
Abounding in his love,
Pastor Thom
As I sit at my computer, watching the weather change moment by moment, I cannot help but think about how transient this life is. In the greater scheme of things, we are here for a brief moment in time, and yet our lives touch, and are touched by, so many others. I find myself considering how the way we live is of great importance, for it impacts those we meet along life’s road.
This time of year, as the days get shorter and the periods of darkness lengthen, it seems that life can often take on a frantic pace. Instead of allowing the natural flow of the seasons to help regulate our lives, we work against it and end up creating greater stress at a time of year in which we have a harder time dealing with stress.
For instance, society has thrown a bomb into what was meant to be a relaxing time of family, tradition, and thankfulness of heart (Thanksgiving 4-day weekend) by giving us black Friday—a time of rampant greed and consumerism. Is it any wonder that we have such a mental health epidemic in our society?
In light of this, I encourage everyone who reads these words to be the difference in the lives of those around you. Don’t get caught up in the hecticness of life; instead determine to be the calming influence that talks others down off the ledge of anger, insecurity, fear, grief, or loneliness. Determine to be the one who, when faced with difficulties, chooses to remain positive in spite of challenging circumstances. Not only will this help those around you, it will be healing to your own soul as well.
In this season of Thanksgiving, choose to have a thankful heart; for even in the most difficult situations, if we look upon our lives with honest eyes, we will find that we have much for which we can be thankful. As a child of God, make a conscious choice not to allow the negative voices to deter you from living out of the truth of who you are in Christ. Instead I encourage you to look into his word and see your true identity revealed in the words of his Apostle Paul.
“But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do (EPH 2:4-10).”
“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God (EPH 3:16-19).”
Strengthened by his love,
Pastor Thom
This past Sunday after arriving home from church, I was getting ready to dive into an afternoon project, when I learned that a lifelong friend had been taken to the ICU. Apparently Rhonda had collapsed while on the phone with the 911 operator. When the EMTs arrived, they were able to reestablish a pulse, so she was placed on a ventilator and taken to the nearest hospital. Upon learning of this, I drove to Parkland Medical Center in Derry. As I entered her hospital room, I found her surrounded by family members. Later that afternoon, after the closest family members had all assembled (and due to the lack of brain activity), the decision was made to remove the ventilator and let nature take its course. She was pronounced dead moments later.
The thing about this life is that we all know it’s a temporary gig. None of us can escape the inevitability of death. Each day brings us one step closer to our final breath. I believe that this realization is what makes life so very precious to us and helps us treasure the moments we are given, for all too often we are forced to say our goodbyes way too soon. Far too frequently we can be left with the regret of not having said or done more to let those we’ve lost know how much they are truly loved.
Although Rhonda and I had known each other for nearly half a century, we hadn’t spent much time together since leaving high school. But the time that we did get to spend together was more special due to our shared history. From a distance we watched each other’s children become adults and establish lives of their own. From a distance my family grieved with her family over the loss of her husband Dale.
Through it all, the Lord of creation has continued to lavish his love upon our lives. He has lessened our sorrows and increased our joys with his promises of a life beyond this present existence.
Many of those who grieved Rhonda’s passing made mention of what a blessing it was that she and Dale were now reunited. I had to agree. Some who read this will scoff at my naivety and consider me a fool, but my faith is not hampered by their skepticism.
My Lord and Savior has proven himself to me beyond a shadow of doubt. When I have challenged him to reveal himself through answered prayer, he has continually gone above and beyond my expectations. My faith has grown as has my understanding of the depth of his love, not only for me, but for all mankind.
The trials of life will either make you stronger, or make you give up. Each difficulty we face has the power to build us up or tear us down. I can say from experience that leaning on Jesus has made all the difference for me. He is my rock, the foundation that has made it possible for me to stand regardless of my circumstances. I do not fear the future, for I know it is in his hands. I do not lament about the past, because when I have shown myself to be weak, he has been my strength.
Like King David, I have wondered why God would love us so much. And, like King David, I will praise him to my dying breath for revealing his great love to me and to all who will believe in him. He won’t force his love on any of us, but offers it up for the taking…
“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me (Revelation 3:20).”
Living in his love,
Pastor Thom
September 1st, 2018 - 11:16 pm
It’s Labor Day weekend and you know what that means… It means I’m not going to get all those projects done this summer after all! Summers are so busy here in the northeast since we have a short window to accomplish so many outdoor projects. I spoke with someone back in May about laying a concrete pad for me this summer, and I’ve just finished up preparing the spot last weekend. Time flies when you’ve got too much to do!
Thinking about all I have left to do before the cold weather sets in reminds me of a story from the Gospel of Luke.
“Now as [Jesus and his disciples] went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, ‘Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her to help me.’ But the Lord answered her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.’ (Luke 10:38-42 ESV)”
Picture Jesus and his band of disciples showing up, probably unexpectedly, at the house of Martha and Mary. There would be much to do to accommodate such a crew! And yet Jesus commends Mary for taking a break from all the toil to listen to his teaching. I think most of us tend to be the “Martha” in this story. If there are things that need to get done so our guests can relax and enjoy themselves, we want to get that out of the way first. Then we can comfortably sit and relax with them and not be concerned about all that still needs doing.
Jesus isn’t saying that there is no value in doing a job and doing it right. Instead he is pointing out that everything has its time and place, including sitting at the Lord’s feet. While in our day, sitting at the Lord’s feet might be akin to prayer and Bible study, I believe it would also be appropriate to include spending time with close friends and family that, perhaps, you don’t get to see very often.
The problem with putting off important opportunities for a “better” time is that we never spend the time we should and often never get around to them at all. Mary knew what needed to get done. But she also knew that, if she allowed herself to be distracted by it all, she would miss out on this one opportunity to spend time with the Lord that may never come again. I’m sure that, once Jesus continued on his way, she then made the time for all the “chores” that needed her attention, but she wasn’t about to miss out on this “special” opportunity by filling her life with “regular” activities.
Labor Day is often seen as the last big fling before the school year kicks into high gear. There’s a bunch of camping and travel going on. But don’t forget to make the time for friends and family as well… Life is fleeting. While there is always work that needs doing, be sure not to neglect the “good portion”. Put the phone down and spend quality time with someone you love. If you know of someone who doesn’t get many visitors, make time to get together with them and let them know you care. You won’t be sorry for the work that gets delayed when you see the smile you bring to their face.
And be sure not to neglect your time with Jesus… It is always time well spent and will make all other times more productive and meaningful.
Laboring in his love,
Pastor Thom
The daily flood of advertising promises that a particular product will provide just what we need to make our lives “complete” and “whole”. The only thing is that these items never accomplish their stated goal. And do you know why? It is because the focus is always on the self—self-gratification, self-fulfillment, etc. If our efforts are always inward, then we are not fulfilling our purpose on this planet. I’m not saying we should completely ignore our personal needs. No, we cannot extend proper care to others if we have neglected to care for ourselves. What I am saying is that the ultimate goal of self-care should be to equip ourselves to be a blessing to others.
As a youth I discovered in myself a joy for writing poetry. When I learned that my poetry could bring joy to others, I found myself writing more and more. It brought me joy to bring them joy. I found myself lifted up by the act of lifting others up. Later I came to realize that this was a gift given by a loving Father with the intent that I would share it with others. That’s really why he gives gifts in the first place. I cannot think of a single gift from God that was strictly for the benefit of the one gifted.
Have you ever taken the opportunity to visit someone who was in a bad way, maybe stuck in the hospital awaiting answers concerning a serious medical condition, or someone who had recently lost a loved one unexpectedly? Have you ever done something that caused you discomfort in order to bring comfort to someone else? If you have, then you have experienced the other-centeredness that God had in mind for us all.
We are told in Romans 12:15 to “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Why? It is because joy is increased and sorrow is decreased in the sharing. This is the mathematics of a loving God, who wired us for relational living. While some, for one reason or another, choose a solitary life, the majority of us surround ourselves with friends and family upon whom we can pour out our love and by whose out-flowing love we are refreshed. We learn life’s greatest lessons through relationships.
In his first letter to the church in Corinth, Paul wrote of the diversity of gifts given by the Holy Spirit of God. He followed that up by comparing Christians (the collective group of individuals who accept Christ as their Lord and Savior) to a human body, and of the importance of caring for that body. He explained that the gifts, although given to individuals, were poured into our lives for the benefit of the whole body (1 Corinthians 12).
Then, in the very next chapter he went on to explain about the greatest gift of all—love. You’ve probably heard this quoted at a wedding (I’ve certainly used it for that purpose), but it is relevant to all relationships. As I quote some of it here, make note of the other-centeredness of these words:
1Co 13:1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. [2] If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. [3] If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. [4] Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [5] It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. [6] Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. [7] It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. [8] Love never fails…
Unlike an advertiser, I’ve got nothing to sell you. I merely desire to share from what I have learned through the great giving hand of our Lord, because I have come to understand that joy is increased and sorrow is decreased in the sharing.
Dwelling daily in his love,
Pastor Thom
“Life is like photography. You need the negatives to develop.”
The above quote by Ziad K. Abdelnour makes an important point. Without trials in life, we do not learn what our strengths are, nor how well we can handle adversity. James, the brother of Jesus, understood this, which is why he wrote the following:
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance (James 1:2-3).”
You see, it is in the tests and trials of life that our character is formed, our resolve is strengthened and (for a Christian) our faith in God’s unconditional love is put to the test. It takes no strength of character to enjoy the good times in life, the easy times, the times of plenty. How much resolve is required to accomplish that which comes naturally to us? And why would we question the goodness of God if everything was always going well for us?
No, it is in the trials of life that we find out what we are made of, or more accurately, what we are being made into. A newborn possesses little in the way of coping mechanisms. These are established through real-life experiences, times of testing.
In Jesus’ parable about the seed and the sower, he speaks of those whose soil is shallow (who lack depth of character and perseverance). He says in Luke 8:6 that “Some [seed] fell on rocky ground, and when it came up, the plants withered because they had no moisture.” Then in verse 13 he gives the explanation: “Those on the rocky ground are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away.”
Perseverance is about learning to deal with what life throws at us, not letting the difficulties sway us from continuing on the path which God has set before us, but growing through our experiences and becoming better versions of ourselves. The end result is worth the pain we go through. “Let perseverance finish its work in you so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything (James 1:4).”
If I were to wish away all the trials I have dealt with in my life, I would also be wishing away all the accomplishments as well. If I were to ask God never to test me through difficult times, I wouldn’t now know what it means to be strong, to stand firm in my convictions, and to truly trust that God has the best intentions for my life. If I hadn’t ever been through the low times, I would have had no reason to look up to see if he really cared. And if I had never looked up, I would have missed seeing God’s loving hand reaching down to me in my misery.
I’m not saying I have always enjoyed the trials I have had to face in life, but I can honestly say that I have come to consider that the trials I face are worth going through because they have solidified my trust in the one whose Spirit now lives in me.
Perseverance still has its work cut out, because I’ve got a ways to go before I am truly mature and complete. There is much that I still lack, yet I am confident in the fact that “he who began a good work in [me] will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6).” Through it all, I trust in his unconditional love and mercy, and thank God for his abundant provision of grace by which I am freely justified in his presence.
Dwelling daily in the freedom of Christ,
Pastor Thom
As I sit to write this, I am exhausted from spending a day working in the hot sun. There are times when I long for a bit more sunshine, but today I got more than I needed. Not that I am complaining… It’s great to be active and to have the weather to accomplish what needs to be done. One thing is for sure, I enjoy this time of year with the long sunny days far more than I enjoy the short, cold days of winter. I can’t live without the recharge I get from the sun’s warming rays this time of year.
I hope that’s how each of you feels concerning the “Son”. I hope that prolonged exposure to the Son does not cause you too much distress or discomfort. Of course, I realize that his glory can, at times, reveal parts of our nature that we would rather not see (and certainly do not want others to see). But his revealing is done out of love for us, not to point the finger of blame and shame.
You see, Jesus knew our hearts before he called us to himself. Yet, he still chose to call us. Consider the story of the prodigal son from Luke 15. We can be relatively certain that—although this young man realized the errors of his ways and found his way back to his father’s house—he probably still felt some of the same yearnings deep down that had pulled him away from his father in the beginning. He had gained perspective during his time away, but he was likely still struggling with some of the same inner turmoil that had driven him away in the first place.
I believe we can be equally certain that his father knew this. And yet, he welcomed his son back with open arms, even running out to greet him when he was a good distance away; not to scold him, not to tell him how disappointed he was in his son’s earlier mistakes and bad attitude, but to show that his love and mercy toward his son was just as real now as the day he left.
Notice what happens when the son begins to pour out his heart, calling attention to what a miserable wretch he had become and how he had disgraced his father (LK 15:21). Immediately, the father turns the attention away from his son’s failures and toward how happy he is to have his son back home once again (vv. 22-24). This is how our heavenly Father treats us.
God is not interested in tearing us down, but in lifting us up. He wants us to be useful, not useless. He wants to fill us with His Holy Spirit, not leave us desolate. But just as the potter has to pound the clay in order to soften it, God softens our hearts by revealing our sinful nature while, at the same time, revealing to us His grace-filled nature.
It’s because he loves us so much that he reveals to us our shortcomings, not to beat us up about them, but to encourage us to make positive steps toward healing our brokenness. He wants us to rid ourselves of that which gets in the way of experiencing a fruitful life in his presence. He does it for our good. In fact, the apostle Paul wrote in his letter to the Philippians that we can be confident “…that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns (PHP 1:6 NLT).”
So, if you tend to spend much of your time thrashing yourself for being such an imperfect human being, consider this—what other kind is there? And yet God loves us all—more than that, He desires for us to bask in His glory. If you find yourself spending most of your time fretting about the dark places in your life, then turn to the Son and let His warming rays soak deep into your soul. You’ll be glad you did!
Love to you all,
Pastor Thom
“My child, don’t reject the LORD’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you. For the LORD corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights (Proverbs 3:11-12 NLT).”
I remember being disciplined and corrected by my dad when I was a child. It was never pleasant, and although he never raised a hand to me, his words often stung deeply and left some lasting scars. But through it all, I never remember doubting his love for me. Perhaps this was due to my mother’s calming influence and constant reminder that my dad’s love was not only real, but would outlast whatever pain his words had caused me. Interestingly enough, her words of encouragement were another form of discipline, teaching me to see past the present trials and hope in better times to come.
If there had been no discipline, if I had not been regularly admonished to try harder, do better, and learn from my mistakes, I hate to think what kind of person I may have become. Would I have learned the life lessons necessary to build strong character and a good work ethic? Doubtful… While I didn’t appreciate the life lessons back then, I now realize the value of a firm, disciplined hand in shaping a young life.
God, of course, has been aware of this all along. That’s why he “disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness (Hebrews 12:10 NIV).” God would rather have us experience pain now than miss out on the abundant life to come because he knows that the pain of discipline “produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it (v11b)”.
Having said all this, I want to acknowledge that too many fathers take discipline to a level never intended by our loving God, fathers whose own brokenness carries over into their parental lives and produces abuse in place of discipline. In fact, too many people believe that abuse and discipline are in fact the same thing, which couldn’t be further from the truth.
Abuse comes from a place of pain and (often) anger, whereas discipline comes from a place of love. I do not condone or excuse abusive behavior, but acknowledge it here as a reality of the human condition. I also know that some who read this will be able to relate to this from their personal experiences.
God ordained discipline never crosses the line into abuse, for it is grounded in love. In the same way, true love does not withhold discipline, for it is by this discipline that we are brought to a place of strength and maturity. A parent who neglects the responsibility of disciplining their child demonstrates a lack of understanding in the benefit of proper discipline.
As a believer, I am thankful for the Lord’s discipline, for it provides the necessary direction to guide me through this life. Earlier I quoted the second half of Hebrews 12:11. In closing, I want to leave you with the beginning of that verse:
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful (HEB 12:11a).” While not all pain is gain, the pain that comes via the Lord’s loving hand is intended only for our good. Don’t reject it, for it comes to you wrapped in his abundant love.
Love to you all,
Pastor Thom
In the perfect timing of the Lord of creation, Jesus came into the world, lived a perfect life and in his sinless death, destroyed the power that death held over us. It had nothing to do with us and everything to do with him and his awesome love.
“You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly.” (Romans 5:6)
That would be us—apart from Christ. Powerless, ungodly, sinful… We may endeavor to avoid the darkness that surrounds us, but the rocks of self-assurance and independence that we walk upon are slippery and sooner or later we lose our footing and slide back into the darkness we have tried our best to avoid.
Knowing that our self-determination would never heal the great chasm between God and man, Jesus came to live and die to eternally redeem our lives and reconcile us fully to the Father. He is our atonement.
“Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (RO 5:7-8)
Jesus did not come to condemn, but to save. (John 3:17) His whole purpose was healing and restoration. He didn’t show up with a wrecking ball, he showed up with a servant’s heart. He came to heal mankind, not to destroy it. He came as the great physician, bringing the only cure for a terminal disease—sin.
When we will repent of our waywardness and believe in his love and his power to save, we receive justification. Not because of what we’ve done, but in spite of all we’ve done. We are justified by his perfect life, poured out at the cross, not by our puny attempts at being “good” or “righteous”.
“Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him! For if while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Not only is this so, but we also boast in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” (RO 5:9-11)
Haters may hate, scoffers may scoff, doubters may doubt; but the power expressed by the love of God rocks this world, thundering above society’s discord through the words of Jesus spoken from the cross…
“It is finished!” (John 19:30)
Demands of the law… paid in full!
Prophesies concerning Messiah… accomplished!
The power of sin and death… destroyed!
Redemption… complete!
Salvation… assured!
Satan… defeated!
Through his death Jesus opened a way to the Father that had never before existed. Through his resurrection life he calls to us…
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:30)
He is Risen!
Pastor Thom
I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that, when it comes to the news of the day, you’ve got an opinion—one way or another. Some of these are “educated” opinions, others are just opinions. Some are taught by our parents and some are forged in our rebellion from our parents (or authority, or society, etc.). Some opinions are a knee-jerk reaction to things that make us angry; while others are driven by a desire for it to be so.
There are a lot of reasons for how we came to have the opinions we have, but there is only one good reason to hold to any specific opinion. Truth! Truth is what matters most of all. Some will say that there is no such thing as absolute truth, but that’s a contradictory statement and is, in the end, quite meaningless. Opinions may disagree; beliefs may cancel each other out. Truth is absolute.
So, who has the truth? Well, that’s the question that is so hard for our secular world to answer. More wars have been fought, more relationships have been destroyed, more people have been misjudged because of a lack of clarity regarding what is true. Too many politicians seem to believe that, if you tell a lie over and over for long enough, it will become true.
Truth has forever been under attack by those who don’t find it convenient or expedient. So much is done in secret due to a fear of what would happen if the truth of the matter were exposed to the light of day. Yes, truth can be quite inconvenient for those who choose to shield their actions behind a lie. The problem is that a lie comes with an expiration date, while the truth remains truth.
Rather than argue or debate with anyone about “universal” truths (yes, I believe there are universal truths), let me tell you what is true for me… It is true that my life had no real direction until I found my direction in Jesus. It is true that on my own I lack ambition and drive, but by the power of Jesus, I have loved and provided for my family, I have pursued an exciting career, and I have been pastor of a small fellowship group for the past 14 years. If it weren’t for the faith Christ has given me, I cannot say where I would be now, but I am thankful for where I am.
I am not afraid to admit that my early years as a Christian were littered with falsehoods and misconceptions, I have trusted in teachers who have led me astray by their misguided teaching. But as I have grown in my faith and understanding through the tutelage of the Holy Spirit, I have experienced what Jesus spoke about as recorded in the gospel of John 8:31-32:
To the Jews who had believed in him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
Jesus died for the truth—a very inconvenient truth to those in authority at that time. Many Christians since have died for the truth through these last 2,000 or so years. Although I do not wish it for myself, I pray that, should it come to that, I would be willing as well to die for this truth that has truly set me free.
In the meantime, I cling to the promises of Jesus, these words that give wings to my very soul and strength to every part of my being. Promises such as these in John 16:12-14:
“I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear. But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come. He will glorify me because it is from me that he will receive what he will make known to you.”
Standing on the truth of his promises,
Pastor Thom
Each life has its own unique experiences. There are times of plenty and times of drought. Most of us will, at some time in our lives, hit a low spot that makes day-to-day living a painful experience indeed. I had such a time a number of years back. It was the anomaly in an otherwise joyful existence and thankfully it lasted for only a season. I cannot tell you what brought it on, but I can tell you how I made it through… prayer!
I was in a state of deep depression, and although I didn’t know why, I knew who did, and through the pain I trusted him to lift me to a better, higher place. It was during this time more than any other that I realized that it was not by my strength that I made it through, but by the strength of the one who called me out of the darkness and into his glorious light (2 Corinthians 4:6; 1 Peter 2:9).
In thinking about the struggles we face, I am reminded of the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Philippians. Paul knew some difficult times. In fact, compared to his life, mine has been completely trouble free. So, I am not surprised that he can teach me a thing or two about dealing with hardship. On the subject of perseverance he wrote:
“…I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus (Philippians 3:12b-14).”
So let’s face it, life is a struggle. The good news is, of course, that we do not struggle alone. We have an advocate who walks the miles with us, always ready to pick us up when we stumble. That’s a big part of what this life is about, getting up again when we stumble.
We also have Christian brothers and sisters who have “been there and done that” and are able to lend support in our time of need. Allow them to lend a hand and help you bear your burden. It will bless both of you!
As we continue to “press on toward the goal,” I want to leave you with a favorite poem by John Greenleaf Whittier:
Don’t Quit
When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is strange with its twists and turns
As every one of us sometimes learns
And many a failure comes about
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow—
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out—
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell just how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit—
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.
Life is not always easy, but it’s always worth the effort.
By the grace of God,
Pastor Thom
Another year has begun, and it sure started off on the cold side! (I’m not sensing any global warming where I live!) My diesel tractor decided that it was too cold to run properly, so this past Thursday’s storm didn’t get cleaned up to the extent I had intended. Also, the wood stove has been burning steadily for a couple weeks, so I need to get some more wood into the cellar! Thankfully, it looks like in the coming week the temperature may rise into the 40s. Funny how that seems warm this time of year, but is considered unreasonably cold at other times…
Perspective is like that. Depending upon where you stand at any given time, the same circumstances can strike you quite differently. That’s why it’s important to have a solid foundation in life, something you can count on when the earth is shaking under your feet. For me, the two things I count upon are God and family, in that order. Why? Because I believe that it was God who blessed me with the family I treasure, and it is in my relationship with God that I have learned how to give of myself in order to receive back into my life the blessings that come from close family ties.
Thirty five years ago I was unemployed, having quit a job that literally drove me to my knees in prayer. Within a couple weeks I was employed in the job that would lead me to the career I now enjoy. Through the years my trust in and love for God grew as he continually proved himself over and over again. Life wasn’t always easy, but I knew and trusted the One who had it all under control.
Twenty years ago, a job that I had loved was suddenly unbearable due to personality conflicts that arose through changes in management. Once again I was driven to my knees in prayer and anguish and once again God answered by providing me a way forward.
Ten years ago I was between jobs once again. The company I had given nearly 10 years of my life to had laid me off (along with about 75% of my coworkers), and my next job opportunity had not yet presented itself. I had received notice of the layoff 6 months in advance and, while many around me were expecting me to be bothered by my impending lack of employment, I was experiencing a profound peace…
This peace came down to the fact that God remained steadfast through all of my changing life and I had finally come to the point where, rather than let life shake me, I was now fully trusting God to bring me through. In the end, I was out of work for about 6 weeks and have been steadily employed ever since.
I have been living as a believer, as a Christian, for these 35+ years and I can tell you that the troubles in life are overwhelmingly eclipsed by the love I have experienced from a God who takes such an intimate interest in my life and the life of those I love. I have learned so much over these years, about trust, about faith, about peace that defies explanation. It’s been an incredible ride and I wouldn’t have missed it for all the world.
What I have found through my growing and changing relationship with my God is that our amazing God, the creator of all that exists, is the most loving and generous being I know. Our heavenly Father sets the standard for what fatherhood looks like, and if we can reflect in our own lives just a little of who he is as Father, what a difference it makes. And in his amazing life, the eternal Son, Jesus, truly shows us what it means to be a brother and a son. Lastly, the Holy Spirit, our comforter and keeper who pours into us the love from above and makes sense of our meager prayers amazes me as he guides and shapes me into the man I am meant to be.
To God be the glory!
Pastor Thom
I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but it seems that the days travel by much faster as the end of the year approaches. Maybe it has something to do with the shortness of the daylight hours, or maybe it’s because we’re trying to get things done before the winter makes such work impossible, but I always feel in a rush this time of year, which is interesting since nature is winding down and preparing for a nap. Even at work the pace has been greater than usual, so time has just been flying by for me. How about you?
Our great God, however, is never in a rush. He patiently waits for the perfect time and faithfully fulfills his promises, one by one, at just the right time (Romans 5:6). Although the prophet Isaiah wrote of the coming Messiah 700 years before he came (and this likely made many in the nation of Israel impatient for his appearing), Christ’s appearing came at the right time in the right place, right on schedule.
Many would have chosen to have him come with more pomp and glory, but that did not fit into God’s plan…
“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.” (Micah 5:2)
Jesus arrived with humble beginnings so that he could serve all, from the least to the greatest. His plan was to lift the human race from its lowly condition and present us to his Father as a pearl of great price. So, he came… into modest conditions he was born – King of the Jews. He came to bring light to a world of darkness.
“The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned.” (Isaiah 9:2)
Many would have chosen for Jesus to come at a different point in history. But the conditions were right at that time for news to spread quickly throughout the Roman Empire. Thus, after his death, Christianity spread across the continents to touch the lives of all mankind. Once again, God’s timing is perfect. Jesus came at the appointed time to the appointed place to fulfill the appointed promise!
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end.” (Isaiah 9:6-7)
So, if life seems to be rushing by all too fast these days, just remember that God’s timing is still perfect and that his plan is still in motion. Things may not happen at the pace we would like, but we need to learn to wait upon the Master as he fulfills his wonderful promises to us and to all mankind (Isaiah 40:31).
I hope that your Advent season is blessed with family time and the joy of knowing that the One who made heaven and earth and all that is in them has also made a way for each of us to share in his unquenchable joy and love. May the joy of Christ fill your hearts to the point that it spills over into the lives of others as you celebrate the coming of the One who saves us from sin and death through his glorious life!
Joyfully yours,
Pastor Thom
“Happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.” -Frederick Koenig
In this season of Thanksgiving, I want to write to you about contentment. For many, contentment is an elusive dream, not because they lack what is needed for a happy life, but because they focus on that which they do not have. Living in the most prosperous nation on earth, I am often amazed by what seemingly well-off people clamor for. Interestingly, the most sought-after items seem to be related to the “entertainment” industry. If that is the focus, it’s no wonder that so many are discontent.
I want to suggest to you that there is a better way… This better way is found in a personal relationship with Jesus. As a pastor in a local congregation of Grace Communion International, I was blessed with the opportunity to attend a GCI conference in Orlando, Florida this past August. While there, I sat in on a session presented by Bible teacher, author and public lecturer, Cathy Deddo, entitled “Whole-Heartedness—Finding the Joy of Participation with Jesus”.
Towards the end of her presentation she made the observation that to be continually growing in thankfulness puts us in a place of receiving. She was not speaking about receiving “things”. Rather her discussion was about receiving joy and contentment by fully participating in the life and relationship God has called us into. It’s all about finding our contentment in the will of God our Father through his Son Jesus by the indwelling Holy Spirit.
For me, personally, living a Spirit-filled life is what has enabled me to find peace in a troubled world. Whenever I have found myself becoming discouraged, or depressed, or confused, it was always because I was missing the big picture—I was failing to recognize the work of God in my life. Once I came to see what he was doing, to recognize where he was leading, peace returned and, with it, contentment.
Through this process I came to trust in God more fully. I came to realize personally what the apostle Paul was referring to when he wrote about “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6).” The wording here points out that this is an ongoing process.
Jesus began his work and will see it through. But he’s not done yet. For me personally, that means there will still be times of discouragement, depression, confusion, etc. But because I recognize God is still at work, these feelings will not define me. Instead I choose to be defined by a spirit of thankfulness, of contentment, whatever my circumstances. It is a choice I must make daily, for this world provides plenty of distractions, red herrings as it were, to unbalance and discourage me.
How can I possess such a positive attitude? It is because I have experienced God through my relationship with him and I have never found him lacking. Since the point where I began paying attention, I can honestly say that God has never let me down. His far-reaching love has trumped my short-sightedness on many occasions, keeping me from making mistakes I was only too willing to make… And his generosity has shown up in powerful, life-changing ways.
I hope, as the day of Thanksgiving approaches, you will choose to be thankful and to experience—with eyes wide open—the many blessings that God has poured into your life. Rather than focus on what you perceive is lacking in your life, recognize and appreciate what is yours in him and be thankful!
Contentedly yours,
Pastor Thom
Forgiveness is an interesting commodity in God’s economy. You need to be willing to give it to others to actually experience its effects. If your heart is full of bitterness, or pain, or rage, it is likely due to the fact that someone has wronged you and you have not found it in your heart to forgive them. Because you have not forgiven them, you have not experienced the healing power of forgiveness.
It isn’t until you’re willing to let go of the hurt and allow forgiveness to flow from you that you will know and be healed by forgiveness. I believe this is what Jesus was getting at when he stated the following: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins (Matthew 6:14-15).”
You see, your forgiveness is guaranteed in Jesus, but you cannot experience the effects of his forgiveness until you believe that the salvation he offers is for you. He has done all that was required, now it is our turn. But without belief, there is no means to receive his forgiveness. After all, unless you believe you need to be forgiven, you are not going to seek forgiveness.
To take it a step further, if you are unwilling to extend forgiveness to others, then chances are you have not truly accepted the forgiveness of Jesus for yourself; for if you had accept his forgiveness, you would also have come to an understanding that we are all, every one of us, sinners in need of a Savior. And if Jesus is willing to forgive those who have wronged us, who are we to withhold forgiveness from them?
But if we have been cleansed by the forgiveness of Jesus, his love flows into us and out to others, making forgiveness a natural part of our daily lives. If we abide in Jesus’ love, the effects will soon spread to those around us, even those who have treated us badly.
Perhaps you are familiar with the difficult words of Jesus:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love you neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous (Matthew 5:43-45).”
While I am saying we must be willing to forgive, I am not saying that we should put ourselves in harm’s way. If you are dealing with an abusive relationship, you should do whatever is necessary to discontinue that relationship. Forgiving someone for their past actions against you doesn’t mean you either approve of or condone those actions. It simply means that, regardless of the ill will they bear against you, you bear none against them.
To carry a grudge is like being stung to death by a single bee. Past hurts can destroy us if we let them, but through the act of forgiveness, we can find peace and move on with our lives. It’s not always easy, but the rewards are priceless. Turn it over to Jesus and experience the healing that forgiveness can bring.
Living forgiven,
Pastor Thom
Author and theologian, Dr. C. Baxter Kruger, was a guest speaker at a conference Marlene and I attended many years ago in Palm Springs. During one of his talks, he stated that we need to make sure we do not confuse our identity with our experience. For a Christian, our identity is found in Jesus Christ and in him we are made new—a new creation. "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here (2 Corinthians 5:17)!" But sometimes our experiences cloud our view of this reality.
Maybe we find ourselves repenting over and over for the same sin and feel that there’s no way God can continue to forgive us, forgetting that “there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1)”. We may feel that our inability to live a life of pure holiness places a dividing wall between us and our Savior because we fail to remember that “neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:38-39).”
Often we go through life, seeing what is right in front of us, but with eyes blurred by a confused frame of reference. How often do we allow ourselves to be blinded by what we “fear” will happen, somehow missing the clear and steadfast promises of scripture? After all, “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6).”
I wonder how many people dare not call upon God because they are sure that He will reject them just like so many others have. If they only knew him as he truly is and not as some have portrayed him to be. This is the God who came to earth and speaks words of love and grace to us, wherever our circumstances find us: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28)”, and also “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16).”
Regardless of what our experiences or our senses tell us is true, the reality is that the Father has loved us from the foundation of the world and that Jesus is the embodiment of this love. So why do so many have a view of a God that is looking for any excuse to crush us? Even at the fall of Adam & Eve, God showed his love for them by providing clothing; not because he had a problem with their nakedness (after all, he made them that way), but because of their distorted view of things that caused them to see their nakedness as shameful.
Mankind was brought into being because God is a relational God who desires to share His life with others. Jesus doesn’t just tell us how to have a relationship with the Father, but invites us into HIS glorious, everlasting relationship with the Father. The King of Glory refers to us as his us brothers and sisters because his Father has adopted us and we are now his sons and daughters, members of the family. “Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory (Romans 8:17).”
So, the next time you find yourself being blinded from the reality of the Father’s love due to your “present & very real” experiences, remember the words God spoke through the prophet Jeremiah (31:3) “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.” Learn to rest in his love. It will greatly improve your ability to see the truth and to truly see!
Living in his love,
Pastor Thom