Lesson 4
Lesson 4
Topic: Greeting and introduction
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The focus of this lesson is "Acquaintance (part 1) and "introduction (part 2).
Click the underlined words in this lesson to see the translation. Learn these words.
Part 1
Ex.1. Before you listen the passage, talk about this question: What do you say and do when you meet a friend?
Watch the video "Etiquette guide"
Etiquette guide
People around the world say hello and goodbye in different ways. In Asia, many people bow when they greet each other. This might seem strange to someone in the Middle East. There, men sometimes greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. In most countries, people shake hands. But in America and Europe the handshake is firm, while in Asia it is often soft. So what do you do when you meet people from other countries? Don’t let these customs confuse you. Just be polite. When you meet, say ‘Pleased to meet you' and ask 'How are you?’ When it is time to leave, say It was nice meeting you’ and I hope we meet again.’
EXERCISES (click here)
EXERCISES (click here)
Ex. 2. Listen again and choose the correct answers. How many customs are mentioned in the text?
According to the guide, which is NOT a common way of greeting?
saying ‘Pleased to meet you’
kissing each other’s hands
bowing
shaking hands
How does the guide suggest people react when they experience a new greeting?
shake hands firmly
be polite
use your best judgment
follow local customs
Ex. 3. Complete the word or phrase with the same meaning as the underlined part.
The manager said, 'I am happy to see you’. P_e _ _ _ _ _ o _ e _ t _ _ u
Be polite when you meet and say hello to a client. g_ _ e _
Some people kiss on the side of the face. _ h _ e _
It was good to see and get to know you. I _ _ a _ n_ _ _ _ e _ t _ _ _ _ o _
Ex. 4. Read the sentence pairs. Choose where the words best fit in the blanks.
Ex. 4. Read the sentence pairs. Choose where the words best fit in the blanks.
1 bow / customs
Most nations have different __________________ for greeting strangers.
Japanese businessmen often _________________ to each other.
2 kiss I shake hands
Some people don’t _____________ unless they are in a romantic relationship.
Business people often _______________ when they come to an agreement.
3 polite I firm
Be _____________ when meeting new people.
In America, a ______________ handshake shows a strong personality.
Part 2
Ex.1. Before you listen the passage, talk about these questions:
What are some situations in which you have to introduce people?
What are the differences between good and bad introductions?
Watch the video
"Introduction Etiquette guide"
Introduction Etiquette guide
Imagine you are at a conference, talking to a colleague. Suddenly an old friend greets you. Of course you are happy to see him and you start talking excitedly. Stop! What about your colleague? Don’t leave her alone. Introduce your friend and colleague by saying “ I’d like you to meet… “ or “ Let me introduce you to …” Make sure each person understands your relationship with the other, and mention each person’s occupation. Think of something the two have in common and steer the conversation in that direction. This way, neither of them will feel left out.
Introduction Etiquette of Countries and Cultures
Introduction Etiquette of Countries and Cultures
- Asians (except the Japanese)- a gentle handshake.
- Japanese prefer to make a quick bow. The more important the person, the lower the bow.
- British – handshake or just a friendly smile.
- Americans – a firm handshake
- French – two kisses from the left cheek
- Italians – handshake or hug and kisses for the women.
- Spanish – hugs and kisses
- Swiss – three kisses starting from the left cheek
- Arabs – men only kiss men, and women only kiss women.
When in doubt, just let the person of the foreign culture lead. Be obliging. Of course if you are in dominantly in the company of one culture, follow.
When in doubt, just let the person of the foreign culture lead. Be obliging. Of course if you are in dominantly in the company of one culture, follow.
Don’t be fussed if you’re not used to getting kissed or hugged, even if you feel that this is your country. It is polite to grin and bear it!
Don’t be fussed if you’re not used to getting kissed or hugged, even if you feel that this is your country. It is polite to grin and bear it!
EXERCISES (click here)
EXERCISES (click here)
Ex. 2. Read this extract from an etiquette guide, then mark the following statements as true (T) or false (F).
1 End a conversation with a colleague before talking to friend.
2 Do not talk about work when introducing two people.
3 Mentioning people's common interest makes them feel included.
Ex. 3. Choose the word that is closest in meaning to the underlined part.
James likes to talk about his job.
A relationship
B colleague
C occupation
2. Change the topic away from politics.
A mention
B steer the conversation
C introduce
3. Karen is talkni g to a person with whom she works.
A co lleague
B relationship
C occupation
4. Let me tell you the name of my friend, Bob Hawkins.
A steer the conversation away from
B leave out
C introduce you to
Ex. 4. Where is response that answers the question.
Ex. 4. Where is response that answers the question.
1. Have I met your friend before?
A No. Mary, I’d like you to meet Polly.
B Yes. My friend Polly feels left out.
2. What’s your relationship with Helen?
A She didn’t mention your name.
B She’s my colleague.
3. Can I introduce you to my colleague, Daniel?
A Sure! Nice to meet you Daniel.
B Don’t mention it.
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