Vicarious trauma
When hearing about someone's experience of sexual misconduct, it is common to feel sadness, anger and frustration.
Having a secondary experience to someone else's trauma is called vicarious trauma. You could also be at risk of being retraumatised when managing or hearing a disclosure of sexual misconduct due to your own personal experiences.
Signs that you might be experiencing vicarious trauma include:
experiencing shame, guilt and worthlessness
experiencing flashbacks or negative thoughts from your own traumatic experience
dissociating or feeling disconnected from reality
difficulty sleeping, eating or concentrating
anxiety, panic, low mood and/or depression
avoidance of activities or using alcohol, drugs or substances
Looking after your own wellbeing
Looking after your own wellbeing
It is important that you look after yourself too.
You can:
access support services including through the XL Team or externally through charities or NHS services
check in with others (being careful not to share personal details of what you have been told)
If you have been supporting someone's disclosure, it is ok to take some time following the discussion