Someone once told me that balance in life is where you equalise the happiness and sadness, and let them cancel each other leaving a neutral emotional state. The tendency of humans to reach for the ultimate emotional satisfactions builds up the intelligence fade away, leaving one with loss of the best of what you have. Making the decision of which side let to be won is a matter of factors or merely a matter of emotional yielding. In most scenarios the emotional renunciation tend to lose against the rational decision-making.
The combination of Stupidity and Decision making blends the EQ side rapidly overcome the IQ side itself. From where life stands the subjective decisions are not the worst of cases but the decisions that affect other deserted islanders. Being a pack animal, humans tend to share the IQ and EQ harmonies with others.
The leap you take from ones’ self to another builds up the path to explore the difference of islands in both IQ and EQ areas. The match you find brings the best in you as well as the other if the limits are not violated, then again those are uncharted territory..
When we embrace the dark side of emotional comfort the brain tend to go to overdrive to look forward in further comfort where the imbalance starts. We having high rate of curiosity tend to charter more and more not knowing the consequences. The imbalance swallows even the clearest facts to a stage that it cannot guide you to survival. Giving in to the necessity of over satisfaction push people towards falling apart of the conquered island. Insanity comes to play where we let go of the hardest of grips that bound us to be sane and loose what we have conquered.
Being the victim of emotional imbalance makes you vulnerable to the little things that burn down the beauty inside but If and when you do not understand to give in and to move on, not even IQ can act on behalf and bring back the balance. We all go through the phase where we let our emotions dominate but when we realise our worth we let the IQ take over. That is where the peak of the mountain which is the hardest to reach.
We may go through hell but when we lay back with nothing to occupy ourselves with where we stand is the deepest darkest place which we all individually fear. It may be reasoned by another island or several islands but seeing where you stand and understanding your self while being ready to embrace the darkness and light it up with new ventures is where anyone can stand strong and hold their grounds.
Being unable to see the exact connection between two islands bring the people down to their knees where self-worth is pushed down to a questionable level. Whereas the human nature shows in acts of sadness and anger. TIME…. have become the best healer in action where with time the IQ part gets clearer and the EQ part gets brighter.
With time we learn to fix our emotions by understanding the factual representation of the acts we go through. That’s where we stop the life from playing us and start playing the game of LIFE..!!
-Daki-