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You have met this stunning woman - and now you can hardly wait to finally meet her. But many single men are quite nervous before the big encounter and ask themselves many questions:
How will our first date be perfect? Which no-gos do I have to consider?
What is the best greeting - and should I bring a gift
Where should I go with her: what places and what to do?
What good questions can I ask her to get to know her?
What are the best topics for me to entertain them with?
And anyway: How should I behave?
How can I kiss her and get her to have sex?
How do I behave when saying goodbye and after the date?
In this article I want to give you answers to all your burning questions.
For this I will tell you my 12 best tips for the first date as well as the absolute no-gos (also in many further articles on the respective topic). This is how your date will be a success!
1. Fear of the first date? Being nervous is normal!
Are you excited before the meeting and are you already trembling to get the outfit out of the closet? First of all I want to reassure you.
Always remember: you asked her out and she said yes. That means she finds you very attractive as a man, which is half the battle.
A bit of excitement and heart palpitations is also normal before such an encounter, because nervousness is always a sign of anticipation, which also motivates you not to screw up the date.
And I'm sure your dating partner is just as nervous. So why not just openly admit at the beginning of the meeting that you're a little nervous? That takes a lot of pressure out of the cauldron and you two already have the first thing in common.
Here you will find more tips if you are afraid of the first date and want to eliminate your insecurity.
Many men ask themselves: what to do on a first date? That's why I want to tell you the no-gos and a few good ideas for things to do:
The no-gos: cinema or sauna as a first date
Remember: dating is always about getting to know the other person better. How is that supposed to work when you're staring spellbound at the screen and don't want to disturb the audience with your conversation?
I therefore advise you to save your visit to the cinema for the second date .
I don't have to explain that the sauna is taboo when you meet me for the first time, do I? Who wants to show themselves in Adam's or Eve's costume when they get to know each other?
First Date: Eating out at a restaurant or cafe
Cafés and bars are absolute classic places for a first date and can never go wrong. Because here you can talk undisturbed in a relaxed and lively atmosphere on neutral ground, eat delicious food and get to know each other better.
But you can also make something special out of this venture and stand out from the rest of the men. Tips for meeting are a shisha bar or restaurants with exotic cuisine. The cozy, romantic atmosphere will put the woman in a positive mood for flirting...
Creative date ideas what you can do
The first date in the park
Is the shisha bar not your thing or the restaurant too boring? Of course, there are also unusual and action-packed places where you can go with her on a first date :
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bike ride
escape room
romantic picnic
walk in the park
Skydiving, roller coaster at the funfair
Museum and exhibitions
flea market
carriage ride
Zoo with elephant rides
Ice skating
Christmas Market
The decisive advantage of such activities: Men and women don't sit across from each other like in an "application interview", but can do something in an informal and exciting atmosphere.
3. First date at home? And what to do?
Meetings in your own four walls actually have some advantages:
The wine rack offers a wide selection, you can cuddle up on the sofa with a good film and it's not far to the bedroom... You can also cook something delicious together to spoil yourselves with culinary delights.
However , I can only recommend a date at your place or her home if you already know each other better, for example from dance school, sports groups, friends and acquaintances, etc.
If the woman is a complete stranger (e.g. from online dating on Tinder ), it is better to choose a date on neutral ground in public. This gives her the necessary feeling of security so that she can relax.
If she knows you better and knows that you are a trustworthy man, you can always take her with you to your private realm after the first date.
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4. The outfit: what to wear on the first date?
Man chooses clothes for date .Of course, you should show yourself authentically - that is, as you really are. Who wants to meet someone who acts like an actor? Your outfit on the first date should therefore come across as natural as possible.
That means: Don't appear pimped out, as if you were a Hollywood star for whom the red carpet has to be rolled out. The woman notices very quickly whether you are honest when looking for a partner or just trying to impress her with your designer suit.
Just put on an outfit that suits you and underlines your type. If you lack a trained eye for fashion, take a buddy or a friend with you to go shopping or let a charming saleswoman advise you in the shop!
5. Behavior on the first date - tips and no-gos!
A good meeting always begins beforehand – namely in the mind. Women love it when they meet a potential partner who has charisma and spreads a good mood. For example, listen to your favorite music or goof around on the phone with your buddy to get yourself in the right mood!
Greeting with a hug or handshake?
But how should the greeting go on the first date? It depends on how the woman was brought up, how well you know each other and what culture she comes from. Not every woman wants to be hugged immediately, especially if she is a bit shy.
However, you should tend to establish a high degree of physical contact as early as the greeting . After all, she should get used to the physical contact with you right from the start... A short hug with a kiss on the cheek is not wrong.
Should I bring a gift or flowers?
Men of the old school naturally bring a little gift to the first date – preferably a bouquet of flowers. Stop, I strongly advise against such submissive gestures when looking for a partner!
Think about it: you don't even know each other and you don't know if this woman is even worthy of such a gift. So why should you shower them with the proverbial advance praise? If she turns out to be a great personality, you can of course give her a small souvenir at the second meeting.
What questions should you ask on a first date?
As a greeting, simple small talk questions such as "Did you find your way here?" Then you should ask interesting and personal questions to get to know each other in order to find out more about the woman: hobbies, travel, goals in life, etc.
If possible, do not ask questions that can be answered with a short yes or no, after all you also want to get the woman to talk and thus find out more about her. But also answer the questions yourself when dating, so that she also learns something about YOU and thus builds trust!
6. The best topics of conversation for the first date
talk about what Absolute no-go topics are ex-girlfriends, showing off your job, money and cars, and all other negative topics of conversation (war, tax returns, death, etc.) that can create a depressed or bored mood.
Instead, talk to her about fun and positive topics like fun past experiences, vacations, hobbies, music, sports, love, or gender stereotypes (yes, women like that, that's why so many comedians are successful at it). It's always about getting to know each other on a personal level to find out if you really fit together.
If you get along well, you can later bring up more intimate and sexual topics of conversation to fuel the fire of lust a little. Here you will find detailed tips if you are still looking for topics of conversation for the first date .
7. How long should the first date last?
Of course, the length of your meeting always depends on how well you get on. I don't recommend setting a specific length of time in advance.
Because what if the chemistry between you is so perfect that you don't even want to say goodbye to each other after two hours? Therefore, decide spontaneously how long you will stay and whether it is worth extending the date.
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8. The First Date: Who Pays the Bill?
Man and woman have date in cafe
In times of emancipation, one might think that women would pay their own bills in restaurants. Instinctively, however, every woman finds it pleasant to be invited by a man.
Invite the woman only if you feel like it and you had a nice time. Don't pay for the food just to please her, but out of genuine generosity that comes from the heart. You can also playfully ask the woman if she invites you. You will be amazed, many a woman will do this without batting an eyelid.
Another option: accept the payment and tell her to invite you to dinner next time to reciprocate. Here you will find more tips on when you should pay on the first date and in which situations it is better not to!
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9. From the first physical contact to the kiss
My Experience: Kissing a woman on a first date can sometimes be easier and sometimes more difficult. Touches are required! The first physical contact was just the hug or the handshake when greeting, but make sure that the touches increase! During your conversation, you can, for example, unobtrusively touch her arm.
If she likes your touch, you can take her hands and say, for example, "Hey, you have nice hands." Then you should use this situation to hold hands with her and look into her eyes.
Just keep holding her hand and tell her something, it's best if you inconspicuously bring up a sexual topic. If she's still holding hands with you after five minutes, that means only one thing: she's ready for the first kiss !
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Why not? It's totally okay for singles to sleep together on a first date these days. But beware: How open a woman is to this depends once again heavily on her values.
You will meet traditional women who want to wait at least until the third date or even until a permanent relationship. On the other hand, there are also more sexually open-minded women who are aware of their desire for sex and can indulge in physical love more quickly.
If you want to have sex with the woman quickly, good preparation is important. You can get tips on this in our article on sex on a first date . Otherwise, make sure to continue touching and bring up sexual topics of conversation - always with a certain level, of course.
If the date goes well, you can invite her to continue the meeting at your house. A good film and a delicious drink on the couch should actually be arguments enough...
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11. Saying goodbye on a first date
If there's no hot sex or kissing, don't worry. That doesn't have to mean anything. Some women just need a few meetings to gain trust and surrender to the man.
Either way: Every successful rendezvous ends with a warm farewell . Finally, hug her and wish her a safe journey home. With this last positive impression, she will keep your first date in good memory.
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12. Behavior after the first date
We men always want to have clear facts on the table and know where we stand - even when it comes to dating. Please never ask the woman afterwards how she found your first date - neither in person nor on the cell phone or via WhatsApp, Facebook etc.
This "How was I?" question just seems very needy and insecure. Instead, pay attention to their signs if you want to assess your meeting afterwards
But when should you get in touch after the first date - and what to write? A good gesture is always to ask if she got home safely. This shows her that you are a protective type.
Otherwise, you don't have to ponder how she found the meeting and whether you are still a potential partner for her. Because you can reliably read her interest in seeing you again from her behavior after the first date.
If she continues to respond positively to your calls and Facebook/WhatsApp messages, or even reconnects on her own, that's a very good sign.
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