I don't like it when a particular time of year comes around, and you're expected to get a particularly thoughtful item for someone or tell people about items you want at that time. 

I've struggled with coming up with things I want when I'm put on the spot, and I have a hard time guessing at or figuring out what would be relevant and beneficial for some people. Not for all people or all years, but overall, it's stressful for me.

My preferred method of gifting doesn't involve surprises, is much more personal (IMO), and shows that you care: When someone expresses a need for something and you have the means to get it for them, do it! 

Whether that's a car problem that's a strain to fix, a broken thing they need replaced, an overdue upgrade for a worn-out thing that's not entirely dead but they're not pleased with, or a dream they've wanted to try out but it hasn't been a priority, anything personally relevant is best. But those things don't always come up around Christmas time.

So, I have started to make an ongoing list that can be used to get me gifts that are just as relevant and freeform as I like to get for others! They're things that I'm either working towards getting on my own but can't afford yet, things that I'd really like but aren't a high priority, or otherwise, just good gifts for me on my mind. 

I don't expect anyone to get me anything, but if someone thinks like I do, this is an excellent way to figure out what would be good for me!