When exploring The Enneagram, it's easy to get caught up in lists of characteristics that promise to reveal your true type. But, as you've likely discovered, this approach has its limitations. The truth is, certain traits can be typical of multiple types, making it difficult to pinpoint your exact Enneatype based on behavior alone.

For instance, a Type Three may exhibit assertive behavior, similar to a Type Eight, as a means to achieve success. But, while seeking success is a core drive for Threes, assertiveness is merely a tool to achieve that goal.

To truly understand your Enneatype, you need to delve deeper into the underlying beliefs, fears, and motivations that drive your behavior. That's why we've provided brief overviews of the core motives behind each type's key characteristics below.

Take the time to read through these descriptions, and then explore the individual type pages to gain a more comprehensive understanding of your Enneatype. Remember, it's not just about behavior - it's about the underlying drivers that shape your thoughts, feelings, and actions.